16/04/2026
Just your gentle Thursday reminder that your baby also has hands on the steering wheel of your parenting journey 🚗👶
You can have all the routine and do all the planning and your baby will still throw you curve balls...because they're a unique, separate human being, like you, for whom every day can bring something new 📅
A few weeks ago, the baby boy I look after just started solids. His routine was pretty consistant (note, I say routine not schedule as I only ever focus on the order of the day if anything rather than specific timings) and, as it happens, timings were also pretty similar everyday:
First nap around 10/10:30 for around 30 minutes (he wakes by himself) 💤
Activity, lunch etc.
Second nap around 2 for around 2 hours (sometimes more, sometimes less) 💤
This week?
Routine?pretty consistant 🌟
Sleep, pretty consistant 🌟
Today?
Routine? Out the window 🪟
Didn't fall asleep in the carrier en route to our activity, didn't fall asleep at the activity, DID fall asleep as soon as we stepped on the bus home at 11:40 😂
Did I spend my morning stressing when the nap didn't happen? I mean, a little...but that's understable. Routine can be comfortable and change or surprises can throw you off 🙈
Did I adapt, knowing he'd eventually sleep when he was ready and focus on enjoying the activity? I did (mostly...i did also reattempt the nap after a little while just in case to no avail 😂)
You can't force someone to sleep when they won't and his hands are on the steering wheel too! 🚕🤷♀️