Therapy with Abbey

Therapy with Abbey AuDHD Psychotherapist šŸŒ¶ļø
Liverpool | BACP Registered✨
No-Judgement, just real talk, Scouse humour & zero jargon 🌈
Free 20-min introduction chat šŸ‘‹ Hiya!

I’m Abbey. I have a diagnosis of AuDHD (that’s Autism + ADHD combined), which means i am extra spicy, so I know what it’s like when your brain doesn’t quite fit the ā€œstandard settingsā€! Like many counsellors, my path started from my own experience of struggling with mental health. When was diagnosed as neurodivergent at the age of 30, it felt like someone had finally handed me the manual to my ow

n head. It cracked me wide open, revealing years of guilt, shame, and those exhausting 'why am I like this?' moments. I’ve been through it all the tears, the years of masking just to fit in, and the slow process of unmasking and rebuilding myself time and time again. I don't just 'get it' from a textbook; I get it because I’ve lived it, and I know exactly how much courage it takes to start figuring out who you really are underneath it all." My journey has been messy, chaotic, beautiful, and at times, i felt completely overwhelmed. But here’s the plot twist: learning how my brain actually works changed everything. Having the right therapist back then helped me rebuild my sense of self, and that’s what inspired me to want to do the same for others. ​I am a bubbly, straight-talking, person-centred counsellor, passionate about helping people untangle life’s messy moments and reconnect with their true selves. ​Whether you’re neurodivergent, figuring things out, or just trying to make sense of a chaotic world we live in, you’ll find no judgment here, just empathy, compassion, and a dash of my Scouse humour. I offer a calm, supportive, confidential space where you can explore whatever’s going on for you: anxiety, depression, burnout, shame, guilt, grief, identity, or even that ā€œlostā€ feeling you can’t quite name. We’ll work at your pace, because therapy isn’t one size fits all it’s about finding what works for you. I’m big on building a relationship based on respect, honesty, and authenticity. That’s our foundation, and it’s what helps you feel comfortable opening up... and probably having a bit of a laugh along the way!"

Spent the day at Knowsley Safari Park and honestly this is your reminder that self-care doesn’t always mean sitting stil...
11/04/2026

Spent the day at Knowsley Safari Park and honestly this is your reminder that self-care doesn’t always mean sitting still especially for me with ADHD.

Self-care is less about what it looks like and more about what it does for you. So if traditional self-care isn’t working for you right now try something different.

It still counts šŸ¤

10/04/2026

Honestly the struggle is real sometimes 🤣

06/04/2026

You are exactly where you need to be, even if it doesn’t feel like it šŸ–¤

05/04/2026

Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) & ADHD šŸ’­šŸ’š

One small comment…
A delayed reply…
A change in tone…
And suddenly it doesn’t feel small at all.

RSD is something many people with ADHD experience. It's an intense emotional response to perceived rejection, criticism, or feeling like we’ve got it wrong. It’s not ā€œoverreactingā€ā€¦ it’s your nervous system going into overdrive.

It can look like:
šŸ’š Overthinking conversations long after they’ve ended
šŸ’šFeeling deeply hurt by things others may not notice
šŸ’šAvoiding situations where rejection might happen
šŸ’šPeople-pleasing to feel safe or accepted
šŸ’šA constant fear of being ā€œtoo muchā€ or ā€œnot enoughā€

But here’s the part we don’t talk about enough. You’re not broken. You’ve just learnt to scan for emotional danger.

When you’ve spent a lifetime being misunderstood, corrected, or told you’re ā€œtoo sensitiveā€, your system adapts to protect you.

✨ You’re allowed to take up space
✨ Your feelings are valid, even when they feel intense
✨ You deserve relationships where you feel safe, not judged

And healing isn’t about ā€œtoughening upā€ā€¦ It’s about creating environments where you don’t have to shrink yourself to be accepted.

Quarterly check-in šŸ™ŒI’ve taken some time to sit down and review my private practice from January up to now… and honestly...
04/04/2026

Quarterly check-in šŸ™Œ

I’ve taken some time to sit down and review my private practice from January up to now… and honestly, I needed this pause.

When you’re in it every day, holding space, showing up, building something that really matters it’s so easy to keep pushing forward without stopping to recognise just how much you’ve actually achieved.

Looking back, I can see the growth I've gained this year. Not just in numbers, but in confidence, in clarity, and in the work I’m doing with the incredible people I get to support.

This is your reminder (and mine) to pause. Reflect. Acknowledge the progress even the parts no one else sees.

I’m so grateful for everyone who has supported me, trusted me, signposted to me, and been part of this journey so far. It genuinely means more than you probably realise. Here’s to continuing to grow, evolve, and do the work that feels aligned.

Little fun staycation šŸ–¤ best way to recharge my batteries
02/04/2026

Little fun staycation šŸ–¤ best way to recharge my batteries

Today is World Autism Awareness Day šŸ’™I was diagnosed as autistic at 30.Like so many women, I spent years masking, adapti...
02/04/2026

Today is World Autism Awareness Day šŸ’™

I was diagnosed as autistic at 30.

Like so many women, I spent years masking, adapting, camouflaging, and trying to fit into a world that never quite felt built for me. Women are still so often underdiagnosed or misdiagnosed, because what autism ā€œlooks likeā€ has been shaped through such a narrow lens.

My diagnosis didn’t change who I am but it gave me language, understanding, and compassion for myself in a way I’d never had before.

As a person-centred psychotherapist, working with neurodiveregent clients is something I feel deeply connected to and the truth is it’s not that I chose this work… it found me. I think my clients knew i was autistic before i did 🤣

I’ve had the privilege of witnessing clients begin to gently unmask. To step away from who they’ve felt they had to be, and move towards who they truly are. There’s something incredibly powerful in that process of being seen, accepted, and safe enough to exist authentically.

That’s what therapy should offer.

Today isn’t just about awareness it’s about acceptance, understanding, and creating spaces where people don’t have to hide who they are.

Today, I had the privilege of delivering a talk on my lived experience of being misdiagnosed with BPD when i was younger...
26/03/2026

Today, I had the privilege of delivering a talk on my lived experience of being misdiagnosed with BPD when i was younger (which was undiagnosed AuDHD). Standing in a lecture room at Liverpool John Moores University the place where my counselling journey began felt surreal.

I spoke about what it’s like to carry a label that doesn’t quite fit… how it can shape the way others see you, but more importantly, how it can begin to shape the way you see yourself.

I explored the role of environment in mental health how distress doesn’t exist in isolation, and how often it makes sense when we truly understand someone’s story.

This is why I work in a person-centred way.

It felt important to go back and share this. Not just as a therapist, but as someone who has lived it, because how we understand people matters.

It’s Neurodivergence Celebration Week šŸ’›A time to recognise, honour, and celebrate the richness of neurodivergent minds f...
18/03/2026

It’s Neurodivergence Celebration Week šŸ’›

A time to recognise, honour, and celebrate the richness of neurodivergent minds from ADHD and autism to dyslexia, dyspraxia and beyond.

Neurodivergence isn’t something to ā€œfixā€ it’s something to understand.

17/03/2026

ā€œI should be further along by now.ā€ How many times has that thought stolen your peace?

Whether you just hit 30, you’re navigating your 20s, or looking at your 50s, there is an invisible ā€œsocial clockā€ that follows us around. It’s the one that whispers (or screams) that we should have the house, the perfect partner, the ā€œascendingā€ career, and the Pinterest-ready life by an invisible date on the calendar. This is living a life by performance not presence. I know I spent far too much of my 20s chasing an expectation of where I should be that it wasn’t until my 30s that I realised I was where I wanted to be, which was being happy and authentic.

Today I stepped out of my comfort zone.I co-hosted my very first workshop for neurodivergent individuals along side .pro...
14/03/2026

Today I stepped out of my comfort zone.

I co-hosted my very first workshop for neurodivergent individuals along side .project.official. A year ago, I honestly don’t think I would have believed I’d be capable of doing something like that. Being neurodivergent myself, I knew the anxiety would show up the overthinking, the ā€œwhat ifsā€, the self-doubt. The fears of ā€œdon't be too muchā€ creeping in from the past.

But I decided: feel the fear and do it anyway. I’m so glad I did.

Stepping outside your comfort zone doesn’t mean the fear disappears. It means allowing the fear to come with you while you try something new. Growth rarely happens where everything feels safe and familiar.

If you’re waiting to feel ā€œreadyā€, this is your reminder that sometimes confidence comes after you take the step not before.

Today was proof of that for me. 🌱

Abbey x

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