Orange Blossom Counselling and Psychotherapy Services

Orange Blossom Counselling and Psychotherapy Services Andrew Frizzell MSc Counselling, BA (Hons) MBACP (Accred) EMDR (UK) And feel anxious talking to a stranger. Reaching out can be hard and scary! But it can help!

Maybe your struggling with anxiety, depression or bereavement; with relationships in your personal life or at work; with alcohol, drugs or a challenging behaviour; or just feeling sad and wondering where your life is going. Or perhaps you are worried about your sexuality and would like to talk to someone who is not there to judge but help make sense of what is going on for you and who has been th

ere before. You may feel embarrassed considering counselling as an option, having coped on your own before now. What is counselling and does it work? Counselling is an intentional and purposeful activity which research suggests, on average, "has positive effects on mental health and wellbeing" (Cooper, 2008). Sometimes we reach a point in our lives where we "get stuck" or find it hard to move on from difficult thoughts, feelings or behaviours. I know because I have been there too. But I believe we all have the capacity to self-heal, change and grow. And if you are reading this, you may wish to start your own journey. What do clients say? "I am grateful that i took the step to ask for help as I feel I have gained the
tools to help me address my anxieties. More importantly having someone listening to me (without judgement) and telling me that it is ok to feel the way that I do has helped massively and has allowed me to accept what has happened and that I can move forward without my pass weighing heavily on my shoulders. So thank you, you have helped me more than you can possibly know. "

"Counselling allowed me to reach my goal of becoming abstinent from alcohol, helping me to openly discuss specific aspects of my life which I had been unable to talk about with counsellors who did not identify as LGBTQ in a non-judgemental way. "

About Me

I bring maturity, knowledge, skills and life experience into my counselling relationships, working in a collaborative way that is non-judgmental, empathic and genuine. You bring yourself and your own knowledge, skills and experience. Working together makes us stronger. My Approach

I believe there is no "right way" to "do therapy" and each psychotherapeutic approach has its own unique contribution to make. In developing a shared understanding of what you need and want from therapy, we can work together in a way that best suits your own individual preferences, and effectively tailor therapy to your own specific needs. Sometimes we see ourselves as the problem rather than the problem itself being the problem. And I find it is more helpful to talk about what you are experiencing rather than merely label it, or indeed yourself! Our First Contact

Our first call is not charged and gives you a chance to tell me a bit more about what you are hoping get out of counselling, covering ethical issues such as confidentiality. What to do now

If you are interested in finding our more about me, or how I work, please give me a call. I very much look forward to hearing from you. References

Cooper, M., 2008. Essential Research Findings in Counselling and Psychotherapy. London: SAGE. McLeod, J., & McLeod, J., 2011. Counselling Skills A Practical Guide for Counsellors and Helping Professionals. 2nd ed. England: Open University Press. McLeod, J., 2019. An Introduction to Counselling and Psychotherapy. 6th ed. London: Open International Publishing Ltd. Qualifications and Experience

MSc Pluralistic Counselling
Diploma Person-Centred Counselling
Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction Course
CRUSE Bereavement Specialist Training Course
Advanced Alcohol Awareness
S*x and sexuality
LGBTQI Awareness
Registered Member of British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists





Alcohol Counsellor with Glasgow Council on Alcohol since 2018
Volunteer Counsellor CRUSE Bereavement (Scotland)
Private Practice since 2021

20/04/2026

Radhika Holmström talks to practitioners from across the field of psychotherapy about ways that the discipline can help an increasingly fissured society.

16/04/2026

The Client Is the Most Important Common Factor in the therapy process. A paper on Clients’ Self-Healing Capacities in Psychotherapy

12/04/2026

What if you refused to buy into the judgments your mind makes about you, whether they're good judgments or bad ones? Instead of judging yourself, recognize your strengths and weaknesses, and do what you can to be the person you want to be. Here's how.

06/04/2026

There are things we can do if we're worried someone may be at risk of su***de. One thing that can really make a difference is talking.

06/04/2026

ANDYSMANCLUB are a men’s su***de prevention charity offering free to attend peer-to-peer support groups across the United Kingdom and online.

06/04/2026

Poor mental health can affect people of all genders, but outcomes for those who identify as men - including trans men - and those who are perceived or expected to behave in traditionally ‘masculine’ ways are often shaped by distinct social pressures and stigma. Here we focus on the mental health...

06/04/2026

Some children did not grow up feeling safe to express their emotions.

Not because they did not have them,
but because those emotions were met with punishment, dismissal, or discomfort.

They may have been told:

“Stop crying.”
“You’re too sensitive.”
“I’ll give you something to cry about.”
“Calm down.”
“You’re overreacting.”

So instead of learning how to understand and regulate their emotions, they learned something else:

Hide it.
Suppress it.
Apologize for it.

Over time, this can shape the way they relate to themselves.

They may start to believe:

• My emotions are a problem
• I am too much
• I need to tone myself down to be accepted
• It’s safer to stay quiet than to express how I feel

And this doesn’t just disappear in adulthood.

It can show up as:

• apologizing for crying or reacting
• saying sorry for needing love or reassurance
• feeling guilty for having normal emotional needs
• keeping the peace at your own expense
• silencing yourself to avoid conflict

This is how someone learns to apologize… not for what they did, but for who they are.

But your emotions were never the problem.

They were signals.
They were valid.
They were trying to communicate something that needed care, not punishment.

And you were never “too much.”

You were just never met properly.

If this resonates with you, both of my books go deeper into these patterns.

I Didn’t Choose to Be Born explores how childhood experiences shape your emotional world, your nervous system, and how you relate to yourself.

Chasing Love That Hurts explores how those same patterns show up in relationships, especially when it comes to attachment, emotional needs, and feeling safe with others.

Both are available through the link here: https://linktr.ee/traumatorecovery

06/04/2026

What do you most need to hear when your thoughts start spiralling? ❤️

04/04/2026

In this video, the Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA) explains what EMDR, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, is and how individ...

04/04/2026

Is the standard 50-60 minute therapy session too short when working with complex trauma?

It's common for therapists to struggle with ending therapy sessions on time, especially with clients with complex trauma. The standard session length might feel too short to safely delve into and then retreat from traumatic material within that time frame. This can leave clients feeling abandoned or distressed at the session's end.

I found it helpful when therapists proactively discussed how to manage these endings, ensuring that I didn't feel rejected or misattuned-to. As therapist and client, we collaborated to put a plan in place which tried as far as possible to ensure that I didn't leave the session distressed: at least not because I felt rejected or pushed out the door.

The message I needed to hear was that it's not about the therapist wanting to get rid of me; it's just that the session time is up (and we can continue next time).

Watch this brief video here:
https://youtu.be/CgrV4stQ44E

04/04/2026

The Window of Tolerance and PTSD The Window of Tolerance and PTSD Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) can make you feel very helpless. At times you can feel you have no control of your emotions, thoughts, feelings and actions – however understanding more about how and why the brain works in the ...

21/09/2022

Choose radical acceptance of all your emotions.

Bottling your emotions feels like it gives you control, but it actually denies you control. “Think positive,” “forge forward,” and “get on with it,” we tell ourselves when we bottle emotions. And p**f, just like that, the unwanted emotions seem to vanish. But really they’ve just gone underground—ready to pop back up at any time, and usually with surprising and inappropriate intensity.

Brooders, on the other hand, can’t let go, and they struggle to compartmentalize as they obsess over a hurt, a perceived failure, a shortcoming, or anxiety.

Instead of bottling, brooding, or adhering to any other coping mechanism, try radical acceptance. See yourself as a living, breathing, highly complex human being, and welcome both the dark and the light with unconditional self-love.

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Orange Blossom Counselling
Kirkintilloch
G661XQ

Opening Hours

Monday 8am - 7pm
Friday 7am - 8pm
Saturday 9am - 1pm

Telephone

+447846727916

Website

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