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30/01/2024

❌ Or****ic Block Number 7 ❌

Fear of intimacy 🙅‍♀️

Fear of intimacy and emotional pain such as past abuse, s*xual anxiety, or s*xual fears play a huge role in how you experience your s*xual self. Perhaps you love your partner, but you fear being vulnerable or intimate with them. Intimacy isn’t just about s*x. It’s a deep opening of the heart and allowing another person to share this sacred space within you. So when you fear intimacy, s*x can feel extremely intimidating. At first, become aware of what your fears are and then begin to speak about these fears with your partner in a way that feels right for you. By sharing words with another it helps to bring the unconscious into the conscious. When we become aware of our patterns and behaviors, we can notice when the fear of intimacy is beginning to happen. The key here is, to be honest with how you feel and your fears. If intimacy is a major issue, you may find talking therapy or hypnotherapy helpful.🗣️

06/01/2024

10 Reasons Why Women Can’t Have Or***ms During In*******se 🥀

Learning how to have an or**sm isn’t just about the physical act, it’s also the sacred journey into who you are as a woman. And part of this journey is also diving into the darkest parts of your psyche, into your fears, your anxieties, your guilt, and the s*xual shame, so that your seductive and...

10/12/2023

S*x is a beautiful, natural human need and the repression of natural needs leads to more problems and creates a society that is in denial of reality. 🔚

07/12/2023

❌ Or****ic Block Number 6 ❌

You can’t communicate your s*xual desire 💁‍♀️

We as women have been taught from an early age to put others first in all areas of life and also during relationships and s*x. Many women are not even aware they have a s*xual desire. It’s been covered up with the urge to people please. To put other people first. Begin with becoming aware within yourself first what your desires are and talk to your partner about them. The more open you become, the more confident you will become, and the more embodied you will be within yourself. Discuss with your partner what you enjoy and what does not work from a place of loving kindness, not judgment. Begin to explore together and find new ways to receive, experience pleasure and have more fun. 🗣️

05/12/2023

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27/11/2023

❌ Or****ic Block Number 5 ❌

Unconscious s*xual inhibitions 🙅‍

Masses of uninvited emotional baggage have been placed on women about s*x. This emotional baggage can derive from other women, men, religions, society, culture, and the previous generation. For some women, this baggage can cause them to play small and passive in the bedroom. On the unconscious level, they believe they shouldn’t enjoy s*x or they just have s*x to please their partner. Be open with your partner about these fears and blocks, because this will make the unconscious conscious. Write a list of your current s*xual beliefs, then write a new list of how you want to experience s*x going forward. ✍️

22/11/2023

❌ Or****ic Block Number 4 ❌

You find it difficult to let go and give up control 🕳️

You are midway through s*x and suddenly you have a thought that disconnects you from the s*xual experience. So regardless of how much stimulation you enjoy, you find it hard to let go. It feels like you’re hitting a wall. Part of the process of learning to let go also includes allowing yourself to be vulnerable with yourself and your partner. Speak to your s*xual partner about your fear of losing control and ask for their support. For a woman to have an or**sm in the presence of another takes a lot of vulnerability. When you are scared to let go your body naturally tenses and you tend to hold on to your breath. This makes it even harder to let go. The more relaxed you are, the more likely you can let go, so learn to get more comfortable about being vulnerable with your partner. 🫂

21/11/2023

Let's have a look at the s*xual response cycle 🤓

13/11/2023

❌ Or****ic Block Number 3 ❌

Too much pressure to or**sm 🤷‍♂️

Does your s*xual partner keep asking during in*******se: ‘Are you nearly there yet?’ Men unconsciously put pressure on women to or**sm because it makes them feel confident and masculine. They align it with their self-identity. They have yet to discover that presence and connection are more important than their s*xual performance. The solution here is that when you or your partner put too much pressure to or**sm realizing it creates frustration, stress, and tension in the body. S*x is like life: it is about the journey and not the destination. Enjoy each s*xual moment and pleasure without any expectations. This is the first step to becoming more s*xually embodied.

12/11/2023

Learning how to have an or**sm isn’t just about the physical act, it’s also the sacred journey into who you are as a woman. And part of this journey is also diving into the darkest parts of your psyche, into your fears, your anxieties, your guilt, and the s*xual shame, so that your seductive and unapologetic s*xual energy can become more embodied to reach a more loving and deeper relationship with yourself and your body.

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09/11/2023

❌ Or****ic Block Number 2 ❌

You do not know your own body and what turns you on 🔥

So many women have been fed false information about their body and their va**na. They carry shame around for just having a va**na. Shame for self-pleasure, shame for using s*x toys, and shame for the ability to s*xually express yourself. The solution here starts with understanding that self-pleasure and ma********on are healthy expressions of who you are as a woman and a s*xual human being. Learn how to let go of any guilt, embarrassment, and shame you may experience. Begin to explore your body with curiosity, openness, and fun. Discover what turns you on, and where you like to be touched. There are plenty of products aimed at women and their self-pleasure. Explore, have fun, and enjoy.

25/10/2023

❌ Or****ic Block Number 1 ❌

You're not s*xually aroused 🫦

There is simply not enough foreplay before s*x. Foreplay is the dance between two lovers and when foreplay is often missing during s*x it may be because one or both partners find it hard to let go completely. They may find it hard to trust and to give and receive. The solution here is to explore and experiment in a fun and loving way with your partner. Begin to have fun with foreplay. Have fun and do not focus too much on having an or**sm.