11/05/2022
It’s Mental Health Awareness Week.
How are you?
I don’t think I have ever been so aware of MH as I am right now, not even when I worked in a MIND drop-in centre.
The pandemic, successive lockdowns, loneliness, financial worries, the energy crisis, cost of living, war in Europe - any of these in isolation would be tough but it has been relentless. All the while our lives go on and bring their own challenges. No wonder so many are truly struggling to find any happy feelings.
So, what do we do? There are the obvious answers. Exercise/movement are beneficial, stimulating those ‘feel good’ endorphins. Eating properly is critical, there is a huge connection between gut health and the brain. We need good nutrition in times of crisis. Sleep, of course. Give the body crucial time to repair and heal. Sure, these are all obvious and quite often they are the first things to go to the wall when we are low. Don’t want to shift myself. Want to eat rubbish. Poor or disturbed sleep.
Of course I’m going to say having a treatment helps, because I know it can. Going back to my days at MIND, the thing the clients most wanted to keep when facing budget cuts was the Tuesday afternoon with me. There, I saw clients with manic-depression, aural hallucinations, depression and many cases of severe self-harm. I had to build trust. Some were in physical pain, for others it was less visible but just as limiting. But they all knew after a little aromatherapy and some dedicated time for care, they felt better. They felt safe and nurtured and it was my privilege to do that for them.
But what if a treatment just isn’t possible?
Tell someone when you feel brittle. Try not to “soldier on”. It isn’t a weakness to be honest if you aren’t coping.
Gratitude can sharpen your focus - just three things a day. Could be as simple as feeling the sun on your face or hearing a cat purr.
When I am feeling low or anxious I ask myself if I am safe, right now, in this moment. Fortunately the answer has always been yes. We only have right now. And if right now is safe - then that is a good thing. If you don’t feel safe, please tell someone.
Help is out there for those who need it right now. Details below. Tell someone. Share it.
MIND 0300 123 3393 (open 9am - 6pm weekdays)
Samaritans 116 123 (always open)
CALM - the campaign against living miserably - 0800 585858 (open 5pm - 12am).
Good reads: Why has nobody told me this before? - Dr Julie Smith
The Comfort Book - Matt Haig