12/11/2023
I've just written an article for Leintwardine Life, a magazine for the village I like to call home.
I though that I would share it here, there's some useful reminders for taking good care of ourselves over winter;
And breathe…
Relaxation tips by Tallulah Tay
Having temporarily moved to Leeds to undertake a Diploma in Children’s Counselling, I have become even more aware of how much I love Leintwardine! I moved to this beautiful, friendly little village in the summer of 2019, having lived in various parts of the UK and Europe. I can honestly say that I have never felt more grounded and connected than I do at home in Leintwardine. Being a member of Earthworm Housing Co-Op and becoming an active member in the community, I truly feel that I have found my place in the world. I remember buying a jute bag from Griffiths Garage, with a printed slogan ‘Loyal to Leintwardine’ and the sense of pride and belonging that accompanied that purchase. It feels good to carry on being a part of village life in writing this article, even if it is from afar, to know that I am connecting with familiar faces and friends and giving something back to you all.
The cold weather is upon us and as we sink into hibernation on the dark evenings, here are a few tips to protect your mental health and emotional wellbeing. Choose the ones that suit you and your lifestyle;
*Breathing; 3 deep breaths can really help to reset your nervous system. In through the nose, hold in your lungs for a moment and then let it all out through the mouth. Feel your body relaxing more with each breath.
*Catch a falling leaf! Such a fun activity to do, this really brings out your inner child and you’ll find yourself laughing as you try.
*Turn off the technology for 30 minutes. Go screen free. Choose an activity that you enjoy.
*Phone a friend. Write a letter, type a text. Communicate with your friends and loved ones who warm your heart. Embrace that connection wherever/ however you can.
*Keep moving. Whilst the urge to snuggle into the warm, find ways to exercise and keep your body moving. That might look like going out for walks, or doing chair aerobics.
*Light a candle. It’s so much easier to turn on the light, but candle light can be so much more soothing. Do keep yourselves safe around naked flames though!
*Start a Journal of Joy, where you record 3 good things from your day. It doesn’t matter how small they might be. Tea and toast will always brighten my day! Paying attention to the positives can really help to boost your mood.
*Eat nourishing foods where you can. Notice the foods that boost your mood or your energy.
*If you’re struggling with your mental health and need professional support, speak to your GP or look online for alternative therapies. There are people out there who can help.