Heal With Pavlina

11/07/2025

Major shifts occurred.
The transitioning period was looonngg.
There were many detours. I wish I could say I took the scenic route, but it often looked like a haunted house.

𝑨𝒅𝒅𝒊𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔
It wasn’t chocolate, wine, or to***co.
More prominent was the addition to validation to avoid feeling pain! 🤯

One evening, I prayed to God to remove the pain I felt regarding a particular individual who was hurting me. Then I broke the silence and texted them.
The pain was gone because as long as they were still there, I felt validated!
Anger took the lead the next day. If you’re self-aware, you know your patterns.

The solution is not to avoid feeling your grief but to dive deeper to see what’s underneath it.
Fear of abandonment? Fear of rejection?
Do you need to forgive somebody, or the person in the mirror? Address that before you self-sabotage. Emotional pain can also manifest as physical pain. Don’t think that the body wasn’t listening. It’s okay to feel pain if you get hurt! Don’t get addicted to numbing it.

𝑹𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆
I’m ready for a relationship, yet I keep attracting people who are not. Is this a mirror or a test?
Letting the other be who they are while I move on is tough.
The one thing I’m clear on is keeping it in my pants until the prospective manfriend’s actions scream: I’m serious about you, me, and us.

𝑭𝒂𝒊𝒕𝒉
I don’t want to work with New Agey and uncommitted clients anymore. My faith in God surpasses my beliefs in Astrology and even Human Design. I still use those modalities to explain our operations, but we’re so much more than that. And when we don’t know the best way, despite today’s full-moon reports, we can always ask our Creator.
Surrendering to a higher power has kept me alive through the most turbulent years. It wasn’t ‘Creatix codes’, horoscope, moon phase, Shaman’s potions, or Tarot.

Woo-woo will always be in my heart, but it’s not my compass. My compass is God (the unseen but Almighty power) and my intuition.
Yet, observing nature can tell us more than the Bible.
I’ve always been brave, so why let the outer world dictate my life?

If you’re inspired to work with me and restore your faith, I’m just one DM away!
♥️

05/05/2025

❤️
Choose Love.
Even if it means it’s just you and God for now.
Choose the real thing over halfheartedness, self-betrayal, high tolerance for drama, and enabling someone’s vices.
Choose radical self-love to demonstrate your high self-worth and self-respect.

No one will give you a medal for staying where you don’t belong.
No one is going to put you up on a pedestal for having mercy on an unconscious, lost soul who has no accountability and cannot calculate the consequences of their actions. Let them be on their own journey. You don’t have to be part of it. Sure, caring about someone’s well-being is noble, and it’s not a weakness, but you can also care from afar.

Forgiveness is Godly, and we were all blessed with possessing that ability; it brings peace to the soul, and having no resentments will help you create anew from a clean slate. But you can forgive from afar, and forever deny access.

Look at the treasures opening up in you after interacting with the wrong person! Before, you had no idea about your dealbreakers, the limits to your care, the boundaries you need to install, and the dreams to entertain.
Thank them for it. 🙏🏼

Choose Love over Fear of Loneliness. Loneliness and Grief are valuable teachers.
Find better fitting activities to stimulate your heart chakra.
DM “Heal” to receive my free “You Can Heal Your Heart” blueprint.

13/04/2025

I often want to hide during my internal upgrades, waiting for perfection before showing myself again. Shedding the old skin and outdated software comes with some grief unless we’re robots. I usually emerge only after the new skin grows.

𝑩𝒖𝒕, 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒊𝒇 𝒘𝒆 𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒍𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒃𝒆𝒕𝒘𝒆𝒆𝒏? 😱 Will others judge the raw texture, and if so, should we even care?
What’s the worst that could happen?
I now choose to reveal my journey, imperfections and all, as part of diving deeper into my true, authentic self.

𝑰𝒇 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒍𝒚 𝒔𝒉𝒆𝒅𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒍𝒅 𝒔𝒌𝒊𝒏, 𝒈𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒅𝒆𝒆𝒑𝒆𝒓 𝒕𝒐 𝒖𝒏𝒓𝒂𝒗𝒆𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍 𝒚𝒐𝒖, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒖𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒋𝒐𝒚𝒇𝒖𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒔𝒆𝒓𝒗𝒆 𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒔, 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒆𝒍𝒔𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒊𝒕 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕?

It is easy to get caught up in stress and uncertainty; then we neglect joy. Pleasure-led coaching is everywhere now, reminding us to savor life’s moments—appreciating sunrises, enjoying food, dancing freely, and hugging loved ones 🫠 . Yet, being present can be a struggle.

On this Latin trip, I’ve experienced some dark nights of the soul. Opening my heart has brought up everything that isn’t love.

Shedding old identities takes time, but recognizing our progress can make the journey enjoyable. Life is filled with transitions—changing schools, jobs, or relationships—and every change, whether joyful or painful, is part of the experience. It’s worth it because transformation involves uncovering our true selves and embodying the best version of ourselves. 💜

If you’re tired of hiding and want to become more visible, I already see you! Becoming more visible is scary.
I can help you tackle any shame about who you think you are. All that you want lies on the other side of your fear.

14/02/2025

Here’s the magic formula 🪄

I felt happy before I was happy. I felt healthy before I got healthy. I felt abundant before I saw abundance. I felt filled with love and free before I stepped into love and freedom. It all started from the comfort of my home; with closed eyes, I felt immense gratitude that nearly moved me to tears. Then, it happened in the real world with real people.

Feeling is the secret—there’s even a book with that title!

👉🏼I’m thrilled to announce that after fully committing to work as a feminine mentor, I’ve attracted my first committed female client! I only offered one-off sessions for dabblers before.
If you haven’t checked out my latest offer tailored for women 💃 who want to stay in their femininity no matter the circumstances or their men giving them a tough time, it’s waiting for you in my bio.

The Sovereignty, holistic, and truth-exposing conference is just around the corner. ☮️ Today, I’m co-hosting a Valentine’s 🌹 speed dating event for some of us single misfits.

My leg is healing beautifully! It’s wonderful to have God as my healer, along with the rejuvenating power of the sun and sea speeding up my recovery.

✨I’m excited to facilitate a cacao ceremony and ecstatic dance next Thursday at 8:15 AM here in Bonfil. Join me and feel the magic of starting your day high on cacao, flooded with endorphins, and blissfully sweaty.

If you resonate with my writings, energy, and advice and enjoy seeing my therapy dance moves, why not try a short Healing and Coaching session with me?
Link in Bio.

Let’s make all our desires come true ❤️

03/02/2025

Unashamed

Today, I reached ecstasy quickly. I danced in the morning after a 24-hour fast and just got it.
This is the download:

Your shame and guilt block your superpowers.
Ecstatic Dancing is one way to dispel shame and guilt because you finally come to your core - you realize who you are. You are a divine being, unconditional love, that lover you’ve been looking for. You are connected to God, and nothing can change that. 💜

If someone tries to shame you, guilt you, or make you feel unlovable for things you’ve done or what has happened to you, you won’t care for long. Dancing - a movement meditation - makes you feel on top of the world; whatever comes afterward, whoever will try to make you small will hold no power over you.
You know what’s funny?
People project their own shame onto you.
Their taboos, smallness, limitations, and unconscious fears.

After you dance 💃🏻 , you will not give a single f about what others think about you. Their words do not affect you because you are so in love with life and yourself and you know you are Perfect in the eyes of God.
The person telling you otherwise is living their own drama and dellusions. Please don’t get caught up in their shame-riddled story.
You don’t have to feel guilty for being unashamed, wild erøtic minx, sensual, too much, curious, crazy, or a downright queen. 💁🏻‍♀️

I am interested in where I’m going, not where I’ve been. I’ve already integrated all the past lessons, and I'm still benefiting from them!

DM ‘Woman’ - to get my new free training!

13/01/2025

What is the nature of the feminine?
It’s like water 💦
The feminine essence is meant to be unsatisfiable, unsustainable, and unpredictable!

Don’t lose your hope - Women can be easily pleased!
But first, we must test the s**t out of men.
(Please show me how much you can handle me!)

Women can be grateful and appreciative. The goddesses in my circles know how to spread honey 🍯 around men’s mouths so they get what they want and more. It’s not always manipulative.
A queen genuinely cares about her king’s satisfaction and loyalty, and she loves him even more when he proceeds in a trance to do what she asks for. 
Women do the choosing.
Men are caught in a trap.

Men might be better at controlling situations, but when it comes to their ♥️ and 🍆, they are powerless.
I know many self-disciplined men I admire and could learn a lot from. However, discipline is not enough to immune men to the charms of s*xy, feminine women standing in their power. 🦹🏻‍♀️
Cannot fight Mother Nature.

If you decide to have a female lover in your life 👩‍❤️‍👨, life will always be a little dramatic. You won’t be able to protect your peace at all costs.
So - welcome to cool unpredictable adventures!

Insecure and secure women will always test you; we just love it.
We’ll test your devotion, integrity, and patience. 
We’ll give you riddles that are impossible to decode, even if you think you chose the correct answer. Because if she says Which one, honey? There’s no right or wrong answer, hon. You bet there is one that is more right. You are given a test and doomed to fail either way! 😈

David Deida’s chapter in The Way of the Superior Man (a book I recommend to every male client I coached) reads: 
What she wants is not what she says. 

What she says is not what she means—not always, but only 90% of the time.
It’s the female prerogative to change our minds often!❗️

My suggestion is to join in with her playfulness and not take her tests too seriously. And if she’s the overly serious one, make her feel adored and make her laugh. 

I’m opening spots for coaching while I’m in the Central America time zone soon! 🇲🇽

07/01/2025

Suppose a wise priestess gives you insights into the feminine. In that case, you’ll finally know what to do, dust off your masculinity, and be ready to lead the woman you care about! ❤️

My coaching is not for my prospective boyfriends; they must have been coached already. Many of my single girlfriends and I are surprised that grown, masculine men, have not been in our vicinity for a few years. (Did the covaidz eat them?)
Where are the warriors?

I stand by the conviction that men are hunters.
Let her be a woman—passive yet receptive, playful and caring, loving freely but faithfully. When you get proactive and make the first move, you’ll feel like a MAN! 💪🏼

There’s an art to pursuing and capturing her heart.
Do you want to start 2025 with a clean slate, wiser from your mistakes, and create a healthy romantic relationship? I’m looking for coachable male heroes! 🦸‍♂️

There are so many amazing men, but women don’t see it.
Why?
Men tend to tell us about the powerful new car they bought or their careers. But, men don’t show us how much Love they have to give or how they fear they’ll fall for the next crazy woman who’ll try to change them or, worse, manipulate them.
What we see is the tough or aloof facade.

❗️My mission is to help men understand women better and prepare them to make some women very happy one day soon!
I’ve already succeeded in helping men find a partner and mentoring them throughout to keep her. 💕

Imagine you could grow as a man of integrity, learn about s*xual and emotional intimacy and boundaries, and enter a romantic relationship where the polarity is alive. Your consistency will make her appreciate you! Check out my new landing page. It’s still a work in progress, but I make up for what I lack in marketing in my results. (More male testimonials to come)

❗️I’m client-centered, not just repeating a robotic system because it worked a few times before. I treat you as an individual with unique needs. I’m trustworthy, and I pride myself on keeping many male secrets.
DM: “What women want” and I’ll send you a link to my free webinar!

04/01/2025

Hi Beautiful Being!

Do you want to start 2025 with a clean slate, wiser from your mistakes, and create a healthy romantic relationship? I'm looking for coachable male heroes! 🦸‍♂️

Full article: What Women Want - https://us5.campaign-archive.com/?e=2cd129f20a&u=5cd6071866a873a1ae550b02a&id=850d537c6c

There are so many amazing men, but women don't see it.
Why?
Because men don't kiss (show) and tell!
Men tend to tell us about the powerful new car they just bought, the job raise they got, or how much their crypto investments paid off, but they don't show us how much Love they have to give or how they fear they'll fall for the next crazy woman who'll try to change them or, worse, manipulate them.
What we see is the tough or aloof facade.

Women are also angry because gentlemen died in the 1960's or when.

❗️My mission is to help men understand women better and prepare them to make some women very happy one day soon!
I've already had some success.

I stand by the conviction that men are hunters.
Let her be a woman! So you get proactive and make the first move - you'll feel like a MAN.
Time and again, I am humbled by the men who follow my content and receive my Theta healing and coaching sessions.

I understand if you have some doubts about all of this. Imagine you could grow as a man of integrity, learn about s*xual and emotional intimacy, enter a romantic relationship where the polarity is alive, and make her happy.
In that case, you can check out my new page. It's still a work in progress, but I make up for what I lack in marketing in my results. (More male testimonials will arrive soon)
I'm client-centered, not just repeating a robotic system because it worked a few times before. I treat you as an individual with unique needs. I'm trustworthy, and I pride myself on keeping many male secrets.

If a woman gives you insights into the feminine, you'll finally know what to do, dust off your masculinity, and be ready to lead the one you care about! ❤️

I'm waiting for your response.

With Love,

Pavlina

08/12/2024

Some of you may know I enjoy writing. DANCING is one of the subjects I like writing about. I'm also passionate about discussing personal growth through relationships, breakups, intimacy, s*x, healing trauma, and rewiring limiting beliefs. You can also read past issues of my newsletter, and sign up here:

To the naked eye, the dance floor was covered with 150 Czech-speaking adults. But to the intuitive insiders, we were a joyful [one]collective of innocent and playful children’s souls! 👶🏻