
26/05/2022
Unlived emotions
How often do you silence your emotions?
Feelings of pain and mental wounds don't go away on their own. Unlived emotions, leaving them unhealed, stay deep inside and interfere with feelings of joy and fullness of life.
Unlived emotions shape future events in our lives. They also increase feelings of inner dissatisfaction, which can even lead to illness and lingering depression.
Sooner or later such emotions will "find their way out". In order for a person to be able to live through them and let them go. But if you deliberately try to stifle them over and over again, it will be a vicious circle, in which only one object - yourself - will suffer.
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It's like not finishing a movie or reading a book. Our mind will try again and again to bring us back to those circumstances in which we need to finish what we started and settle down.
There may be important moments in our lives that we need to live through to "finality": resentments, breakups, failures and disappointments, unexpected events, and more. And every such emotion will always look for an outlet. It needs to manifest itself where there is an appropriate situation for it...
But very often we just do not react, silent. And it is so important to learn how to experience and show these emotions, and not to hide them in ourselves.
Know and remember that unlived feelings always turn into "sores", they kind of find a place in the body where they can "show themselves". And you will carry this load, but you won't realize that you created it yourself.
To prevent this, you need to use techniques of work with emotions: keep a diary of "awareness of emotions", "feelings", talk and share your experiences with your loved ones, and if you do not want to shift the weight of your emotions on your relatives or are afraid of their reaction, then seek help from a good specialist.
There is always a way out of an emotional crisis. You just need to find your own.