04/01/2026
Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in a place you just can’t seem to get out of?
Maybe it’s frustration with your goals. Maybe it’s second-guessing your decisions. Maybe life just feels… boggy. Like you’re wading through thick muck and everything takes twice as long and feels twice as heavy.
There’s a piece I recently read that really helped me rethink that feeling, and at its heart it’s about something incredibly simple and incredibly profound.
Most of us believe we’re stuck in a unique, bespoke situation. We tell ourselves this is the one time the rules don’t apply. That somehow this particular challenge was custom-made to trap us forever.
But here’s the key insight: you’re not in the first bog that’s ever existed and you won’t be in the last. Every single person who’s ever grown, evolved, improved or succeeded has at some point felt exactly what you’re feeling right now. They’ve been caught in the mire. They’ve felt paralysed. They’ve wondered whether the way out even exists. The difference is not talent or luck. It’s awareness and action.
One of the boldest ideas in that post is this: naming the experience matters. When you can name the pattern you’re in, you immediately distance yourself from it. You stop believing that the struggle is a cosmic punishment or a bespoke trap designed just for you.
Imagine catching yourself and thinking: I’m stuck in a bog right now. Just saying it puts your foot on solid ground. Suddenly you’re no longer lost in it. You’re observing it. And once you’re observing it, you can start moving out of it.
Here’s what I want you to take away:
✔ You are not trapped in a one-of-a-kind struggle. You are in a pattern that others have been in before and have escaped from. That means there is a way out.
✔ The struggle you’re in right now is temporary. It is not your identity. It is a phase you can learn from and move through. That’s how growth actually works.
✔ Self-awareness — naming what’s happening — is the first step out of the bog. Once you can see it clearly, you can change your strategy and take deliberate action.
This applies to every part of life — professional challenges, health transformations, emotional slumps, creative blocks, leadership doubts… every bog is a pattern. And every pattern has exit routes.
So here’s my question to you today:
What bog are you in right now? And what would the first step toward dry ground look like for you?
Sometimes the answer starts with simple awareness, sometimes it starts with a conversation, sometimes it starts with the courage to make one small move.
Comment below. Let’s talk about how we pull ourselves out of the mire and keep moving forward together.
Wishing you higher ground, always.