29/04/2026
The topic of comparison came up in a recent group discussion, both comparison with others and comparison of our current selves to our past selves. Both of these scenarios can involve a lot of negative self-talk!
Whilst doing some sewing recently, I turned it over and was reminded of the conversation about comparison - whilst the "finished version" is visible to the world, the effort and stitches that are crucial to its completion are hidden.
This is true of people, too. We can easily compare ourselves to the visible aspects of someone, without fully recognising the "hard work" and alterations that have gone on in the background.
This also applies to ourselves - we are all a work in progress, and it's easy to forget the "stitches and threads" that contribute to our story and who we are.
Be kind to yourself â¤ď¸