26/08/2025
🌟 How to Support Your Child with Their ‘Back-to-School’ Anxieties 🌟
After 6 fun-filled weeks off school, the return to routine can be tough for children. It's normal for them to feel nervous or unexcited, but there are ways we can help them adjust smoothly and feel more confident. 💙
Here are some tips to reduce/manage their worries and ease them back into school life:
🕒 Ease Back into Routines
A few days before school starts, adjust bedtimes and wake-up times to make the transition easier. Set up a consistent morning routine (breakfast, getting dressed, brushing teeth) so they know what to expect and feel more confident. 📅
🏫 Talk About School Positively
Discuss what school will be like and address any questions they have. Make it exciting by mentioning familiar faces like teachers and friends! This helps them feel connected to the routine. ✨
For children with anxiety, especially those with autism, social stories can be a helpful tool. They offer a step-by-step breakdown of what to expect, reducing anxiety by making the unknown more predictable. For example, a social story could describe the classroom, teachers, and daily activities.
🎒 Prepare Together
Let your child help pick out school supplies like pens, pencils, and their lunchbox. Getting them involved in packing their bag also builds responsibility and excitement! 🖍️ This is also a great time to talk about what their school day might look like and allow them to bring a comfort item, like a small stuffed animal or picture, to help them feel secure and confident. 🧸💖
💬 Normalize Feelings
It’s okay for them to feel nervous. Encourage open communication and let them know their feelings are normal. Talking through these emotions helps them process and feel heard. 💕
🖼️ Use Visual Aids
If transitions are tricky for your child, create a simple ‘daily routine chart’ or a ‘now and next’ board with images for things like brushing teeth or getting dressed. This helps them feel more in control and know what to expect. ✅
🧘♀️ Encourage Mindfulness
Teach simple relaxation techniques like deep breathing or counting to ten when they feel overwhelmed. A cozy “calm-down corner” with stuffed animals or sensory toys can also help during stressful moments. 🧸
🌞 Start the Day with Positive Talk
Share affirmations like “I am brave” or “I can learn new things.” This sets a positive tone for their day and boosts their confidence. ✨
🤗 Be Patient During Transitions
Adjusting to a new school year is a big change! Remember that every child adjusts at their own pace. Stay positive and patient as they get used to their new routines and expectations. 💙
Let’s make the start of this school year as smooth and positive as possible for our children! 🌟💙
What other tips do you have to ease back-to-school jitters? Share in the comments below! 👇