Silver and Spicy Self-care and Sisterhood

10/04/2026

✨️When you cannot take HRT, it can feel like the door has been shut in your face.

✨️You read about women finding relief.
Sleeping better, feeling calmer.
Having fewer hot flushes and feeling more like themselves again.

😵‍💫And there you are, still exhausted, anxious, sweaty, foggy, sore, and wondering:
“So what am I supposed to do then?”
It is such a lonely place to be.

Especially when the conversation makes it sound as if HRT is the only real answer.
It is not.

🪂There is so much that can still help:
• calming your nervous system
• reducing the intensity of stress-driven symptoms
• supporting sleep
• easing anxiety
• helping your body feel safer and less overwhelmed

No, it may not be the magic overnight fix you wish existed.
But no HRT does not mean no hope.

You do not have to keep pushing through alone with hot flushes, racing thoughts, brain fog, and anxiety.

💗The Menopause Calm Method was created from lived experience to help you find a calmer and holistic way through.

💗DM CALM and let's chat, when you are ready to feel supported, understood, and less alone in this.

19/03/2026

🙈STIFF, BLUE AND READY TO SNOOZE?



Is this you?



🌸It is common in peri and post menopause to wake up with stiff joints and achy muscles.

Feeling blue, anxious or with a sense of inexplicable grief.

Hormones have a dance and we pay the consequences.



👯‍♂️Moving the body helps releasing stiffness and pain and magically dissipate the sense of anxiety or gloom.

👯‍♂️You can do yoga in bed or have s*x or dance with your favourite song while you wait for the kettle to boil.



🌸I created The Menopause Calm method that address physical and mental symptoms because pushing through the day, fighting a foggy brain, exhaustion or sudden anxiety is not an option anymore.

🌸You need a 360 support that helps you live a full life at a new pace without guilt because you are too young to give up your career or favourite hobby.

When you are ready

✅️DM “Hell yeah” to find out more.

17/03/2026

🌸Menopause can make you feel unlike yourself, but you still have a life to lead and dreams to fulfil.

You may have work, family commitments, goals, responsibilities, and plans that still matter deeply.

😵‍💫You may lack the physical and mental energy,
You need support that helps you function, feel steady, and move forward.

😵‍💫The anxiety that comes out of nowhere, the hot flush that makes you feel embarrassed, or that ache that limits your movements can easily be reduced with simple actions.

🌸My Menopause Calm Method is for the woman who wants relief without feeling as if life must shrink.

My aim is not only symptom support but also helping you feel more like yourself again.

🙉I was there, and it sucked. I had no clue what was happening and nobody to turn to.

I did it all wrong, that is why I don’t want you to waste precious years “just pushing through”.

☀️DM LIFE when you want a bit of “normal” back

05/03/2026

🔥Do you want to ease Hot flushes??

Save this for later

You can practice for a few minutes daily, whenever you remember😄.

Spring is a great time to start something simple and relaxing.

🔥 With time it will reduce the intensity and frequency of your hot flushes.

DM EASE

for more info.

02/03/2026

😵‍💫That sudden crash in the middle of a meeting… or while you are trying for the fifth time to finish one email?

No, you’re not lazy.

😵‍💫Your hormones are throwing a party and it is exhausting.😵‍💫

GIVE THIS A TRY.

💗If you can, pause and take a 17 minute nap.

💗If you can’t, find a quiet space and take 7 long inhales through your nose and slow exhales through your mouth.

Your body will feel more energized, and your brain will come back to life.

Try it and let me know how it goes.

✅️And when you’re ready for a 360° personalized one-to-one program that eases symptoms like hot flushes, fatigue, anxiety, overwhelm, or rage, while helping you uncover your triggers and integrate small changes that actually make a difference…

💗I’m here!!

No rigid rules. No exhausting protocols.

DM “READY”
Let’s start chatting.

24/02/2026

🔥One of my clients pays with her husband’s credit card. He wants me calm; he pays for it.🔥

You know by now that hormonal fluctuation and overstimulation make you less tolerant, and you can’t stand any more BS.

🔥This is a good thing, and it is about time you started taking the time to reshape and declutter your life BUT…it feels uncomfortable because it is sudden and unpredictable.

😱You can’t stand the way he talks, eats, or breathes. Just knowing that he is going to be home when you get there makes you cringe and want to cry.
Your whole-body cringes.

😱You snap easily at your nearest and dearest… (or at least they used to be).

😱Then you lie awake a few hours later, replaying the situation, and you ask yourself what was so important and why you can’t hold your horses anymore.

This is hormonal fluctuation paired with chronic overstimulation.

Perimenopause makes all your body systems more sensitive.
😵‍💫Your tolerance has dropped, and your cortisol level stays high. You’ve lost the ability to deal with the stress that used to be your fuel.

✅️You don’t need another breathing tip.
You want your symptoms under control.

✅️You want to make changes guided by a calmer and more focused you not by societal rules or a friend’s opinion or judgement.

👭Inside The Menopause Calm Method, we don’t just talk about irritability or hot flushes or exhaustion.

We reduce the triggers.
We shorten the spiral.
We rebuild your capacity to operate calmly so you don't act on a "Red Alert" 🖲all the time

✅️so YOU can decide if it’s your husband or perimenopause.

🔥When you are ready to stop questioning your sanity and your husband and start reshaping yourself that way you see yourself in the next 40 years

DM CALM.

19/02/2026

Hello friends!!
How are you?

I found a way to put all the pages of a carousel together🎉🎉so you can screenshot it and read it and share it when it is covenient💗❄️

Read the left side, then the right and let me know what you think.

Have a beautiful rest of your day🕉❄️💗

18/02/2026

17/02/2026

🥲At the beginning of your perimenopause, you may grieve the “old” you.
The one who didn’t have to feel embarrassed by a hot flush or didn’t know what brain fog was.

🎉You still want to party, and drink and smoke,🥂 and feel kind of fine the day after.

😫It can be hard to accept that your body and your mind are changing, but I promise you…YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

Millions of women right now experiencing the same as you, and YOU ARE NOT ALONE because I can show you the way to the other side in a soft, confident, and adapted✨ “just for you “✨way.

✨Yes, because your Journey is different from anyone else. The intensity of your symptoms, your lifestyle, and your unique ability to process changes.

🔥🌸The Menopause Calm Method is a 12-week online program that is adapted to YOU.

It includes specialized ✅️menopause yoga to ease your symptoms so you can start living a more relaxed life again (because not all types of yoga are good for you right now),✅️ self-reflexology for hormonal balance and help you sleep, ✅️meditation, journaling, and simple self-care practices that can fit in your busy schedule.

Curious?
🙉Had enough of generalized help that doesn’t respect your unique body and mind?
Want to know more?

🤓DM CURIOUS

17/02/2026

OF Course you can
✨️improve your appearance by doing botox, surgery or liposuction.

✨️ buy dresses that make you look and feel younger and why not.
✨️keep living as if you were 30 and partying, smoking, drinking.

🤯Nothing will delete your biological age and your menopause symptoms.

🙉 It will take you a week to recover from a drunken night, your sleep will suffer as your bladder will wake you up every hour and your hot flushes will increase.

Believe me I know.
Been there Done that

🙉I could not accept that my body was out of my control, that it was reacting in weird, uncomfortable ways.

🤯The hot flush, the constant peeing during the night, the anxiety and tears out of nowhere.

✅️Nobody forced me to ask for help or make changes to my lifestyle.
My body and mind begged me.

✅️I could not have done it alone.

I was exhausted all the time and kept going until I got very sick twice in a few months and I had to stop and review my life.

🌸I now help women like you and me easing their symptoms and creating the space and time to find the calm they need to review their life, choices and new opportunities.🌸

No rush, no cookie cutting because nobody is like you.

You, your menopause, your personal circumstances are unique and

🌸The Menopause Calm Method meets you where you are,🌸

Menopause isn’t asking you to look younger.
It’s asking you to live wiser.

Ready for support that meets you where you are?

comment CALM.

11/02/2026

I chose aliveness over comfort and fear is my most loyal companion.

🏡I did try to pretend to be someone who likes the security and routine that come from having a family, a home, and a “steady job.”

🏡It would be so much easier and more comfortable, and it would suit my Taurean side that looks for ease, and a slower pace.

🤔I asked myself, why am I not like so many of my friends who love all of the above?

🌎The truth is, I love travelling and challenges, and getting to know how other people live, think, and behave….and eat!! (I am italian after all)

🌎I love discovering different landscapes and learning about LIFE.

❄️❄️This year, I had the opportunity to be in Sweden, in February, house, and dog-sitting for a friend, and without thinking, I said YES.

❄️Was/am I scared, worried and asking myself Why? Of course I am.
It is cold and snowy, I don't have the right clothes. It is difficult.

☀️The thing is, I live by my belief: LIVE WHILE YOU ARE ALIVE.
And this is now.

I want to experience as much of this life as I can, while I can.
While I am still young (at 58), healthy, and strong.

😭MY MENOPAUSE TRANSITION WAS HELL and limited my life for a long time because my brain and body were exhausted all the time.

😭Anxiety and fear stopped me from choosing the life I wanted to live.
I now have accepted that Fear is my travelling companion. So we travel and experience life together.

🤔IS THERE A LIFE YOU ARE DREAMING OF LIVING BUT FEEL TOO SCARED OR WORRIED TO LIVE?
🤔ARE YOUR MENOPAUSE SYMPTOMS LIMITING YOUR DAILY CHOICES?

DM ALIVE
when you’re ready to explore your options.

No strings attached, just a chat with someone who knows exactly how you’re feeling.
You are not alone xx

07/02/2026

😵‍💫There are things menopause doesn't tolerate.

🤯Rushing.
Overriding tiredness.
Living on adrenaline and good intentions.

🤯What used to slide by now comes back with vengeance. The fog, the ache, the rage, or the. exhaustion.

🎯Not to make your life harder.
But to invite you to a different way of living.

One with more honesty.
And less self-betrayal.

🎯When you are ready to honour this transition and start respecting yourself

DM READY.
Let's chat.👭