Intimacy Matters

07/09/2025

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Destiny or Inevitability

07/09/2025

When are you going to write the book? A question I am asked weekly, well here is the begining of what I hope to be an interesting autobiographical account of my story. Chloroform to Climax - The Making of a S*x Engineer may sound an idiosyncratic title but it fits well. Please click subscribe to read chapters 1 & 2 with more to come soon. And its free.

As a full-time S*x Engineer practitioner since July 2005, I have helped over 8,000 clients enhance their s*xual confidence and deepen their understanding of their own and their partner’s s*xuality to enrich their intimate lives. Click to read Colin J De Courcy Richards, a Substack publication. Lau...

09/08/2025

Let’s start with a truth that many men find maddening, confusing or at the very least deeply perplexing: Most women don’t know exactly what they want s*xually. And even if they do, they’d really...

05/08/2025

What Women Don’t Know About Men’s Arousal And How Sensual Massage Training Unlocks Deeper Intimacy

When people think about men’s s*xuality, the assumption is often that it’s straightforward: quick to arouse, quick to finish. Yet in reality, men’s arousal is more complex. Many men secretly crave slow, sensual touch, emotional connection, and the reassurance that their partner is enjoying giving as much as they are receiving. https://www.intimacymatters.co.uk/massage-my-man-sensual-massage-training-london-intimacy-matters/

01/07/2025

Why Doesn’t She Just Tell Me What She Wants
Most women don’t know exactly what they want s*xually. And even if they do, they’d really prefer you figured it out for yourself. Read more

Let’s start with a truth that many men find maddening, confusing—or at the very least—deeply perplexing: Most women don’t know exactly what they want s*xually. And even if they do, they’d really prefer you figured it out for yourself. Yes, I know. That might sound like a set-up.

28/06/2025

How Authentic S*x Education and Sensual Touch Can Counter Misogyny and S*xual Aggression in Young Men. There is a growing and troubling phenomenon among young men today—one that is fuelled by the darker currents of online culture, po*******hy, and social alienation. Misogyny, entitlement, and aggressive s*xual behaviour are not only increasingly visible but are becoming internalised as normal by some segments of male youth.

Teach young men authentic s*x education with enhanced foreplay and sensual skills to transform aggression to respect and compersion

19/05/2025

13/05/2025

Compersion, Empathy, and the Art of Sensual Massage: Reclaiming Intimacy Through Touch

In a culture often driven by instant gratification, performance-based s*x, and transactional intimacy, sensual massage stands apart as a tender, intentional, and powerfully healing practice. It invites us to slow down, listen with our hands, and give without expectation. At the heart of this experience lies compersion—the joy one feels in witnessing or contributing to another’s pleasure—and empathy, the ability to attune to the emotional and physical needs of another. Together, they create a foundation for sensual massage that is deeply human, rooted in connection rather than conquest. Read more....

sensual massage when given with compersion and empathetic touch reaches extreme pleasurable results for men and women

28/04/2025

Sensual S*x Classes For Men
How I Help Men Improve Their S*xual Performance without rushing to pe*******on.
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sensual s*x classes for men teaching men how to give sensual massage to enhance their partners pleasure and extend lo******ng

21/04/2025

JOIN SENSUAL CONNECT
NETWORKING ON AN INTIMATE LEVEL Your gateway to sensual & erotic exploration with fellow sensualists and to find lovers of sensual massage

Sensual Connect is a growing online community for lovers of sensual massage and intimate erotic foreplay. Find lovers of sensual massage

30/03/2025

The emerging “s*xtech” sector is no longer just for the curious or the kinky — it's becoming a vital part of wellness conversations, especially when it comes to performance, confidence, and deeper connection.

S*x Tech C**k Ring For ED that helps men achieve stronger firmer lasting erections giving women more s*xual satisfaction and fulfilment

19/03/2025

The next Couples Sensual Massage Socials are on Saturdays May 10th and July 5th - 4pm to 8pm. The perfect occasion for couples to take that first step in exploring a broader intimate lifestyle.

Event for likeminded lovers of sensual massage / intimate foreplay to meet, chat and mingle, and to practice their skills and natural talents.