14/02/2026
Look for the Love …..❤️
Valentine’s Day can make it feel like love is something you either have… or you don’t.
But this?
This is love.
For my 50th birthday, my 19-year-old niece sat down and wrote “50 Reasons Why I Love You.”
She numbered them. One to fifty.
And number one?
My smile.
The very thing I’ve been self-conscious about for years.
Funny how the parts of us we question… are sometimes the parts that shine the brightest to someone else.
She wrote about my authenticity.
My integrity.
How I am dedicated to my health.
How I give advice (even when it’s met with “Oh Auntie Jo, stop!” 😅).
But here’s the thing — she sees it.
She sees the grounded truth.
She sees the effort.
She sees the woman I’m trying to be. A good role model.
Being an auntie has taught me something profound:
Love isn’t just romantic. It’s not just candlelit dinners and red roses.
It’s mentoring.
It’s showing up.
It’s being a role model.
It’s staying aligned with your values when the world tells you to bend.
Love is in your friendships.
In your faith.
In the trees and the sea and the sunlight on your face.
In how you look after your body.
In the way you speak to yourself.
Love is everywhere.
So if today feels heavy… if you feel a bit lonely…
Look for the love.
It’s already around you.
It’s already within you.
You just have to notice it. 💫
And BIG BIG LOVE to you all from me 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚
Thank you to my nieces and nephew for teaching me the beauty of unconditional love 💚💚💚💚