08/03/2026
Happy international women’s day! 🥰
It took me over 40 years to finally feel comfortable with being a woman.
I’d made so many unconscious decisions about what it meant to be a woman. How I thought I was expected to behave, the limitations I put on myself in my head, and also the things I denied myself in the pursuit of trying to fit in to the feminist messages I saw all around me in society.
My generation grew up with the “you can do anything!” mantra……closely followed by “you don’t need a man!!!”….not very healthy or compassionate in hindsight 😫
Many of my female peers have had a very similar journey to me. One in which we’ve learnt the hard way that, yes sure, we *could* of course continue stubbornly “doing everything” and “not needing a man”….. but the truth is, we don’t want to 🤷🏼♀️ it’s exhausting. And full of covert contracts that never get fulfilled.
Journeying through my 40s I’m settling more and more into feeling so grateful, and so privileged that I was born a woman. And yep, FYI, I do unreservedly need my man 😉🥰
In truth it is an ongoing battle for me to learn how to put down the mantle of being so busy though. To do All The Things, and to be the saviour of a family that my nervous system hasn’t yet realised doesn’t need saving 😏🥴😅 This years word “alignment” is definitely serving its purpose though. Some big decisions already taken action on, and some more in the planning phases…..and for once this action taking will lead to a calmer work life balance 🙏🏻🤞❤️
If you are a fellow Busy Woman, just check in with your true motivations underneath the crazy schedule. Who are you doing it for? Is there a level of fear driving the relentless schedule? What are you afraid of finding out about yourself and the relationships around you if you stopped?
Then allow yourself to rewrite the script…..we are nearing the Spring Equinox after all, a beautiful time of year to pivot your behaviour patterns 🌷🥰 What can you gain from making those bold steps to a calmer life? Who can you allow yourself to be on the other side? What luscious activities can you add in that bring you more in to alignment with your desires? Your psyche will need to keep those in mind to enable you to work towards the life you truly want to live 🙏🏻
Happy international women’s day you gorgeous bunch of goddesses 😘 xx