16/01/2026
All couples experience conflict.�The difference is in how you manage it.
Fair fighting doesn’t mean avoiding hard conversations, it means learning to work through them with respect.
If arguments in your relationship feel repetitive, overwhelming, or unresolved, it’s often not just about the topic, but how it’s being approached.
We’ve shared 7 Fair Fighting Rules here, but you can also download our full free guide with all 11 rules, plus examples and reflection prompts:�
https://www.vituswellbeing.com/resources/fair-fighting-rules