The Breath Psychologist-Elif Clarke

The Breath Psychologist-Elif Clarke As a senior trainer and facilitator in Transformational Breath®, I share ideas about how to achieve

14/04/2026

Your breath and body are constantly giving you information. Are you listening?

In breathwork sessions, patterns around forgiveness often show up physically in the body.

For example:
– Tension on the left side can be linked to difficulty forgiving oneself
– Tension on the right side can be linked to unresolved feelings towards others

These are not ideas we impose — they are patterns we observe through breath and body awareness.

A common mistake is trying to “forgive” too quickly.
Using affirmations or cognitive reframing before the body is ready can bypass what is actually there.

In practice, forgiveness is not the starting point.
It is often the outcome of emotional integration.

When we slow the breath down and bring awareness to the body, we often find underlying layers such as:
– anger
– frustration
– grief

Rather than moving away from these states, the work is to:
– stay present
– allow sensation
– support safe expression
– hold space for conflicting feelings (polarities)

This is a nervous system process, not a mental one.

As the body begins to feel safe and the breath becomes more regulated, these stored emotional patterns can start to resolve.

Only then can forgiveness emerge in a way that is embodied and sustainable — not forced.

Your breath is a direct pathway into this process.



For many people, just a few minutes of conscious focus on the breath is enough to create powerful sensations and emotion...
09/04/2026

For many people, just a few minutes of conscious focus on the breath is enough to create powerful sensations and emotions. As the breath deepens, it brings more energy into the body, and this can feel intense. As a professional offering breathwork, your role is to create safety, not to push the breath. We always begin with assessment: where is the client’s nervous system, what breathing pattern are they holding, and how safely can we start. We begin gently, connected, and at their pace. The client needs to feel that you are fully with them and that what is happening is okay. We do not force release. We may invite gentle sound or natural movement if needed, or simply allow them to stay with their breath without adding anything. Less is more. A small opening, felt safely, is far more healing than pushing for intensity. The voice can support release in a soft and safe way. And always, we come back to the breath.

⸻Movement is one of the most overlooked healing forces.Your body is constantly trying to complete what it couldn’t finis...
07/04/2026



Movement is one of the most overlooked healing forces.

Your body is constantly trying to complete what it couldn’t finish:
a movement, an impulse, a response.

When it gets interrupted…
it becomes tension, pain, or freeze.

Before words… before story…
movement was your first language.

Healing doesn’t come from forcing release.
It comes from allowing the body to complete what was never completed.

Movement metabolises stress.
Movement restores regulation.
Movement brings you back into your body.

And when the body completes the movement…
everything begins to change.

Did you know that what you feel in a session isn’t just yours?As a therapist, your body is an instrument.The sensations ...
04/04/2026

Did you know that what you feel in a session isn’t just yours?

As a therapist, your body is an instrument.

The sensations and emotions you notice
often reflect what’s happening inside your client.

But only if you’ve done your own work.

Exploring your internal landscape —
through breath, through the body, through awareness —
is what allows you to stay clear.

Otherwise, you project… miss it… or shut it down.

Real presence isn’t just listening.
It’s sensing.

And that starts with you.

You’re not only your patterns. And healing is not just in the mind.I am an Integrative Breath Psychologist.While breath ...
29/03/2026

You’re not only your patterns. And healing is not just in the mind.

I am an Integrative Breath Psychologist.

While breath is at the core of my work, I integrate nervous system–based approaches to support the physical, mental, emotional, energetic, and essential aspects of a person.

Because real change happens when the body feels safe. When the nervous system moves out of protection, the breath opens, emotions begin to shift,
and something deeper reconnects.

This is the foundation of what I teach.
A 6-day immersive journey in Conscious Connected Breathwork.

This training is for:

• anyone who wants to deepen their own healing journey

• breathwork practitioners

• space holders and therapists

• and complete beginners who feel called to this work

This is not about becoming a facilitator in six days.
It is about experiencing the work deeply within yourself.

📍 London

🗓 22–27 May 2026

For more information,

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And it explains so much:• the sudden tightness in the chest• panic that feels bigger than the moment• the urge to please...
25/03/2026

And it explains so much:

• the sudden tightness in the chest
• panic that feels bigger than the moment
• the urge to please
• to shut down
• to disappear
• to defend

Those aren’t flaws.

They are unfinished experiences
trying to resolve.

Be kind to that part of yourself. Don’t be critical of that part, say ‘be quiet’ or ‘stop’ .. slow down enough to notice who is speaking inside .. we make a space for the part that didn’t get held the first time ..this process isn’t becoming a different person. It is finally turning toward the younger parts with the presence they always needed.

In conscious connected breathwork people often begin with protective patterns such as tight chest, shallow breathing, te...
23/03/2026

In conscious connected breathwork people often begin with protective patterns such as tight chest, shallow breathing, tension in the jaw or throat, holding the breath and emotional guarding. These are signs that the nervous system is organised around protection and survival.

As the breath begins to open, glimmers start to appear. In a breath session they may look like the breath deepening, a spontaneous sigh or yawn, the chest softening, warmth spreading through the body, tears that bring relief, or a sense of calm and connection. These small moments show the nervous system shifting from survival into regulation, where healing becomes possible.

In trauma-informed breathwork healing does not happen through force. It happens when the body feels safe enough to release what it has been holding.

Glimmers help create this safety. They tell the nervous system it is safe to breathe, safe to feel, safe to soften protective tension and safe to reconnect with the body.

When we notice and support these small moments, the nervous system slowly learns that it can move through sensations and emotions without becoming overwhelmed.

And this is where real integration begins.

Did you know your breath and your heart are constantly communicating?Every time you inhale, your heart speeds up slightl...
20/03/2026

Did you know your breath and your heart are constantly communicating?

Every time you inhale, your heart speeds up slightly.

Every time you exhale, your heart slows down.

This natural rhythm is regulated by something called the vagal brake — a mechanism of the vagus nerve that helps your nervous system move into safety and regulation.

When the vagal brake is strong and flexible, your body can:

• calm down after stress

• regulate emotions

• feel safe in connection

• access clarity and compassion

One of the most powerful ways to activate the vagal brake is through slow, conscious breathing — especially longer, softer exhales.

In breathwork we are not just breathing.

We are training the nervous system to return to safety.

Your breath is constantly communicating with your nervous system.

The question is:

Are you listening?

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Did you know your breath and your heart are constantly communicating?Every time you inhale, your heart speeds up slightl...
19/03/2026

Did you know your breath and your heart are constantly communicating?

Every time you inhale, your heart speeds up slightly.

Every time you exhale, your heart slows down.

This natural rhythm is regulated by something called the vagal brake — a mechanism of the vagus nerve that helps your nervous system move into safety and regulation.

When the vagal brake is strong and flexible, your body can:

• calm down after stress

• regulate emotions

• feel safe in connection

• access clarity and compassion

One of the most powerful ways to activate the vagal brake is through slow, conscious breathing — especially longer, softer exhales.

In breathwork we are not just breathing.

We are training the nervous system to return to safety.

Your breath is constantly communicating with your nervous system.

The question is:

Are you listening?

Did you know that your breath and your heart are constantly talking to each other?Every time you inhale, your heart rate...
18/03/2026

Did you know that your breath and your heart are constantly talking to each other?

Every time you inhale, your heart rate speeds up slightly.
Every time you exhale, your heart rate slows down.

This natural rhythm is called Respiratory Sinus Arrhythmia.

And the mechanism behind it is something called the Vagal Brake.

Think of the vagus nerve as the brake pedal of your nervous system.

When you inhale, the vagal brake releases a little.
Your heart rate speeds up and energy increases.

When you exhale, the vagal brake re-engages.
Your heart rate slows down and the body settles.

Every breath you take is regulating your nervous system.

This is why breathwork is such a powerful tool.

When you slow the breath, lengthen the exhale, and allow the diaphragm to move freely, you are literally teaching your nervous system how to return to safety.

Your breath is not just bringing oxygen into your body.

Your breath is constantly regulating your heart, your nervous system, and your emotional state.

The question is:

Are you listening to what your breath is telling you?

Your breath and heart are in constant conversation.Inhale → heart rate increasesExhale → heart rate slowsThis rhythm is ...
18/03/2026

Your breath and heart are in constant conversation.

Inhale → heart rate increases

Exhale → heart rate slows

This rhythm is controlled by the vagal brake, part of the vagus nerve that regulates safety and calm in the body.

Learning to work with the breath means learning how to regulate your nervous system.

Your breath is the doorway.

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Welcome to my page!

I’m Elif Clarke, a counselling psychologist and cognitive behavioural therapist for 18 years in national health service and my private practice in London. I’ve been a Transformational Breath® facilitator and trainer for 8 years.

Transformational Breath® is powerful self-empowering tool, I guided hundreds of people using this breathing technique to connect to their deepest self, to achieve their physical, emotional and psychological well-being. I’d like to share my knowledge and experience of breathwork on my page to help more people to use breathing to improve their lives.

I offer online Transformational Breath® sessions for individuals to cope with trauma, depression, and stress; I also offer breath sessions for couples who would like to improve their relationships and connect better. You can book online sessions by contacting me directly on info@elifclarke.com or phone on (+44) 07944 532456.