Rabeya's Counselling Services

Rabeya's Counselling Services Therapeutic Counselling Services based in East London - face to face and virtual sessions available.

🕊️ The White Moth and the Lightness of HealingPhotographed on my window – quiet, still, and luminous.This beautiful, del...
13/07/2025

🕊️ The White Moth and the Lightness of Healing
Photographed on my window – quiet, still, and luminous.

This beautiful, delicate moth appeared as I was reflecting on the nervous system and the quiet ways we seek safety, rest, and release.

There’s something so symbolic about it — soft, fuzzy, almost cloud-like — as if it holds within it the essence of lightness. And yet, it clings to the glass, still and unmoving. How many of us live like that? Longing for light, but held in place by unseen tension.

In my counselling practice, this image resonates deeply.

🌬️ We carry so much — stress, grief, burnout, fear, loneliness. Often, our bodies hold it all in silence. Our nervous systems adapt, over-function, shut down, or go on alert.
And just like this moth, we may pause—halfway between movement and stillness—longing to feel safe enough to soften.

✨ Therapy can be the light.
A place to offload.
To soften the edges.
To feel again.
To let go.
To breathe.
To return to the self.

When we regulate the nervous system—through breath, presence, and deep attunement—we invite lightness back in. Therapy becomes the space where heaviness slowly dissolves, and something gentle, even hopeful, emerges.

Sometimes healing looks like this white moth:
Not loud.
Not fast.
But tender.
Delicate.
And full of quiet power.

Trauma-informed counselling for lightness, grounding, and release 🤍

🧠💬 AI in Therapy: Can We Make It Work For Us?As therapists, we’re always adapting—new research, new challenges, new ways...
28/06/2025

🧠💬 AI in Therapy: Can We Make It Work For Us?

As therapists, we’re always adapting—new research, new challenges, new ways of connecting. Now, artificial intelligence is stepping into the mental health space. From chatbots offering emotional support to AI-assisted clinical notes, the landscape is shifting fast.

But here's the question:
Can we make AI work for us, not replace us?

🤖 Used wisely, AI could:

-Free up time from admin work

-Improve accessibility for clients

-Offer data insights to support clinical decisions

But it also raises concerns:

-Privacy and ethics

-Loss of the human touch

-Bias in algorithms

As practitioners, clients, and humans, how do we hold both curiosity and caution?

Is AI a helpful companion in therapy—or something we should resist?

🌿 Hoya, Hope & Holding On 🌿In the shadow of heartbreak—especially as we witness the ongoing genocide in Palestine—hope c...
05/06/2025

🌿 Hoya, Hope & Holding On 🌿

In the shadow of heartbreak—especially as we witness the ongoing genocide in Palestine—hope can feel fragile. And yet, it lives on.

The Hoya plant, with its quiet growth and persistent strength, reminds us: even in darkness, life reaches toward the light. Its vines don’t rush, but they never stop. Just like the will to survive. Just like resistance.

Bringing nature into our spaces is more than comfort—it's connection. To the earth, to each other, and to a deeper belief that healing is possible.

🌱 Hope is not passive. It grows, it climbs, and it holds on.

🌿 10,000 Steps a Day: More Than Just Exercise 🌿There’s something powerful about putting one foot in front of the other—e...
04/06/2025

🌿 10,000 Steps a Day: More Than Just Exercise 🌿

There’s something powerful about putting one foot in front of the other—especially outdoors. Walking 10,000 steps a day isn’t just good for your physical health; it’s an act of decompression. A quiet rebellion against the rush.

Each step helps untangle thoughts, calm the nervous system, and reconnect you with the rhythm of nature. Whether it's a park path, forest trail, or city street lined with trees, nature holds space for the mind to breathe and settle.

Think of it as moving meditation. Step by step, we come back to ourselves.

🌳 Breathe in.
🚶‍♀️ Step out.
🧠 Let the mind gently work through what needs to surface.

Building Calm, Connection & Creativity...Sometimes, words aren’t enough — and that’s where creativity comes in.Today's L...
14/05/2025

Building Calm, Connection & Creativity...

Sometimes, words aren’t enough — and that’s where creativity comes in.

Today's LEGO Club — a gentle, supportive space where people can explore emotions, express themselves freely, and find calm....play is not just for children 😊

In the busyness of life, moments of stillness can be hard to come by. Building offers more than just fun — it becomes a form of mindfulness. As we focus on the shapes, the colours, the simple act of creating, we begin to slow down. We breathe. We let go.

Benefits of creative therapy through LEGO include:

- Supporting emotional regulation and inner calm

- Building resilience and problem-solving skills

- Encouraging communication without pressure

- Enhancing focus, patience, and presence

- Creating joy through connection and shared play

Not just about building perfect models — it’s about building confidence, self-awareness, and a little more peace inside😌

Ever seen a duck lead her ducklings across a road? She steps out first—eyes alert, wings spread wide—not just guiding, b...
10/05/2025

Ever seen a duck lead her ducklings across a road? She steps out first—eyes alert, wings spread wide—not just guiding, but shielding. Her little ones follow, trusting completely.

That’s the heart of parenting—stepping into danger so your children don’t have to.

In Palestine, parents do the same. They hold their children close amid chaos, trying to protect them from violence no child should ever witness. Some succeed. Some are taken. And some children are left behind—too young to understand, now orphaned in a world that’s forgotten them.

Their pain is not distant. Their lives matter.

May we never look away. May we raise our voices for every child, every parent, every family shattered by war.


"Brain fog, forgetfulness, and lack of focus? It’s not just in your head — it’s in your nervous system."When we’ve exper...
09/05/2025

"Brain fog, forgetfulness, and lack of focus? It’s not just in your head — it’s in your nervous system."

When we’ve experienced trauma, especially over long periods, our brain adapts to help us survive — not necessarily to help us concentrate, remember, or stay sharp.

You might:

-Struggle to finish simple tasks

-Forget names, dates, or conversations

-Feel mentally ‘foggy’ or spaced out

-Find it hard to focus, even when you want to

These symptoms are common responses to trauma and stress. Your brain may be in a constant state of alert, prioritising safety over memory or clarity.

You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re responding exactly how a human being does in survival mode.

Healing is possible. With time, support, and compassion for yourself, your nervous system can find safety again — and your clarity will return.

You deserve care. You deserve to feel clear again🤎


Just came out of an amazing session on 'Working with Race and Racial Identities to Support Ethical Practice' with Myria ...
08/05/2025

Just came out of an amazing session on 'Working with Race and Racial Identities to Support Ethical Practice' with Myria Khan, Frances Basset and Sarah Henry.

It was honest, challenging, and so needed. Left with a lot to think about around how race shows up in the therapy room and what it really means to practice ethically.

Grateful for the space to reflect, unlearn, and keep growing🙌

Recently, I completed DBT training with the Association for Psychological Therapies @ (APTA) 😊Dialectical Behaviour Ther...
16/02/2025

Recently, I completed DBT training with the Association for Psychological Therapies @ (APTA) 😊

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) is an evidence-based approach originally developed for individuals experiencing intense emotional distress, particularly those with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). It has since widened to support people struggling with emotional regulation, self-destructive behaviors, and interpersonal difficulties.

DBT is a resource-heavy therapy, combining individual therapy, skills training groups, coaching, and consultation to ensure clients receive comprehensive support. The core focus is on building skills in four key areas:

Mindfulness – Developing awareness and presence in the moment.

Distress Tolerance – Managing crises without making them worse.

Emotion Regulation – Understanding and controlling intense emotions.

Interpersonal Effectiveness – Navigating relationships with clarity and confidence.

As a psychotherapist and CBT practitioner, I work with individuals facing complex challenges, including trauma, homelessness, and mental health difficulties. DBT provides an invaluable framework for helping clients develop practical coping strategies, especially when navigating overwhelming emotions and high-risk behaviors.

I’m excited to integrate these techniques into my work, offering clients structured and effective ways to build resilience and facilitate change 🙌

Take a Seat with Rabeya – Because Your Mind MattersLife can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. ...
14/02/2025

Take a Seat with Rabeya – Because Your Mind Matters

Life can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. Whether you're facing grief, stress, or life’s many challenges, taking a moment to sit down and talk can make all the difference. Whether it's face to face in person or virtually, there's flexibility in the approach with means tested options.....

At Rabeya’s Counseling, we offer a safe, compassionate space where your thoughts and feelings are heard and valued. Because your mind matters, and so do you.

Ready to take a seat? Let’s talk.

Purple is a colour of wisdom, transformation, and healing. It blends the intensity of red with the calm of blue, much li...
10/02/2025

Purple is a colour of wisdom, transformation, and healing. It blends the intensity of red with the calm of blue, much like the therapeutic journey—moving between challenge and reflection, struggle and growth👆

Mountains, in contrast, stand firm. They symbolize endurance, strength, and the long journey of self-discovery. Climbing a mountain is much like healing—there are steep inclines, moments of exhaustion, and times when the peak feels impossibly far. Yet, each step forward builds resilience, and the view from the top offers a new perspective.

When we bring these together, a purple mountain at dusk or dawn reminds us that transformation is both a challenge and a gift. The path may be tough, but the journey itself shapes who we become💜

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Protecting Children from the Shadows of War and TraumaIn certain parts of the world, children grow up under the constant...
13/12/2024

Protecting Children from the Shadows of War and Trauma

In certain parts of the world, children grow up under the constant shadow of violence, displacement, and oppression. For many, their earliest memories are shaped by the sound of bombs, the sight of demolished homes, and the fear in their parents' eyes. These experiences leave deep psychological scars, burdening young minds with trauma they should never have to bear.

Research shows that children exposed to war and occupation are at significant risk of developing PTSD, anxiety, and depression. But the harm goes beyond individual mental health. Trauma affects their ability to trust, to dream, and to see a future beyond survival. It disrupts their education, their sense of safety, and their ability to form healthy relationships.

What does it mean for a child to see their homeland taken from them, their family torn apart? What does it mean to grow up in a world where freedom is a distant idea, and fear is an everyday reality? These children aren’t just witnesses to war—they are its youngest victims, carrying burdens far too heavy for their small shoulders.

As mental health professionals, we know that children thrive in environments of safety, stability, and love. But for children, these basic needs are stripped away by the ongoing occupation.

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London
E4,E1,W3

Opening Hours

Monday 6pm - 9pm
Wednesday 6pm - 9pm
Thursday 9am - 3:30pm
6pm - 9pm
Friday 7pm - 9pm
Saturday 12pm - 5pm
6pm - 9pm
Sunday 12pm - 5pm
6pm - 9pm

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