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Mindful Gay Sex & Intimacy Coaching

One of the UK's most unique s*x and intimacy coaches for gay, bi and curious men.

Practical, hands-on coaching for men who want to work body to body with another man

03/01/2026

Here’s what I know: your body already has all the resources it needs for deeper intimacy.

I can help you unlock them.

This isn’t just about s-x.

This is about building life skills—skills that keep you grounded, feeling alive, and connected in every part of your life.

My coaching supports you to expand your capacity to notice and choose what you really want and to be able to change what’s not working.

Which opens up a whole new level of intimacy – firstly with yourself, and then with others.

Learn more at my website – check my bio – or visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

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02/01/2026

In sessions with me I’m led by you and your needs.

I offer a gentle, reliable presence so that all parts of you can feel as welcome, held, and safe as possible.

Attentiveness and kindness are my watchwords.

If that sounds good to you, check out my website to learn more about what’s possible in sessions with me - both coaching, and play.

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01/01/2026

If you’re already feeling insecure or anxious about physical intimacy I know how tempting it can be to avoid it altogether.

But avoidance doesn’t bring clarity or growth.

At best, you stay stuck in old patterns. At worst, the disconnection deepens.

But when you take action? That’s where transformation happens.

Of course, there’s always a good reason to put it off - tomorrow, next week, next year…

Well, now it’s next year!

Time to do it differently?

I’m here to help, support and guide you. Man to man. Body to body.

Learn more about what’s possible at my website – visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

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31/12/2025

I’ll be honest, 2025 has been a pretty challenging year for me.

A lot of it’s been about clinging on, trying to rebuild, and just putting one foot in front of the other.

I’ve had to shrink, and go inwards, take up less space in order to protect my resources.

I know that life ebbs and flows, and we need times of introspection as well as times of expansion.

But I miss the fierce vibrancy, and the adventure that I know I’m capable of. Thriving rather than simply surviving.

So I’m calling that part of me in again for the year ahead!

Who do you want to be in 2026?

Share in the comments below…

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30/12/2025

We all do it - click on the thirst trap.

S-x sells (apparently)… you only need to look at the amount of flesh on display on social media to see that!

But who decides what’s s-xy?

When was the last time you paused to pay attention to what you find attractive, and why?

Here’s my invitation:

Next time you find yourself feeling attracted, titillated, turned on or aroused by something (a person, a photo, a video…) - even if it’s just a flicker - take a moment to notice what it is that’s drawing you.

What about that feels familar? Or comforting?

What feels surprising?

Starting to notice yourself and your desires more clearly and consciously is the start of building a more authentic relationship with pleasure and connection.

Get in touch if you want me to support you on that journey - book a free Clarity Call, visit: https://tidycal.com/michael-dresser/clarity-call

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29/12/2025

Despite what p-rn or the movies would have you believe it’s actually pretty difficult to climax at exactly the same time as your partner.

And one of the things I’ve found is that trying to focus on syncing up with someone else actually distracts me from my own pleasure..

And then neither of us end up having such a good time.

My advice? Try focussing less on trying to reach a particular outcome, and focus more on what feels good moment to moment.

Want more of my help and support?

Take your first step towards more connected pleasure in your life - book a free Clarity Call, visit: https://tidycal.com/michael-dresser/clarity-call

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28/12/2025

Creating more pleasure is less about the specifics of what you’re doing…

And much more about creating as much safety and trust as possible.

And that starts with yourself.

Learn and practice skills for more enjoyable, connected physical intimacy.

Find out more at my website – visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

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27/12/2025

My work is anchored in principles which are embodied (felt) and mindful (aware).

In sessions I slow things down and create spaciousness so you can have capacity to learn more without feeling overwhelmed.

Discover more about coaching with me – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/coaching

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26/12/2025

In this season of relentless giving…

When did you last do something which was just for you?

Not to reciprocate…

Not to get something in return…

Not to please someone…

When did you last do something you REALLY wanted, something to benefit only yourself, because you enjoy it?

How about doing something today?

If the idea of this seems unfamiliar or challenging I’m here to help.

I can support you to build skills for building a better connection with your wants, your desires, your pleasure - with yourself.

To learn more check out my website – link in bio – or visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

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25/12/2025

Getting unwrapped is one of my favourite pastimes…

Join me?

Here’s hoping your unwrapping season is as enjoyable as mine!

++[ Want more of me? Get my thoughts and tips by email – sign up at: https://michael-dresser.ck.page/38662300aa ]++

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24/12/2025

The enemy of pleasure is pressure!

And there’s nothing worse than the pressure of perfectionism in the bedroom.

The big lightbulb for me was realising that the key to finding more connection and pleasure was actually to become more vulnerable…

If you want to learn skills and practice how to find more authenticity, connection and pleasure with yourself and others I can help…

Learn more at my website – visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

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23/12/2025

Many gay guys have got adept at giving.

Often we give as a way of distracting ourselves from having to pay attention to our own desires or needs.

Which is understandable when you’ve been given the message - as so many q***r people have - that your desires are shameful, or even dangerous.

But even though giving can feel rewarding sometimes, no amount of giving can resource you the way having someone else tend to your desires can.

The truth is; you can’t fill your own cup unless you’re able to let your cup receive… to let yourself receive.

Sometimes that takes some work to unlearn the patterns and protections we’ve built up over the years.

My 5-month personalised Confidence + Connection coaching programme is a great way to do that, with care and integrity – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/confidence+connection

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