Joanne - The WellBee’ing Lodge

Joanne - The WellBee’ing Lodge Joanne Parslow PNCPS (Acc.) Professionally Accredited Individual & Relationship Psychotherapist, Counsellor & Clinical Supervisor.

Sessions can be remote or in-person at The WellBee’ing Lodge which is based in London SE2.

11/04/2026

We Might Regret This

It’s a British dark comedy-drama, and the vibe is pretty specific:
• focuses on friendship, disability, relationships, and messy life choices
• humour is dry, awkward, and sometimes uncomfortable.
This looks like an interesting series …
What do you think ?

07/04/2026
04/04/2026

Here’s why self care really matters:

1. Protects your mental health
Without breaks or care, stress builds up and can lead to burnout or even conditions like anxiety and depression.
Self-care helps regulate your emotions and gives your mind time to reset.

2. Improves physical health
Basic habits like sleep, exercise, and proper nutrition strengthen your body and help prevent issues like heart disease. Taking care of your body isn’t optional it
directly affects your energy and lifespan.

3. Boosts productivity and focus
It might seem counterintuitive, but taking breaks and recharging actually helps you get more done. When you’re well-rested, your concentration, creativity, and decision-making all improve.

4. Strengthens relationships
When you’re overwhelmed or exhausted, it’s harder to show up for others. Self-care helps you be more patient, present, and emotionally available in your relationships.

5. Builds self-worth
Prioritizing your own needs sends a powerful message to yourself: that you matter. Over time, this can improve confidence and how you treat yourself in all areas of life.

6. Helps you handle challenges better
Life will always have stress, but self-care gives you the resilience to cope with it. You recover faster and feel less overwhelmed.

28/03/2026

Self-care isn’t just about rest, it’s also about joy and having fun.

As a therapist, I see so many people treating life like a checklist: responsibilities first, fun “later.” But later often never comes. And over time, the absence of joy can feel just as heavy as stress.

Having fun is not frivolous—it’s regulating.

Laughter, play, spontaneity… these aren’t distractions from your mental health, they’re part of it. Joy helps your nervous system reset. It reminds your brain that life isn’t just about surviving, it’s also about experiencing.

Self-care can look like:
• Doing something just because it makes you smile
• Being silly without overthinking it
• Spending time with people who energise you
• Letting yourself enjoy the moment without guilt
• Reconnecting with hobbies you forgot you loved

You don’t have to wait until everything is done to feel good. In fact, you’ll feel more capable when you let yourself enjoy life along the way.

Rest matters. But so does fun.

You’re allowed to have both.

18/03/2026

Little you may know, many people wake up at 3am, and a doctor said the night-time occurrence is a lot more common than some realise.

However, if this is something that happens to you, there could be a simple method you can use to remedy the issue.

ITV's doctor Amir Khan explained there's a way you can make sure you get back to sleep, which is good for both you and your health. He felt compelled to share the expert advice as so many people took interest in his video explaining just why so many of us wake up at the same time each night.

It's not the only guidance of its kind to be shared recently either. A few months ago, a neuroscientist also gave insight as to why thousands suddenly become alert at the specific time.

In a video posted on Instagram, doctor Amir said: "Guys, I shared a reel about why people wake up at 3am in the morning, and hundreds of thousands of people have watched it, but lots of people have asked 'well, what do you do when you wake up at 3 o'clock in the morning? How do you get back off to sleep?'

"Well, I have covered this already, so watch this." He then turns his attention to a previous video he shared, where he tells people what to do.

In this clip, he explained: "Let's talk about a technique called cognitive shuffling. You know that I've talked at length about the health benefits of sleep.

"But what if you just can't get off to sleep because your brain won't let you? Imagine it. Everyone else is asleep, the house is quiet, you're lying there in bed, but your mind won't stop churning out stressful thoughts.

"Work, money, kids, planning, scheduling, problem solving. Your brain is too active to let you sleep. In fact, the stress of all these thoughts tells the brain it's not safe to sleep, and you have to stay on high alert.

"So, how do we fix this? Well, rather than counting sheep, there's now an alternative technique you can try. It's called cognitive shuffling, and the idea is it interrupts your racing mind, and instead scrambles your thoughts, inviting your brain to go into sleep mode, and assuring it that it is safe to sleep."

Doctor Amir noted it's fairly easy to do, explaining you need to start off by lying down in bed. Then, think of a word that has no emotional connection to you.

The word should be neutral, such as "bed". Using this example, he said you should take each letter of the word, and then think of as many words as you can beginning with that letter.

As you do this, you should also picture these objects in your mind. Once you're finished with one letter, you simply need to move on to the next and complete the same process.

If you're still awake once you've completed the word, start again by using another word. Eventually, you should fall asleep, according to the doctor.

The GP said it's really worth a try, and it can be a super successful technique. However, there are instances where you may need further help.

What to do if you struggle to sleep
If you're someone who worries about waking up at night, it's something that can have a negative impact on your health. This is because it can lead to creating a vicious cycle of anxiety and sleep loss.

This kind of "sleep-specific anxiety" results in the body releasing stress hormones, increasing heart rate and alertness. This, in turn, can make it more difficult to sleep, leading to chronic insomnia and poor health.

If this sounds like you, you should speak to your GP for further advice. They will be able to help guide you in the best way.

Not to mention, you should also contact your doctor if you're worried about your standard of sleep in any other way. They will be able to help you remedy the problem in the best way that works for you, and further advice can be found at the NHS website.

✍ Katie-Ann Gupwell

18/03/2026

Happy Hump Day 🤣
Love and connection are not things you “miss out on” they are things you keep growing into, at every stage of life. 🤍

From a therapist’s perspective, one truth comes up again and again:
It is never too early or too late to experience meaningful connection.

Whether you’re 18 or 80…
✨ You can learn to open your heart again
✨ You can build safe, nourishing relationships
✨ You can unlearn patterns that once protected you but now hold you back

Love isn’t reserved for a certain age, timeline, or version of you.
It meets you where you are , you’re ready to be seen, and to see others.

Sometimes, connection looks like:

• Setting healthier boundaries
• Choosing differently than you did before
• Allowing yourself to be vulnerable, even if it feels unfamiliar
• Letting go of the belief that “it’s too late for me”

Healing changes how you love not your ability to love.

You are always allowed to:
begin again,
connect again,
love again. 💛

18/03/2026

Today, we join UKCP and 70 organisations, academics, practitioners, and parliamentarians calling for NICE to urgently update their guideline for treating anxiety.
The NICE anxiety guideline shapes how anxiety treatment is delivered in the NHS, however it hasn't been meaningfully updated in over a decade.

Right now, it recommends only two therapies: CBT and applied relaxation. This severely limits patient choice and does not reflect the full range of effective treatments available. It also fails to address how services can reach people who face additional barriers to care.

People seeking help for anxiety in the NHS deserve access to timely and appropriate care, regardless of their background or circumstances.

We're calling on NICE to act now. You can read the joint letters to NICE here: https://buff.ly/cIFpKE0

17/03/2026

Being your authentic self is a cornerstone of mental and emotional well-being.

From a therapist’s perspective, constantly trying to fit into expectations that don’t align with who you truly are can create internal tension, anxiety, and even burnout. When you suppress parts of yourself to be accepted, you may gain approval but often at the cost of peace.

Authenticity, on the other hand, fosters self-trust. It allows you to build relationships where you are seen, not performed. It strengthens your sense of identity and reduces the emotional exhaustion that comes from pretending.

Being unique isn’t about standing out for attention, it’s about standing in alignment with your values, your voice, and your truth.

You don’t need to become someone else to be worthy. You just need to come home to yourself.

12/03/2026
08/03/2026

Happy International Women’s Day
to all the incredible women,
may this women’s day be a reminder of your worth and powerful impact you have on the world...
❤️

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