27/02/2026
I thought I'd share my new metaphor for my lived experience of ADHD. It also explains the threat-demand cycle perfectly. When I am agitated and stress Buckaroo is too. He gets giddy and chaotic in his approach to tasks. Before I know it - POW!! life has become even more chaotic and demanding and the threat system is even more overwhelmed.
I give examples in my training like gathering a hundred things to take upstairs balancing on every part of my body, convinced that this is the most efficient strategy until whoops followed by the “ffs” and the extra demand created by my cart horse method!!
It’s the desire to get everything out the way driven by our impulses. I’ve hoovered up coins rather than bend down and pick them up, and my favourite shared by a client was driving over his kid’s bike when in a hurry to save time!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Buckaroo just sums it up perfectly for me!! And it helps to explain why breaking tasks down helps (reducing demand), and how a constant awareness of our emotional regulation in terms of threat system is essential for smoothing out the inevitable bumps of everyday functioning.
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