STUBS-Disability LIFE

11/02/2026

What do you think is usually the reason or reasons ?

08/02/2026

FORK THEORY CONTINUED...

08/02/2026

STICK A FORK IN ME, I'M DONE

This phrase is an idiom meaning a person is completely exhausted, finished with a task, or unable to continue.

If you hear me using thus phrase, just know Im not done done. I'm just done for that day, hour, task complete and ill be back soon

06/02/2026

I am excited to announce that the PROJECT ME team with is back. This time with a FREE WEBINAR FOR PARENT CARERS

WHO / WHAT IS A PARENT CARER
A parent carer is an individual who provides care for a disabled child or young adult with SEND or additional needs.

They differ from typical parents due to the higher level of support, responsibilities requiree to meet needs of there child, due to nature of childs chronic illness, learning or other disability.

OUR GOAL
Provide community, support and a road map to clarity, healing, strength and personal leadership

REGISTER https://bit.ly/ParentCarerWebinar

JOIN US :
Thursday 26th February at 6pm

02/02/2026

FORK THEORY

The FORK THEORY was developed by Jen Rose in 2018. The Fork theory is a metaphor for managing external stressors.

Daily irritations and stressors are "forks" that can accumulate, however this theory acknowledges that we all have a personal limit of how many forks, stressors or triggers we can endure.

If an individual exceeds their limit they risk experiencing burnout, shutdown, breakdown, crash ' fork overload'.

30/01/2026

27/01/2026

DISABILITY IS NOT FICTIONAL
IT'S REAL

This evenings spotlight 💡is MARISSA BODE who recently starred in the role of Nessarose in WICKED FOR GOOD.

BODE is a Los-Angeles-based disabled actress who has been acting since age eight in a number of plays and musicals. "Little Shop of Horrors", "The Diviners", "Peter Pan" and "Mary Poppins" just to name a few. BODE trained in the arts and studied at the American Musical and Dramatic Academy.

BODE has also self-written, self-directed, self-produced short film called "You're Adorable" that was accepted into the 2021 Wisconsin Film Festival.

BODE was paralyzed at the age of 11, due to a car crash.Yes disabled in real life, as a result uses a wheelchair to aid mobility in everyday life.

According to the World Health Organisation (WHO), there are more than 65 million wheelchair users worldwide, which is just under 1% of the population. On our screens, large and small, they make up less than 0.01% of the characters in TV drama series or in movies, and when they do appear the roles are often played by non-disabled actors.

BODE was choosen as todays spotlight feature because her role in Wicked For Good marked the first time a disabled actress portrayed this character and she capitivated me.

Articles i've read spoke about producers working the set and environment around her disability related needs. There is something about disability being part of the integral planning, rather than an after thought that speaks to me and makes me smile.

In so many movies individuals act or play disabled characters. BODE is a reminder that disability is real life and can be the foundation on which you capture hearts and build greatness. BODE is not acting or playing at being disabled. The fictional character is Nessarose, BODE is real and her acting 🔥

Today, BODE is my reminder of the importance of that 'it' factor and what you can achieve by working on your craft. Additionally the fun you can have by leaning into being WICKED GOOD.

20/01/2026

Advice for life and DWP/ PIP / DLA assessment meetings !!.

This is the time to remember that you do not get prizes for strength.

That if you dont express your feelings, fears, struggles, challenges, anxieties 'they' will say you don't have any.

Sometimes you need to explictly explain why you do the things you do and why you need someones help.

In life people will simply say they didn't know and keep ignoring your feelings, if you keep silent

I urge you, don't keep your feelings inside. SAY IT OUT LOUD

19/01/2026

THINGS THERAPIST SAY

12/01/2026

08/01/2026

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06/01/2026