10/03/2026
Abbie & Jack welcomed baby Solstice ❤️ At nearly 38 weeks pregnant I felt reduced movements and went into triage to be assessed. Following assessment and with medical advice, we decided it would be safest to induce labour. We were excited to meet our baby and confident in our decision.
The labour itself is a testament to beyond midwives. I had the pessary inserted and decided not to throw my birth plan in the bin just because things had changed. Me and my husband went through it and looked at what we could still do - I may not be able to have a water birth but I could still use my playlist and create a beautiful environment that would still release natural oxytocin.
When my waters didn’t break on their own a midwife broke them. I then utilised a passive hour (the first of two!) to see if my contractions would start naturally. Beyond midwives taught me to trust my body and that my babies birth was still in my control whilst balancing this with medical advice.
When the contractions started I remembered and worked with two mantras I learnt in the giving birth without fear workshop:
I let my body guide me and stayed mobile which is possible whilst having the monitors on even if it required a bit of manoeuvring. I was able to communicate with my midwife what I needed and they supported me and my husband in achieving that.
I asked for gas and air not realising how far along I was - I had been clear with what pain relief I did and didn’t feel comfortable with and knowing I’d already made those choices made me feel calmer and more in control.
Me and my husband sang along to Simon and Garfunkel in-between contractions and we still managed to laugh and feel peaceful even in a relatively clinical setting. Imagine our surprise when a midwife came to attach a trace on babies head (she loved to kick the monitor off) and told me I was 10cm. After another passive hour and then just over an hour of pushing our beautiful daughter entered the world. I had heard so many scary things about inductions. I felt at peace, in control and full of love. I genuinely don’t think I would have had such a positive experience if I didn’t have the tools from the beyond midwives courses.