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One of the cool quotes from the Foreword to Never Blend In, written by Dr. Alex Iantaffi (they/he)   I invite you to rea...
02/01/2026

One of the cool quotes from the Foreword to Never Blend In, written by Dr. Alex Iantaffi (they/he)

I invite you to read this book as an invitation to love as solidarity, to love as a celebration of the differences that make us stronger together, to love that whispers in our hearts to never blend in, because each of us is essential, just as we are. Dr. Alex Iantaffi Ph.D., MS, SEP, CST, CST-S

One of the cool quotes from the Foreword to Never Blend In, written by Dr. Alex Iantaffi (they/he)   I invite you to mov...
02/01/2026

One of the cool quotes from the Foreword to Never Blend In, written by Dr. Alex Iantaffi (they/he)

I invite you to move into the potentiality of each story being the spark that ignites the blaze of transformation that could never be extinguished by hate, because it burns so bright through our blood memories, as we remember the way back to ourselves and one another. Dr. Alex Iantaffi Ph.D., MS, SEP, CST, CST-S

One of the cool quotes from the Foreword to Never Blend In, written by Dr. Alex Iantaffi (they/he)   I invite you to rea...
02/01/2026

One of the cool quotes from the Foreword to Never Blend In, written by Dr. Alex Iantaffi (they/he)

I invite you to read this book not just to learn about people different from you, but as a remembering of who we can collectively be when we embrace our full humanity. Dr. Alex Iantaffi Ph.D., MS, SEP, CST, CST-S

One of the cool quotes from the Foreword to Never Blend In, written by Dr. Alex Iantaffi (they/he)   I invite you to rea...
02/01/2026

One of the cool quotes from the Foreword to Never Blend In, written by Dr. Alex Iantaffi (they/he)

I invite you to read this book as an invitation to love, but not simply love for “others”, but rather love for yourselves, no matter what your gender, s*xual, relational, and/or erotic identities, orientations, and experiences might be. Dr. Alex Iantaffi Ph.D., MS, SEP, CST, CST-S

It is an absolute honour to have the Foreword to Never Blend In written by Dr. Alex Iantaffi (they/he)  Alex is an award...
01/01/2026

It is an absolute honour to have the Foreword to Never Blend In written by Dr. Alex Iantaffi (they/he)

Alex is an award-winning author, therapist, educator and cultural worker whose work centres gender, s*xuality, trauma, and liberation. They are the author of Gender Trauma, co-author of Life Isn’t Binary and the How to Understand… series, editor of Trans and Disabled, and creator of Hell Yeah Self-Care, a trauma-informed workbook.

A WPATH-certified gender specialist, AASECT-certified s*x therapist, Somatic Experiencing® practitioner, supervisor and mentor, Alex also hosts the Gender Stories podcast and Warm Take Wednesdays with Dr Alex on YouTube.

When not working or creating, Alex can be found by the lake, reading, crafting, making music, cooking, dancing, doing ritual, reading tarot, and hanging out with their dogs 🐾

Their work is rooted in collaboration, care, and a shared vision of a more liberated world for all of us. 💛




















Happy New Year everyone! For exclusive extracts, quotes and contributor bios and more, follow on IG!Find out more about ...
01/01/2026

Happy New Year everyone!

For exclusive extracts, quotes and contributor bios and more, follow on IG!

Find out more about Never Blend In: LGBTQIA+ Stories of Resilience and Empowerment by following the new Instagram page: https://www.instagram.com/nbibook?igsh=djRyb29saTJrbmE%3D&utm_source=qr

Never Blend In: LGBTQIA+ Stories of Resilience and Empowerment

LGBTQIA+ people have always shaped history, culture, and community—even when our stories were erased or silenced. Never Blend In is a powerful reminder that telling our truth isn’t just survival—it’s how we thrive.

At a time when progress and backlash exist side by side, this book affirms a simple, lifesaving truth: you are enough. These stories transform pain into purpose, isolation into solidarity, and labels into self-definition. They honour the full complexity of who we are—across race, faith, disability, class, neurodivergence, and culture.

This is more than a book.
It’s recognition. Guidance. A call to action.
A chorus of voices refusing erasure.

Never Blend In isn’t just a slogan—it’s a survival strategy.

I’ve just spent the last two hours tracking down and connecting again with the many wonderful people I’ve interviewed fo...
17/12/2025

I’ve just spent the last two hours tracking down and connecting again with the many wonderful people I’ve interviewed for the book. So, if you got a confusingly random request, that’s why!

Exciting news to come very soon. I’ll be setting up IG specifically for the book and will be reaching out to contributors in the new year.

Toni Morrison wrote, “If there’s a book that you want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it.”

Never Blend In – LGBTQIA+ Stories of Resilience and Empowerment is one such book—an unapologetically bold and accessible collection of candid testimonies and wise reflections, curated to inspire, uplift, and give hope to those who need it most: especially those who struggle with self-belief because society has taught them, directly or indirectly, that they are less valid or valued.

This ground-breaking volume amplifies voices from across the globe—artists, activists, educators, spiritual leaders, cultural changemakers, and everyday LGBTQIA+ people whose truth carries extraordinary power. Their stories invite us to reframe our personal narratives, recognise how our “truth” is shaped by experience, and begin the work of reshaping self-perception with clarity, compassion, and purpose.

This is not just a book—it is a movement. A chorus of voices refusing erasure. A celebration of authenticity. A testament to the power of visibility, solidarity, and hope.























11/12/2025

Helena Moody 🙏

Well said. Talking about your lived experience isn’t banging on about it, anymore than straight cisgender folk speaking from their experiences. There may be some who are pointing out that s*xuality isn’t everything about you but others are indicating that they don’t want to hear about it - two very different things. Our s*xuality does inform every aspect of our lives and how we experience the world, and for us to communicate authentically, we will speak from this perspective. For anyone who wants to minimise us, make us small, they need to understand the unique challenges we face.

As I edit the many powerful narratives to weave them into the book, I’m intensely moved, overwhelmed by the generosity o...
09/12/2025

As I edit the many powerful narratives to weave them into the book, I’m intensely moved, overwhelmed by the generosity of each contributor.

Who has moved, overwhelmed or inspired you recently?

Never Blend In – LGBTQIA+ Stories of Resilience and Empowerment

LGBTQIA+ people have always shaped culture and community, even when our stories were erased. Never Blend In is a reminder that telling our truth is not just survival—it’s how we thrive.

Across the world, Pride means celebration for some and criminalisation for others. In times like these, affirmation is urgent. Saying “you are enough” can be lifesaving.

These stories transform pain into purpose, isolation into solidarity, and labels into self-definition. They reflect the beauty of our intersectional identities—shaped by race, faith, disability, class, neurodivergence and culture.

Stories connect us. They change hearts. For LGBTQIA+ readers, these pages offer recognition. For allies and educators, they offer insight and action.

This book is more than a collection—it’s a movement. A chorus refusing erasure. A testament to visibility, courage and hope.

We have always resisted systems not built for us. We do so boldly, defiantly, joyfully.
This book exists because of them. And because of you.

Never Blend In isn’t a slogan—it’s a survival strategy.

I can’t tell you directly but I’ll always be here for you…Abuse doesn’t always look like what you’ve been told. It isn’t...
06/12/2025

I can’t tell you directly but I’ll always be here for you…Abuse doesn’t always look like what you’ve been told.

It isn’t always visible. It isn’t always loud. And it absolutely does happen to men.

One of the first things abuse takes from you is your circle. You stop reaching out. You tell yourself you’re “too busy”, “it’s not that bad”, or “they won’t understand”.

Bit by bit, isolation becomes the new normal — and that’s exactly where harm takes root.

But staying connected isn’t a luxury. It’s a lifeline.

Keep in touch with the friends who see you, who notice the change in your voice, who remember who you were before the fear crept in.

You don’t have to tell them everything. You don’t have to name it before you’re ready. Just stay connected. A message. A coffee. A call you don’t cancel.

You deserve spaces where you’re not controlled, criticised, or made to question your worth. You deserve people who speak to the truth of who you are.

And if part of you recognises yourself in these words, please know this:
You’re not weak. You’re not alone. You’re not imagining it.

Reaching out isn’t failure — it’s the first quiet act of reclaiming your life.

Stay connected. Stay in sight. You matter far more than you’ve been led to believe.
















There’s a tiredness that has nothing to do with doing too much, and everything to do with neglecting what brings us aliv...
06/12/2025

There’s a tiredness that has nothing to do with doing too much, and everything to do with neglecting what brings us alive. We get caught up in duty, expectation and survival, and forget the small, vital things that spark a light in us.

But that spark matters.
It’s not indulgent — it’s fuel.

When we drift too far from what nourishes us, our energy fades, our edges dull, and we start moving through life on empty. The world doesn’t need the exhausted, diluted version of you. It needs the you who feels connected, purposeful and awake.

So today, choose one thing that lights you up.

We are regulars at Mallow, and I wanted to highlight the exemplary Inclusive Leadership of Wajdi, and the impact that th...
01/12/2025

We are regulars at Mallow, and I wanted to highlight the exemplary Inclusive Leadership of Wajdi, and the impact that this has on staff and guests.

Mallow is outstanding not just for its food, but for its culture — and much of that comes down to Wajdi. In a fast-paced hospitality setting, he leads with calm, clarity and genuine respect. The team look confident, relaxed and supported, and it shows in the service.

He listens to staff, values different perspectives, and runs a fair, transparent operation. You can literally feel the inclusion — staff work in harmony, communication flows, and customers are met with warmth and authenticity rather than the scripted service, we’ve all witnessed elsewhere.

The result is exceptional dining powered by exceptional leadership. Mallow serves great dishes, but more importantly, it serves up belonging.




















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David Equality Hull-Watters is a Neurodiversity, SEND (Special Educational Needs and Disability) and LGBTQ+ Specialist who is determined to enhance workplace-wellbeing.

National Diversity Award Winner, educator, motivational speaker and writer; a passionate equality advocate, committed to enhancing the lives of young people and adults who may feel marginalised or limited by labels.

A proactive member of any team, providing practical leadership on inclusion, creating a culture that enables all stakeholders to access personalized learning; meeting development and progression requirements.

Committed to developing the whole person and to enhancing businesses through creatively challenging participants to embrace their unique value, to encourage them to fulfil their potential and to understand and implement strategies to enhance wellbeing and productivity within the workplace.