10/01/2023
Hello beautiful souls,
Did you know that untreated childhood traumas affect your adult life today?
If in childhood or even later, you suffered the following traumas:
• physical, emotional or sexual abuse
• physical or emotional neglect
• you witnessed the arguments between your parents and you felt helpless.
• you had an alcoholic father or mother with other addictions
• you witnessed your parents' divorce and you felt guilty, believing that it was your fault that they separated
• you lost one or both of your parents
• colleagues or teachers laughed at you and offended you
• you were always compared to others and your parents were never satisfied with your results
• you suffered accidents or operations as a result of which you were left with an emotional shock
All these traumas have left deep traces in your soul.
Traumas that are not healed and treated in time can lead to:
• lack of confidence in yourself
• you always expect validation from others
• fear that something bad will happen
• shame
• fear
• depression
• fear of abandonment
• making the needs of others a priority and neglecting your own
• allowing others to behave abusively towards you
• not knowing how to say no
• to always try to please others
• the desire for perfectionism
Now is the time to put yourself first and take your power back.
Listen to the voice of that inner child crying for help, and act now.
The power is in your hands and it's up to you to make that change that your soul has longed for.
You are the savior and creator of your own life and it is time to get out of the role of victim.
Do not allow your unhealed traumas to unfold on your child or children.
Perhaps you have often found yourself repeating to your children what you always heard from your parents:
• You are a fool! You are a fool!
• You are lazy!
• You are good for nothing!
• X say Y got a higher grade than you, why couldn't you get the same?
• I sacrifice myself for you and you are incapable of anything!
• I made you I kill you!
Well, if you find yourself in those listed above, it's time to start the healing process so you can learn how to forgive and forget all this trauma.
If you are fine with yourself, the others around you will be fine too.
That's all your parents knew how to do or could do at that moment, because that was their level of understanding.
And they, in turn, may have experienced their traumas, and they also did what they saw or learned from their parents.
But YOU, today's adult, have the power to change things and say STOP to this transgenerational legacy and stop letting these traumas be passed on from generation to generation.
Be the change your child needs and start your own healing.
Learn to love yourself and appreciate yourself more.
You can start by saying I love you/I forgive you and I accept you as you are every time you look in the mirror.
Start healing that wounded child in your soul now and allow it to grow and feel safe.
It allows that inner child to feel loved and appreciated and to heal.
Regression therapy goes to the source of your problems, bringing understanding, integration, transformation and healing.
The client needs 3 to 5 sessions most of the time to feel an improvement or cure of the symptoms.
The situations differ from case to case, depending on the problems of each client, their degree of awareness and also their desire for healing.
Until next time, may you have many blessings and love!
With love,
Sina