24/02/2026
Maybe, your garden is not growing, because everytime a flower blooms, you cut it, to prove to someone else that you are a gardener.
We do this so often.
Cut ourselves off.
Hold off.
Step back.
Pull away.
Self sabotage is the official term but that implies it's conscious. A decision we come to, for and about ourselves. But 99 times out of a hundred it's not.
It maybe didn't start that way but now, now it's as much an automatic response as anything.
We've become so conditioned to *not* that we don't know how *to*.
But just because that's how it is right now, and how it's been for what feels like forever, doesn't mean it has to be.
Just like these tiny shoots and hints of blossom, there is always a way to poke through.
To grow again.
To bloom. To blossom.
Just to be.
If you're stuck with all sorts and just don't know where, when or how to start, how about dropping me a comment or message. Or even just saving this as a reminder that change is always possible.
This is *exactly* the kind of stuff I do. Help people find their freedom just to be them again. Or a new version. Whichever feels better for you.
I never charge for chats or consultations. So go on, see where this might lead you.
All my best,
🌸 Lou