Incurably Wonderful

22/10/2025

This story has really touched our hearts 💔

27-year-old Tom Boyd, an autistic man with limited communication abilities, spent four years volunteering at his local Waitrose. He loved his work, showed up with pride, and gave over 600 hours of his time — supported by a care worker and loved by the team on the shop floor.

But when his mum asked if he could be paid for just a few hours a week to recognise his dedication, the role "just" was taken away.

Tom found belonging, purpose and joy in his routine — and that’s what true inclusion is meant to bring. No one should lose that for simply asking to be valued. Should they?

Workplaces talk about inclusion all the time — but inclusion means more than policies and partnerships. It means fairness, kindness, and equal respect. 🙌

Let’s keep standing up for a world where disabled people’s time, skill and heart are recognised as the value they are.

We hope that many share his story and that this leads to Tom being able to soon get a job that will reward him for his hard work and dedication.

To read more about Tom’s story here just click here:

https://www.ladbible.com/news/uk-news/autistic-volunteer-waitrose-loses-job-pay-request-400379-20251021

This post was written by Rocío Castillero, Incurably Wonderful' s founder. An organisation tailored by and for patients of chronic conditions and disabilities in UK

27-year-old Tom Boyd worked at the local store for four years

21/10/2025

This week (October 19–25) is Invisible Disabilities Week – a global reminder to see the people behind what isn’t always visible*.

The theme for 2025, “See The Invisible: Listen - Believe - Support,” encourages understanding through empathy. Did you know that around 80% of people with disabilities live with conditions that aren’t visible? This includes chronic pain, fatigue, mental health conditions, and neurological differences.

At Incurably Wonderful, we’re here to help make life with chronic illness and disability visible, valued, and celebrated.

Let’s take this week to share stories, raise awareness, and challenge assumptions — because true support starts with being seen, even when the disability isn’t.

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20/10/2025

20/10/2025

Empowerment and connection await at incurablywonderful.org, where adults with chronic conditions can engage in a variety of activities tailored to enhance well-being. Join a community that understands your journey and supports your path to wellness today.

20/10/2025

As the days get colder, looking after our mental health becomes even more important, especially for adults with chronic conditions and disabilities.

Check out our latest Incurably Wonderful blog, "Mental Health and the Cold Season," which explores practical tips and compassionate support for getting through the winter months:

https://incurablywonderful.org/iw-newsletter/f/mental-health-and-the-cold-season

Let’s raise awareness, spread warmth, and look out for each other this season.

19/10/2025

19/10/2025

This Friday, Pat, one of the Fabulous Ramblers got a surprise for a special birthday 🎉🎈Many thanks, Pat for all you do: every Walk N Talk on Fridays, in Sefton Park.

Happy birthday Pat 🪷💐🎈🎁🎈💐🎁🎈🎂

19/10/2025

19/10/2025

Disability Hate Crime – Know Your Rights, Take Action, Demand Better

No one should ever be targeted for abuse simply because of who they are. Yet, disability hate crimes are still happening every day — too often ignored, dismissed, or under-investigated. It’s time we speak up, look out for each other, and push for real change.

If you or someone you know experiences abuse, harassment, or violence because of disability — it is a crime. Here’s what you can do:

- Report it: You can report disability hate crime to the police online at
www.police.uk, by calling 101, or — if it’s an emergency — dial 999.

If you find it hard to talk or need support, you can ask for:

– an interview at home
– a carer, support worker or advocate to be with you
– an interpreter or communication aid
– accessible paperwork and formats
(These are your legal rights under the Victims’ Code.)

- Keep details: Write down what happened — date, time, place, what was said or done, who was there, and anything that might help identify the person or people responsible.

- Ask for the incident number: You’re entitled to updates and an enhanced service as a disabled victim — including extra support in court, clear communication, and follow-up contact from the police.

You can also contact:

– Stop Hate UK (0808 138 1625)
– Victim Care Merseyside for local help
– Disability Rights UK, Inclusion London, or your local DPO for advocacy and advice.

But while we can give practical advice, the truth remains — the system itself needs change. Disabled people deserve to be believed, protected, and supported every step of the way.

We call for:

– Better training for police and prosecutors to recognise and respond to disability hate crimes.

– Stronger accountability mechanisms when officers fail to act.

– A justice system that doesn’t make victims fight to be taken seriously.

Disability hate crime isn’t just a police issue — it’s a community issue.

Let’s keep raising awareness, supporting each other, and demanding the justice and respect every one of us deserves.



The author, Rocío Castillero, Founder of Incurably Wonderful was inspired to write this post after reading this article: https://www.disabilitynewsservice.com/disability-hate-crime-prosecutions-tumble-again-three-years-after-cps-admitted-figures-were-woeful/