19/11/2025
For generations, healers and medicine women have carried the imprint of martyrdom - the belief that sacrifice makes us worthy, loveable, or safe.
It’s the unconscious pattern that whispers:
“Give more. Hold more. Carry more. Your needs can wait.”
It’s the inherited belief that your value is measured by how much you give to others, and how much you endure. It’s an unconscious narrative that tells you self-care is selfish.
In this online ceremony, we journey to the root of the martyrdom wound - back to the stories, systems, and lineages that taught women to self-abandon, to put themselves last, and to equate suffering with devotion.
We honour the generations of women who held entire communities together while being denied rest, acknowledgement, or support - and we give space for what they were never allowed to feel.
Through guided ceremony, embodiment and intentional movement, we will begin to dissolve the subconscious contracts that keep you/us over-giving, over-responsible, and energetically depleted.
This is not about rejecting your devotion - it’s about liberating it from distortion.
It’s about remembering that your medicine is strongest when you are nourished, your service is clearer when you are not self-abandoning, and your purpose expands when you stop carrying what was never yours to hold.
In this ceremony, we integrate the ancestral, societal, and energetic imprints that keep you trapped in cycles of exhaustion, resentment, and depletion - so you can reclaim a path of balanced giving, reciprocity, and empowered self-devotion.
If you feel the tug… if your body knows this wound… you’re invited to reclaim the part of you that was never meant to disappear into service.
Join Felicity for this ceremony, your devotion deserves to be nourished, not extracted.
