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One of the UK's most unique s*x and intimacy coaches for gay, bi and curious men.

Practical, hands-on coaching for men who want to work body to body with another man

01/03/2026

There’s always a good reason not to do it.

But there’s also always a good reason TO do it.

You.

You matter. Your desires matter. Your needs matter.

If not now when?

Take your first step towards more connected pleasure in your life - to book a free Clarity Call, visit: https://tidycal.com/michael-dresser/clarity-call

28/02/2026

Safety is essential for pleasure.

The safer you feel, the more you’ll relax, which will make it more possible for you to access pleasure…

We tend to feel safer when there’s trust - and, in my experience, trust starts with yourself.

I can support you to build a more connected, safer relationship with pleasure…

Learn more at my website – check my bio – or visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

27/02/2026

Trusting your desires and impulses…

Trusting your limits and boundaries…

And being able to honour and communicate both.

You don’t have to do it alone - I’m here to help!

Find out more about what’s involved in coaching with me – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/coaching

26/02/2026

How good are you at receiving…?

I mean REALLY receiving.

No strings… No reciprocation…

It’s not selfish. It’s self care.

If you want to build your capacity for being able to receive deeply as a form of self-resourcing and nourishment, I can help.

Learn more at my website – check my bio – or visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

25/02/2026

Feeling disconnected during solo or partnered s-x?

Wish your m/sturbation felt more mindful, intimate, or satisfying?

You’re not alone - and you’re not broken. You just haven’t been shown how you can connect with your body in a deeper way.

I can support you to build a new relationship with Pleasure In Yourself…

- Pleasure foundations practices
- 7-day Pleasure Adventure
- 4-week Coaching Programme

Find out more about Pleasure In Yourself options with me – visit https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/pleasure-in-yourself

24/02/2026

So many guys have been conditioned to touch to get results…

If I do x then y will happen.

This starts with our own bodies…

Then we try to apply it to other bodies too.

But pleasure doesn’t work like that.

In order to experience pleasure you have to be able to FEEL what you’re touching.

To be able to FEEL when you’re touched.

To stop performing.

Want my help to learn and practice skills for feeling more, and connecting more, when it comes to physical intimacy?

Check out my body to body coaching options. Find out more about what’s involved – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/coaching

23/02/2026

One of the things that makes coaching with me so unique is that it’s not just about theory and concepts…

It’s practical, hands on, and real.

It happens body to body,

And, as with physical intimacy in real life, that means sometimes there might be clothing…

Sometimes there might be less clothing…

And sometimes there might be no clothing.

The key is that YOU get to choose what’s going to work best for you every step of the way when it comes to how much clothing is on or off.

Nothing’s required. And nothing’s expected.

Curious?

Find out more about what’s involved in coaching with me – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/coaching

22/02/2026

Being a great lov/r is not about techniques or tricks for getting someone off.

It’s about:

Putting aside what you ‘think’ your partner will like in order to really listen to their body when it tells you what feels good.

Being able to listen to your own body when it tells you what feels good.

Communicating well is key to both.

I can support you to learn and practice skills for all these things - and help you become a better lov/r

Join my 5-month personalised Confidence + Connection coaching programme – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/confidence+connection

21/02/2026

We’ve all done it…

Minimised ourselves…

Settled for less than what you really want…

Or something that's not quite right.

Chances are it leaves you feeling underwhelmed or disappointed.

But you’re worth so much more than that!

So, try something different…

Try reaching for the most ‘fully you’ version of yourself possible.

Here are 3 quick tips you can use to do that:

Ask for what you really REALLY want…

See what could make it even better…

And stop when you’ve had enough!

Try going for fabulous at least once every day, and see what you notice…

Want more support from me…?

Take your first step towards more connected pleasure in your life - to book a free Clarity Call visit: https://tidycal.com/michael-dresser/clarity-call

20/02/2026

How often in intimate relationships have you tried to fake confidence you didn’t feel…

Tried to look like you knew what you were doing…

Pretended you didn’t want something, when you really did…

All those ways of avoiding vulnerability.

It can feel super vulnerable and scary to show uncertainty, or authenticity, or desire.

What if you’re judged, or shamed, or rejected?

But think about those times when another man shared his vulnerability with you…

Chances are it made him seem more human, more approachable.

Which made connection more possible.

Coaching with me can help you build and practice skills for turning your vulnerability into confidence and connection.

Find out more about what’s involved – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/coaching

19/02/2026

When it comes to pleasure and arous/l a lot of guys feel stuck - same old same old, unsatisfying…

Spaces with me are an opportunity to try things differently…

Permission to try new things, and connect with what really feels enjoyable in your body.

Get my support to expand your own possibilities for pleasure…

Learn more at my website – check my bio – or visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

18/02/2026

So many times in relationships or in the bedroom I’ve minimised my real desires, or put aside what I actually wanted because I was worried they’ll say ‘no’…

Scared they’ll think what I want is stupid, or will turn them off, or that they’ll stop, or leave.

So I used to spend a lot of time feeling unsatisfied, or short-changed.

Because my needs didn’t get met.

All because I was terrified of hearing them say ‘no’ to something I wanted…

But then I didn’t get it anyway because I didn’t ask for it!

Everything changed when I changed my relationship with ‘no’.

Hearing it. Saying it.

And the unexpected thing about building a stronger, positive relationship with ‘no’ is that when you do it opens up your capacity to actually get what you really want!

Want my help with that?

Join my personalised Confidence + Connection coaching programme – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/confidence+connection

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