28/08/2025
Thoughtful Thursday's
Being kind is not just about what we project our into the world but about being mindful of the inner dialogue. Learning to filter the stuff that causes us to be over judgmental.
Can we irradiated judgements, may be not? Is it the polar opposite of kindness, and it exists so we can know and understand kindness more?
Can we use judgements to better understand our relationship with kindness, others, and ourselves?
Humans are judgmental? it's in our nature? We judge the outfit we are going to wear or the breakfast our partner eats with a yuck face 🤮
We notice one dragon fly is prettier than another.
We use our judgements to mock and tease, and call it banter. Trying to find less harsh ways to justify its use?
You can't stop people from having opinions, feeling/ sharing their truth, or not knowing what they don't know yet 🤷♀️
I used to think (judge), judgements are harmful! Now I wonder if the most harmful thing is how weperceivee and internalise judgements?
How we own them and let them get under our skin. In everything, there are elements of take it or leave it. You are a unique being, and where you are right now is perhaps where you are supposed to be?
Perhaps your "awakening" is happening right where others can't see, or perhaps it doesn't matter at all 💜💫?
I wonder if the key thing is to be kind enough to ourselves not to change and be manipulated by others' judgements? 🤔
Instead to listen, feel, and flow in the way that feels right for us. Not to get stuck in overthinking?
What if today you dropped the labels?
What if you didn't need to be the best one, the most intelligent one, the best-looking one, the most enlightened one? Would you find the freedom in it?
I wonder? 🤔💜💫
Who knows? 🤷♀️
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