02/01/2026
How do I choose ashes jewellery?
Choosing ashes jewellery is often emotional as well as practical. You carry a small, meaningful part of someone you love with you, so it helps if the piece is not only beautiful, but also comfortable to wear and securely sealed.
Here are the key things to consider:
👉 1. What would you like to keep?
Ashes jewellery is designed for a small, symbolic amount of ashes. Do you want it just for yourself, or would you like to share the ashes with other family members? In that case, it can be helpful to look at multiple pieces, or a combination with an urn or keepsake urn. Alternatively, some jewellery can also hold a little grave soil, a lock of hair, or another personal memento.
👉 2. Type of jewellery and when you will wear it
Choose what suits you: an ashes pendant, ashes ring, bracelet, charm, or a subtle design that does not immediately stand out. Also consider whether you want to wear it every day or mainly on special occasions.
👉 3. Material and skin sensitivity
Pay attention to the material, especially if you have sensitive skin or allergies. Stainless steel, silver, gold, titanium and other metals each have their own look, feel and durability. The material also affects how much care the piece needs.
👉 4. Closure and safety
Check whether the jewellery can be securely sealed, usually with a screw-thread closure. Some designs allow an additional seal. If you wear the piece often, a sturdy closure is especially important. We recommend sealing ashes jewellery with adhesive for extra security.
👉 5. Comfort and sizing
For pendants, chain length and weight matter. For rings and bracelets, the correct size is crucial. Photos can be a little misleading, so always check the exact measurements.
👉 6. Water, sport and everyday wear
Would you like to shower, swim or exercise while wearing it? Not every material and finish is ideal for that. In practice, many people remove their ashes jewellery when around water, perfume, cleaning products and during intense exercise, to keep it looking its best for longer.
👉 7. Filling it yourself or having it done for you
Most ashes jewellery can be filled at home with clear instructions and a small filling kit. You can also ask the crematorium, funeral director, a friend or a family member to do it. The most important thing is choosing what feels right for you.
👉 8. Personalisation and engraving
A name, date, initials, fingerprint, paw print or a small symbol can make the piece even more personal. Do keep lead times in mind, custom work and engraving often take a little longer.
👉 9. Practical questions we often receive
Budget: Ashes jewellery comes in many price ranges. Decide roughly what you would like to spend beforehand, then you can choose more easily between, for example, stainless steel, silver or (white) gold, and between a standard piece or custom work/engraving.
Delivery time: Some pieces are available immediately, others are made or engraved to order. If you have a memorial moment, interment or a specific date in mind, check the delivery time early so you do not have to rush.
Travelling (flying): Wearing ashes jewellery while travelling is usually allowed, but security staff may sometimes ask questions. It can be reassuring to show the piece neatly and, if you have it, carry a brief cremation certificate or confirmation from the crematorium. Rules and checks can vary by country and airport. A short explanation often prevents awkwardness.
More guidance and tips in our blog: Frequently Asked Questions About Ashes Jewellery and Memorial Jewellery
👉 https://www.legendurn.co.uk/blog/post/frequently-asked-questions-about-ashes-jewellery-and-memorial-jewellery.html
Questions, or unsure between models? You are always welcome to message, call or chat with us, we will happily think it through with you at a calm pace. 🕊️
👉 https://www.legendurn.co.uk
