Mindful Gay Sex & Intimacy Coaching

31/12/2024

I’ve spent a lot of the past year feeling quite overwhelmed…

Some of it’s been big personal life shifts and changes, some has been the huge world events (many of which have created a lot of anxiety and fear for those of us who are q***r or working with s-x).

I notice that when I feel overwhelmed, or fearful, I tend to stop breathing properly.

So the resourcing technique I’m going to be leaning into this coming year is breath…

Finding ways to invite more breath in, and to expand it.

This is not (just) some woo-woo stuff, the science of how breath helps regulate the nervous system is very well researched and documented and breathing practices have helped me process amazing amounts of s**t in the past (not to mention helped me consciosly create some mindblowing org/smic experiences, but that’s for another post!)

Wishing more breath, and ease for us all as we navigate into the coming year.

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14/12/2024

When it comes to s-x and intimacy, getting consent means getting permission, right?

Yes… And that’s not all there is to it…

Read the full article at my website – https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/why-s*x-requires-more-than-permission/

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Great s*x requires more than just getting permission. Find out about the other essential intimacy dynamic we don't even have a name for.

13/12/2024

The thing with arousl and pleasure is that they ebb and flow.

Chasing a constant peak experience is never going to work because in order to experience moments of bliss or excitement you also need to experience moments of relaxation and pause.

That’s how the body naturally works, so go with it!

Take your first step towards more connected pleasure in your life - book a free Clarity Call visit https://tidycal.com/michael-dresser/clarity-call

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12/12/2024

As I get older I find there are things that my body is no longer up for in bed the way it used to be.

But what I’ve also learned is that there’s always something else to do instead.

It could be easy to get caught up in stories about how I’m not good enough, or can’t achieve what I used to be able to.

Instead I’ve discovered that having to let go of particular outcomes, or expectations can actually be a really freeing experience because it opens me up to a whole world of alternative routes to pleasure, which I hadn’t even noticed before.

If you want to practice getting more creative with desire and pleasure get in touch!

Find out more about what’s involved in my conSensuality coaching – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/consensuality

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10/12/2024

In my relationships - and in my work - I’ve found that good communication is about more than just the words you say…

It’s just as much about letting go of your own words, and being able to truly hear someone else’s words.

It’s a skill most of us don’t get taught - but I think it’s an essential skill if you want better relationships.

To learn more relationship and relating skills check out my website – visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

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06/12/2024

This sums up how I feel about my q***rness - it’s so much more than just who I go to bed with!

A big part of the integrity I feel in my q***rness is down to having spent time in spaces where all of me was welcome, and all of me was celebrated and nurtured - without judgement or shame.

And that’s one of the things I feel proudest of about what I offer in my sessions.

If that’s something you’d like to experience with me, get in touch! Check out my website - visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

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05/12/2024

Whether it’s in person or online, there are some key elements which are always part of every coaching session with me.

We’ll ALWAYS work at the pace of your body, and there will never be any expectations or judgements from me about what you bring, and what you choose to explore.

I offer both immersive coaching days, and shorter regular coaching sessions, as well as some online pathways.

Find out more at my website – link in bio – or visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

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03/12/2024

There aren’t many s-x and intimacy coaching spaces where all of your body, all of your pleasure, and all of your s-xual expression are not only welcome but encouraged.

If that sounds good to you, or you’re curious about it, find out more about what’s possible in conSensuality coaching sessions with me – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/consensuality

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01/12/2024

As a s-x coach I know how much shame, stigma and discrimination can impact gay and q***r men, especially when it comes to their s-xual health.

Stigma and discrimination undermine the fight against AIDS.

Protecting human rights is essential to achieving universal HIV care and breaking down barriers to access.

Empowering individuals with access to HIV prevention tools, education, and services protects not only their health but also their rights. Equal access to prevention is key to stopping new infections.

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29/11/2024

The size of your d-ck, the size of your muscles*, the size of your bank balance are nowhere near as interesting to me as your capacity to create connection.

(*Ok, well maybe I have sometimes been swayed by the size of a guys chest!)

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