Metamourphosis

24/01/2025

Glad to upgrade to fibre today.

Not just for the faster speeds but because they needed to drill in the Northeast of my home.

On February 3rd the feng shui energy will change and drilling there is bad news for health, in any building for the whole of 2025 (and January 2026).

The past year it has been the West that needed to be kept quiet and inactive. Still for the rest of this month it has a double dose of ill health so lay off doing any work there (or even sleeping there).

Get moving with anything that needs sorting in the Northeast before 3rd February and then you can move back to the West and happily renovate that area after that date!

I’m Spring cleaning this weekend. Concentrating on fixing and decluttering before the energy shifts! Feels great to get to that old dust behind the cabinets and fix those boggling things that you keep meaning to get to.

If you’d like to find out how the shift is going to impact your home or business get in touch for a quote on a full feng shui consultation.

Goodbye to the old, make way for the new

17/01/2025

I'm reading an article on HuffPost about resilience and child mental health. It got me thinking about a blog I wrote at the beginnig of lockdown. Both my blog and the HuffPost article lean towards the fact that it is the adults and caregivers who are the role models for children, and indirectly teach them resilience.

This can be tough for those children growing up without those adults. For many children you learn resilience through a lot of trial and error growing up, when it wasn't model to you.

Secure attachments, emotional regulation, looking after your own wellbeing, managing stress, encouraging children to find solutions are the advice from the article and my focus in my work with neurodivergent children and young adults.

This is a reminder for all the adults to ensure they are getting support and caring for themselves, as often sacrifice is seen as a parenting virtue. It's not! Kids learn by actions more than words.

I go in to more detail in my blog from 2020 here

Focus on ways you got through tough times in the past and acknowledge your capacities I’m writing this in the midst of the Corona virus pandemic and a lockdown of 5 weeks in the UK (but whose counting)?. Some days I’m enjoying the peace and quiet of the city and listening to the birds of Spring....