07/03/2026
Should parent-carers take the lead in helping learning disabled adults get outdoors?
Its a bit of a paradox and something I'm often conflicted about. Here are some pros and cons that swirl around my thoughts:
On the plus:
parent- carers are often the greatest advocates, whatever age their child. They often become very skilled at advocating and seeing what is needed in many situations.
They are often ambitious for success and feel well placed to push boundaries with their offspring- employed workers may need to be more cautious.
Equally they know all the history and medical needs and know when to call a halt.
They are often skilled at helping with communication difficulties without taking away the choices/agency of their child.
The last 3 could also become negatives when parent carers are at the end of their tether.
Negatives - why letting others take the lead is good.
Parent carers are often over tired, if not from care, from being ground down by burocracy, unfair systems and 'keeping going' for too long. It is hard to summon the energy to take the lead.
Its natural, but scary to let your adult children go, but, other people have new ideas and different skills to offer. They also don't have the 'emotional strings' attached.
And of course, one day, parent carers won't be able to fulfill the role of being the one who helps someone get outside. We need a system to be in place before this happens.
The question is, how do we make an outdoor hobby sustainable without that parent push?
Thoughts?