06/04/2026
Most of the time we don't notice our breath - it just happens. But if we were able to really observe it, we would notice that people around us are breathing in a variety of different ways. For example, when people are in "fight, flight, freeze mode" they may be doing something called "thoracic breathing" - shallow and rapid. The body is preparing for action and needs a sudden burst of oxygen - but when that action does not happen, this type of breathing is counterproductive. It makes us feel even more stressed.
The good news is, we can calm ourselves down - just by learning how to control our breath. We can learn different techniques to help us cope better with all sorts of situations. I teach these as an integral part of my classes and I use them often in daily life - particularly when things don't quite go to plan. I'll be talking about these and demonstrating them in future posts.
I wish I'd had had this knowledge years ago when learning to drive - it took 5 attempts to pass my test because I was shaking so much I could barely change gear! Luckily I got there in the end - but it could have been so much easier.