11/05/2022
No, but really…how are you?
It’s the middle of the week. It’s also . So…how are you doing? When I ask this, I don’t mean at this very moment tell me the emotion you’re feeling. Instead, I’m wondering how things have been. How have you been the last few days…how has work been going…how is your relationship doing.
Sometimes if we’re overwhelmed in a moment it can feel like it’s a representative of our whole life. ‘Omg everything is going wrong, nothing is going my way, I’m failing’, basically. And how we FEEL in those moments are valid…but that doesn’t make them true.
Maintaining perspective is one of the hardest types of awareness that I personally struggle with, but this can go both ways. If you’re like me it’s sometimes hard to remember all of the amazing things happening in your life…but for others it can be hard to recognise how not okay you are and actually things aren’t all amazing at the moment.
So here’s a prompt to do a little self check-in, and if you need help, call up one of your closest friends to go and have a coffee or dinner this week so that you can create that safe space to talk about it. Sometimes all it takes is knowing someone cares.