02/05/2026
I used to think I had to show up like so many others who work in this field, it felt like I had to prove I was ‘spiritual’ enough, doing the work. Almost like if I presented myself in ‘that’ way, if enough people could see it, I was on the right track.
The deeper I’ve gone, the more work I do, well, I know that I don’t need to explain nor validate myself. I don’t need to look a certain way or fit anyone’s idea of what ‘this’ is supposed to look like. No one is an expert, we just gather information and experience as we go along, presenting it like we might be, and for some of us, hoping to use this for good.
For me, showing up in this space and in real life, means I’m not always going to be deep and serious. Sometimes I’m going to be messy, random, fully human. I’m going to prance about like a loon, ramble on and just well, be me.
My spirituality, my inner work as it were, is my business and it lives in my embodiment, my humanity, in having fun, meeting my edges, enjoying my life and most definitely not to perform or be super curated. (Although I do love a pretentious boujee aesthetic in truth 😂)
This doesn’t make me less, not capable, not serious about what I do and offer. It makes me genuine, honest and equal.
When I hold space, I show up with intention, sitting in something real with you. That’s a service I really don’t take lightly. There’s nothing casual about these moments, it’s not surface level. You don’t have to be on one all the time to be someone who takes sacred things seriously.
This weird hierarchy thing is all massive ego.
No one is ahead of anyone on this path. We’re not ranked, we’re not competing or shouldn’t be. The person who meditates for hours isn’t closer to truth than the one who finds God in their morning coffee or a conversation with a stranger. Stop letting it make you feel like it’s not enough, it’s yours.
My spirituality lives in the spaces between, in how I treat people on every level, what I return to when everything gets loud in the moments nobody sees, my daily rituals. It’s not hidden, it’s just mine.
Let’s stop pretending and keep it real 💫💫