03/10/2025
In ode to Miss Taylor Swift and her new album I want to talk about one of my favourite lyrics and how it can be related to your nervous system 🤓
I love it when my two favourite worlds collide.
The lyric is from a song on her last album. The song being “I Hate It Here” Absolute mood given the current political climate. Anyway… I digress.
So let’s break down the idea that comfort is a construct and see how it relates to your physical and mental wellbeing.
The physical reality is that comfort is way more than a social construct. Our nervous systems are hard wired to avoid pain, seek shelter, warmth, food and physical ease. Safety is a primal instinct that will always be our body’s top priority.
Psychologically and socially comfort is shaped by culture, conditioning, memory and personal preferences. Your ultimate chicken soup recipe will probably differ from your neighbours, just as your idea of a cozy night in will be different.
When it comes to trauma and the nervous system, what we have been trained into thinking of as a comfort or as something from home, may be something that is damaging to us. Our environment, conditioning and understanding of shared meaning are crucial to this, as is emotional comfort. Emotional comfort can come from certain words and rituals designed to soothe.
Nervous system regulation gives us a foundation to build our own ideals of comfort on top of. We can create a sense of home within our bodies.
In short, comfort is both physiology and a social construct. Think of the biology part as a mighty tree and the constructed layers are a treehouse built on top of it for true shelter and safety.
I am teaching breath work and Somatics this Sunday evening! It would be lovely to have some of you in the studio with working on your own sense of cozy-comfort 🤗
You can book through the link below 👇
https://sirensomatics.as.me/schedule.php