Dinky Debs the Medium

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14/02/2026

I drive Uber. Night shift mostly. Last week picked up an old man at 11 PM. He got in and said: "I need you to drive me to five places tonight. I'll pay you $500. Cash. But you can't ask why until we're done." Handed me five addresses. First stop: a house in the suburbs. He sat in the car. Stared at it for ten minutes. Crying silently. "Okay. Next one." I drove.

Second stop: elementary school. Empty. Dark. He got out. Walked to the playground. Sat on a swing. Stayed there twenty minutes. Came back to the car. "I taught here. 43 years. Best job I ever had." Third stop: diner. He went inside. Ordered coffee. Sat alone in a booth. Didn't drink it. Just sat. Looking around. Fifteen minutes. Came back. "My wife and I had our first date here. 1967." Fourth stop: cemetery.

He got out at the cemetery. Walked to a grave. Stood there. Talking to it. Couldn't hear what he said. Thirty minutes. When he came back his eyes were red. "My wife. Three years today." Fifth stop: hospital. He asked me to park. Wait. "This is the last one." He looked at me. "Now I'll tell you why. I have stage four cancer. Weeks left. Maybe days. Tonight I wanted to see my whole life. One last time. Before I can't anymore."

I started crying. Right there. "The house - that's where I raised my kids. The school - where I found my purpose. The diner - where I fell in love. The cemetery - where I said goodbye. And here. The hospital. Where I'm checking in tonight. Hospice floor. I'm not going home." He handed me $500. "Thank you for driving me through my life. You're the last stranger who'll ever be kind to me. I wanted it to be gentle. You made it gentle."

I refused the money. "I can't take this." He insisted. "Please. I have nobody to leave it to. My kids don't talk to me. I have no friends left. You gave me three hours of kindness. That's worth more than $500 to me." He got out. Grabbed his small suitcase. Turned back. "What's your name?" "Marcus." "Thank you, Marcus. For being the last good thing." He walked into the hospital. I sat in my car. Sobbing. For an hour.

Couldn't stop thinking about him. Went back next day. Asked for him. "Mr. Patterson. Room 412." Brought flowers. Knocked. He was in bed. Smiled when he saw me. "Marcus. You came back." "Couldn't leave it like that. Are you okay?" "Dying. But I got to see my life last night. So yes. I'm okay." We talked for two hours. About his wife. His students. The kids who stopped calling. The life he lived.

I visited every day for two weeks. Brought coffee. Read him the news. Sat in silence sometimes. He told me everything. The regrets. The joys. The moments he'd relive. "I thought I'd die alone," he said one day. "But you're here. A stranger who became family in my last days. That's a gift." I held his hand. "You're not dying alone. Not anymore." He cried. "Thank you for seeing me. When I was invisible."

Mr. Patterson died on a Tuesday. 3:17 AM. I was there. Holding his hand. His last words: "Tell people. Tell them to look at strangers. Really look. Everyone's dying. Some faster than others. But we're all heading somewhere. Be kind on the way. You were kind. You saved my last days." He closed his eyes. Heart monitor flatlined. I stayed another hour. Couldn't let go. He died with someone. That mattered.

His funeral had six people. Me. Three nurses. A lawyer. One former student who saw the obituary. That's it. A man who taught for 43 years. Loved a woman for 52. Lived 81 years. Six people. I spoke. "Mr. Patterson taught me something in his last two weeks.

Every stranger is someone's whole world. Every Uber passenger has a story. Every person you pass is living and dying and hoping someone sees them. He paid me $500 to drive him through his life. But he gave me something worth more. The knowledge that kindness to strangers isn't extra. It's everything. Because we're all strangers. Until someone stops. Looks. Listens. Stays." I keep the $500 in my glove box. Never spent it. It's a reminder.

Every passenger might be taking their last ride. Every stranger might be saying their last goodbye. So I drive different now. I ask questions. I listen. I see people. Because of an old man who needed one last gentle night. And a stranger who stayed. Be that stranger. Please. Someone's taking their last ride tonight. Make it gentle.

"Quiet Moments, Loud Truths."
A forwarded post but worth sharing...

13/02/2026

When life is tough and grey it is even more important that we bring the joy into our lives , however small or insignificant they may seem to others. What brings you joy?

26/01/2026

How do I do a reading over zoom? Probably one of the most asked questions and hope this little video gives you more of an idea ♥️

22/01/2026

An updated video of Orbs just taken, yet again evidence and validation of the spirit world and that our loved ones just continue in another form. Lots of love to you all and please let me know if you have any questions. ###

A mix of news for my lovely followers.I have just put up my February days with some eveningappointments in too !I have a...
01/12/2025

A mix of news for my lovely followers.
I have just put up my February days with some evening
appointments in too !

I have also had to put my prices up a small amount
( please thank the UK government)

I'm also trying a slightly different workflow so please give me feedback if you book

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Welcome to my scheduling page. Please follow the instructions to add an event to my calendar. If you cant see a date that suits, please don't hesitate to contact me at info@dinkydebs.com and let me know what dates you are looking for.

This is why I do what I do. Wherever possible I try and take the fear out of having a reading as to me it should just be...
01/12/2025

This is why I do what I do. Wherever possible I try and take the fear out of having a reading as to me it should just be about evidence of the afterlife. When people come for reading they don’t always get what they want but they do get what they need. This lovely man felt so light and comforted by his first experience and that’s how it always should be . Love and light to you all . Love Dinky Debs ###

Thank you to all 150 of those that came and bought a ticket, contributed to the raffle and supported our evening. Even i...
27/11/2025

Thank you to all 150 of those that came and bought a ticket, contributed to the raffle and supported our evening. Even if one life is saved …… thank you 🙏

22/10/2025

Thank you so much , I hope to see you again ###

Absolutely blown away by the amazing evening.We are now SO CLOSE to a phenomenal target and with our raffle being drawn ...
20/10/2025

Absolutely blown away by the amazing evening.

We are now SO CLOSE to a phenomenal target and with our raffle being drawn electronically on Saturday 25th October there is still time to buy a £5 raffle ticket to win one of our fabulous prizes! Let’s get to £10k!
💙💙💙
Just £12.20 could help CALM answer a life-saving call, so we have potentially saved 819 lives with our fundraising efforts so far and we are so proud 💙💙💙

And finally, a huge thank you to our special guest Michelle Collins for your unwavering support, special auction item and for generally being fabulous!

To donate or buy a raffle ticket https://www.dinkydebsthemedium.com/event-info/an-evening-of-mediumship-and-spiritual-q-a-in-aid-of-calm-suicide-prevention

14/10/2025

Thanks so much to The Choir of Man for supporting our fundraiser , raising money for CALM. Thanks for the raffle prize to your phenomenal show and shout out

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