11/11/2025
✨ Understanding Attachment ✨
Hey Feelfree Free Community!
Let’s talk about attachment issues. Knowing ourselves is the first step toward freedom. When we start exploring how we connect, love, and respond to others, we begin to uncover the attachment patterns quietly shaping our relationships.
Maybe you crave closeness but fear rejection.
Maybe you avoid depending on others because it feels safer alone.
Maybe you swing between the two.
There’s no shame in any of it, these patterns were created to protect you. But they don’t have to define you. Awareness is the key that unlocks healing.
The more we understand our attachment style, the more compassion we grow for ourselves. And that compassion is what begins to rewire the beliefs that kept love and peace at a distance.
💫 Feel Free Tools 💫
Here are a few ways to start creating a secure connection within yourself:
🪞 1. Self-Reflection: Write down what you’d love to shift about how you show up in relationships, what you’d like to feel, change, or heal.
👑 2. Role Model Energy: Think of a person you admire. What qualities, values, and boundaries make them feel emotionally grounded? How can you embody one of those traits today?
💖 3. Repatterning Practice: Each time you notice old patterns arise, pause and remind yourself: “I am safe. I am learning new ways to love.”
Because knowing yourself isn’t the end of the journey, it’s the beginning of freedom. 🌸
— Lucinda ✨💖
Your 👑