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We come into this world to learn, but then we find out that the only way to progress is to unlearn.At first, we absorb e...
27/05/2025

We come into this world to learn, but then we find out that the only way to progress is to unlearn.

At first, we absorb everything: the beliefs of our parents, the conditioning of teachers, the expectations of society. We build our sense of self on instilled borrowed meanings, imprinted into our neural patterns, especially through the Default Mode Network (DMN), which subtly dictates how we accept and narrate reality.

But then, if we’re willing, a shift begins.

We start questioning the operating system itself.

And in that questioning, we open up space, not just to learn more, but to unlearn. To see beyond the scaffolding of what we thought was reality. To glimpse the raw, undivided presence beneath our conditioned appraisals. A new kind of knowing emerges, not inherited, but an updated and awakened one.

This is not a rejection of what we’ve learned, but a liberation from it. A conscious reappraisal of reality itself

So many of us think we need to fix ourselves.But what if what you’re feeling isn’t a flaw…but a pattern your nervous sys...
13/05/2025

So many of us think we need to fix ourselves.
But what if what you’re feeling isn’t a flaw…
but a pattern your nervous system learned to survive?

This post is about recognition.
Your brain is dynamic, intelligent and deeply patterned.
Not in straight lines, but in fractals — shapes that repeat, shift and adapt across time.

Understanding these patterns isn’t just neuroscience,
it’s a path to more grounded meditation, clearer self-awareness and greater trust in your evolution.

👉 Swipe through to learn how your brain’s complexity is not the obstacle but the key to your growth.

The Flair Edit: SundayThere’s one question I return to when something feels heavy or unclear:“If this wasn’t already in ...
11/05/2025

The Flair Edit: Sunday

There’s one question I return to when something feels heavy or unclear:

“If this wasn’t already in my life, would I choose it again now?”

It sounds simple. But it reveals everything.

We often stay in situations, relationships, or keep stuff out of habit, guilt, comfort or fear of change.
But alignment asks something braver: truth over familiarity.

Letting go isn’t rejection.
It’s refinement.
It’s an act of honesty with yourself.

People are not objects. The question of what we keep because it connects us to someone deserves its own space, another post, for another day.

The Science of Escaping Without LeavingDid you know your brain can reap travel benefits without stepping outside your ho...
11/01/2025

The Science of Escaping Without Leaving

Did you know your brain can reap travel benefits without stepping outside your home? Recent studies show that immersing yourself in visual and sensory cues—like a photo or video of a serene sea view—can trigger the same stress-reducing and mood-boosting responses as physical travel.

When many of us can’t escape to sunny coastlines in January, engaging your imagination becomes a powerful tool. Neuroscientists have found that simply visualising calming landscapes activates areas in the brain linked to relaxation and creativity.

Take 5 minutes today. Sit by a window, look at a sea view photo, and let your mind wander. Feel the breeze, hear the waves, and notice how your mood shifts. Sometimes, a little imagination is all we need to feel rejuvenated.

What are your favourite ways to mentally escape? Let’s share tips below!

10/01/2025

Sometimes, awe arrives quietly—like the bloom of a snowdrop in winter. Moments of wonder, however small, can profoundly impact our well-being: reducing stress, fostering resilience, and sharpening focus. It’s not about grandeur; it’s about noticing the extraordinary in the everyday.

What steps are you taking to nourish your creativity? Share your thoughts below and follow for more insights on the scie...
09/01/2025

What steps are you taking to nourish your creativity? Share your thoughts below and follow for more insights on the science of well-being.

Grateful. Grounded. In love with life. Amid life’s recent turbulence, I’ve found beauty and tranquility that has deeply ...
19/04/2024

Grateful. Grounded. In love with life.

Amid life’s recent turbulence, I’ve found beauty and tranquility that has deeply fulfilled me. This past month brought unexpected journeys to Romania where, thankfully, my mum received excellent medical care, for which we are grateful beyond words 🙏❤️

As I navigate these moments and progress in my master’s program completing another module this week, the journey continues to unfold beautifully.

If you’re seeking a space to find peace and empowerment, I invite you to join me tomorrow at for a gentle slow yin yoga session at 1 PM. It’s a chance for us to connect, embrace calm, and gather strength together. I look forward to sharing this serene practice and moment of tranquility with you.

I am both Light & DarkFrom a young age, we were taught to strive for perfection and to hide our vulnerabilities. We lear...
04/04/2024

I am both Light & Dark

From a young age, we were taught to strive for perfection and to hide our vulnerabilities. We learned to suppress our emotions, which only led to heightened anxiety and a sense of powerlessness in unfamiliar situations. It’s important to understand that we are perfect just the way we are, with all our imperfections. Embracing what John Keats called “negative capability” and the Zen philosophy of losing our self-identity can help us find peace within ourselves.

To hold the mind in a state of acceptance without impatience, is a process, but it’s a skill worth learning. Recognising that we can experience a range of emotions, both light and dark, and still make wise choices is the first step in moving from mere positive thinking to taking meaningful action.

Starting my caffeine-free journey today feels like the perfect next step after committing to 30 minutes of morning medit...
01/04/2024

Starting my caffeine-free journey today feels like the perfect next step after committing to 30 minutes of morning meditation, practice, and movement for the past ten days. I already feel more energised and connected to my body and mind through these activities. It’s incredible how small daily practices can make such a big difference in our well-being.

Adding a layer of challenge to this journey, I’m currently away without my beloved coffee machine and my go-to brew. Despite the temptation to indulge in hotel coffee, I’ve decided to see how I fare without it. It’s a test of willpower and resilience, but I’m determined to stay committed to reducing caffeine intake.

As I continue to prioritise self-care and mindfulness, I’m excited to see how this journey unfolds. Your insights and encouragement mean the world to me as I embrace this new chapter. Let’s keep inspiring each other to thrive! 🌱💫

Stepping back into the rhythm of my daily 5-10-minute morning journaling practice feels like reconnecting with an old fr...
23/03/2024

Stepping back into the rhythm of my daily 5-10-minute morning journaling practice feels like reconnecting with an old friend – familiar yet refreshing. It is also a practice I suggest to my coaching clients as it does miracles.

As I dive into the pages, I’m reminded of the power within these lines – not just to capture my ideas but to sift through them, discerning the gems from the distractions.

In this tender period of my life, this practice isn’t just helpful; it’s become a lifeline, guiding me through moments of uncertainty and vulnerability. With each stroke of the pen, I’m not just writing; I’m unravelling, shedding the unnecessary layers and making room for growth. 🌱✨

Here’s to the journey of journaling – a practice that empowers us to let go, grow, and embrace the beauty of self-discovery.

✨ FEELING HAPPY ✨ I just received my grade for my Coursework research project on Adverse Childhood Experiences, and I am...
04/03/2024

✨ FEELING HAPPY ✨ I just received my grade for my Coursework research project on Adverse Childhood Experiences, and I am thrilled with the results and feedback! I was initially nervous about taking on a research project as I had never done one before, and it is always challenging to present your ideas about academic research.

However, I can confidently say that it was the best decision I made.
I received excellent feedback, a great grade, and a renewed desire to continue exploring and sharing the latest information in the field.

Research is not an easy task, requiring critical thinking, appropriate arguments, and much hard work. But the rewards are worth it!

I encourage everyone to pursue their dreams and desires, take things slow, ask for feedback and help, keep exploring, and trust their ideas. The only failure is giving up!

Disclosure: The photo was taken at a country farm in Marrakesh, a place that recently inspired me and showed me what I love in life.

Joyful first day of spring, Romania! Sending wishes for an everlasting spring in your hearts, filled with moments to pau...
01/03/2024

Joyful first day of spring, Romania! Sending wishes for an everlasting spring in your hearts, filled with moments to pause and embrace what truly matters. ❤️🌷❤️🌷

Primăvara deschide porți către suflet și către vise. Să ne lăsăm inima să înflorească și să ne călăuzească către ceea ce contează cu adevărat. O primăvară luminată și plină de realizări pentru fiecare dintre noi! ❤️🌼❤️🌼

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