20/05/2026
Weâve all made comments we didnât realise were hurtful at the time. Maybe you thought you were giving a compliment, only to find out later it wasnât received that way. â
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If youâve ever said, âYou speak so well for someone who is deaf,â itâs time to rethink that approach.â
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Here are three ways to show respect and understanding when interacting with deaf and hard-of-hearing individuals:â
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1ď¸âŁ Ditch the backhanded compliments.â
Saying âYou speak well for a deaf personâ is not the praise you think it is. It focuses on a stereotype and implies surprise that a deaf person can communicate âwell.â â
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2ď¸âŁ Focus on the individual, not the disability.â
Complimenting someoneâs communication skills is fineâbut keep it simple and genuine. No need to tie it to their deafness. Instead of, âYou speak well for a deaf person,â try, âYouâre a great communicator.â â
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3ď¸âŁ Learn, donât patronise.â
Deaf people arenât looking for pity or condescending praise. Theyâre seeking respect and equality. Take the time to learn about their experiences, and understand that their abilities, in speech or otherwise, shouldnât be met with surprise but with the same recognition given to anyone else.â
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We all grow when we listen, learn, and show respect. Compliments should empower, not patronise. â
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