Fran Mayer Counselling

Fran Mayer Counselling Therapeutic Counsellor

Re-parenting is the process of learning to give yourself the care, compassion and emotional support you may not have con...
19/02/2026

Re-parenting is the process of learning to give yourself the care, compassion and emotional support you may not have consistently received growing up. In this blog, I explore what re-parenting means, how early experiences shape the way we treat ourselves, and how therapy can help you develop healthier coping strategies, stronger boundaries and greater self-understanding. If you struggle with anxiety, low self-esteem, people-pleasing or feeling “not good enough”, this gentle introduction to re-parenting may resonate and help you move forward with more confidence and self-trust.

If you’d like a space to talk things through, either face-to-face or online please get in touch.






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Do you ever wonder how other people make life look so… manageable?If you’re always “trying harder” just to keep up — wit...
18/01/2026

Do you ever wonder how other people make life look so… manageable?

If you’re always “trying harder” just to keep up — with time, emails, routines, feelings, relationships, work — it might not be because you’re lazy, flaky or disorganised.

It might be ADHD.

For many adults, ADHD isn’t obvious until later in life. It can look like overthinking, procrastination, perfectionism, emotional intensity, masking, people-pleasing, burnout, or quietly coping without asking for help.

Therapy can offer space to make sense of this, explore how your brain works, and find ways of living that feel supportive rather than exhausting.

You don’t need a diagnosis to start, and you don’t need to justify why it feels hard.

If this resonates, you’re not alone — and you’re not doing life “wrong.”

Feel free to get in touch for further info.



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Happy New Year!Thank you to my regular clients for the commitment and courage you’ve shown throughout the past year, and...
04/01/2026

Happy New Year!

Thank you to my regular clients for the commitment and courage you’ve shown throughout the past year, and thank you to those of you who continue to follow and support my work.

I’ve been a little quieter on here recently as my workload became very full. Towards the end of the year, I took some time to reflect. Self-care is a key part of ethical counselling practice, and I noticed that things had become so busy it was harder to look after myself in the way I needed to.

As I begin this new year, I’m being more intentional about maintaining a healthy work–life balance, so I can continue to show up fully and sustainably for the people I work with.

If you’re also hoping to change your routine this year, a gentle reminder: start small. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, break tasks into manageable chunks (even 25 minutes at a time). Often, getting started is the hardest part.

I’m also pleased to share that this month I’ve enrolled on a Certificate in Adult ADHD, which I’m really looking forward to. More on this soon!

I’m fully booked for the first week of January, but I do have a few limited spaces available for in-person or online sessions. Please feel free to message me for more information.

Wishing you a peaceful and steady start to the year — and plenty of self-care along the way.

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Struggling to get started, even with simple tasks? You’re not alone.Do you have lots of things to do but find it hard to...
02/11/2025

Struggling to get started, even with simple tasks? You’re not alone.

Do you have lots of things to do but find it hard to begin?

Procrastination isn’t laziness — it’s often a response to overwhelm, perfectionism, or emotional fatigue.

For many people (especially those who are neurodivergent , including ADHD traits), it can present as task paralysis or decision paralysis.

Therapy can help you understand the “why” behind procrastination and find gentle, realistic ways to move forward — without self-criticism or pressure.

If this feels familiar, I offer a warm and supportive space to explore what’s holding you back and help you find your own way forward.

I work online throughout the UK and face-to-face in Ludlow, Shropshire.

You can find more information or get in touch via my website www.franmayercounselling.com

Talking Through a Diagnosis Receiving a new health diagnosis or coming to terms with a long-term or terminal illness can...
23/10/2025

Talking Through a Diagnosis

Receiving a new health diagnosis or coming to terms with a long-term or terminal illness can feel overwhelming.

Alongside the physical challenges, many people experience shock, fear, frustration, and sadness.

Having a safe, confidential space to talk things through can make a real difference.

If you’d like to explore how therapy could support you, please visit www.franmayercounselling.com or get in touch to arrange an introductory call.

Friendships can shape how we see ourselves — but are yours helping or hurting?Friendships are a vital part of our wellbe...
22/09/2025

Friendships can shape how we see ourselves — but are yours helping or hurting?

Friendships are a vital part of our wellbeing — they shape how we feel about ourselves and the world around us. But not all friendships feel the same. Some lift us up, while others can leave us feeling drained.

A healthy friendship often looks like this:

Mutual respect and trust

Shared laughter and emotional support

Understanding and respecting boundaries

Feeling safe to be yourself, without judgement

By contrast, signs of a toxic friendship may include:

Gossiping about you or others

Only contacting you when they want something

Ignoring or crossing your boundaries

Leaving you feeling guilty, anxious, or “not enough”

A good way to check in with yourself is to ask: “Do I feel valued, safe, and respected in this friendship?”

If you’ve noticed some friendships feel unbalanced or painful, it may be time to reflect on what you need and deserve in your connections.

What does a healthy friendship mean to you?



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Seasons change, and so do we. For some, autumn feels energising; for others, heavy. Both are valid. As the world shifts,...
20/09/2025

Seasons change, and so do we. For some, autumn feels energising; for others, heavy. Both are valid. As the world shifts, our mood, energy, and needs can shift too.

I like to get outside first thing — whatever the weather — as morning light can lift mood, reduce stress, and support healthy sleep.

As you move through this season, give yourself permission to feel what comes, notice what you need, and adjust your self-care. If you’d like space to explore these changes, please feel free to get in touch.

Supporting wellbeing through the seasons .

Reflecting on change and slowing down this autumn .

Rooted in the local community .

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Need some space to talk things through?Take the next step towards feeling heard and supported.Available counselling slot...
03/09/2025

Need some space to talk things through?
Take the next step towards feeling heard and supported.

Available counselling slots:

Online (UK): Mon-Weds: 9am-6pm

Face-to-Face (Ludlow): Thursdays & Fridays: 9am-7pm & 9am-3pm

I offer a warm, non-judgemental space for adults experiencing anxiety, low mood, trauma, neurodiversity, and life transitions. 15 min intro chatas available. Message me to find out more.

Exciting update: New logo!As I approach two years in private practice, I feel so grateful to have built a busy practice ...
31/08/2025

Exciting update: New logo!

As I approach two years in private practice, I feel so grateful to have built a busy practice so quickly — which has meant things like logos and a website have taken a back seat until now.

With a little more quiet time recently, it felt like the right moment to refresh things. I tend to take my time thinking through ideas, but once I have the basics, I’m quite instinctive about the next steps — and this new logo just felt right. What do you think?

Thank you for the recent follows, and most of all, to my clients for placing your trust in me. A big thank you too to my friends and family for your ongoing support and encouragement along the way.

I’d love to hear what you think as I start making a few changes — and if you’re wondering about booking a session, feel free to get in touch.

Feeling stuck?It can feel overwhelming when every day seems the same, when your energy is low, and when even small decis...
13/08/2025

Feeling stuck?

It can feel overwhelming when every day seems the same, when your energy is low, and when even small decisions feel like too much. Sometimes the idea of making a big change feels impossible — but often, it’s the small changes that make the biggest difference over time.

It might be:

* Changing the route you walk each morning.

* Setting aside five minutes just for yourself before you check your phone.

* Saying “no” to one thing you don’t have the energy for.

* Trying a different workspace or rearranging your environment.

* Speaking kindly to yourself instead of criticising.

These shifts won’t fix everything overnight, but they can help you break the feeling of being ‘stuck’ and open the door to something different.

If you’d like space to talk things through and explore what might help you move forward, I currently have availability for both face-to-face sessions in Ludlow and online sessions UK-wide.

Getting in touch could be the first small step that changes more than you realise.

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Words from an amazing inspirational woman
17/07/2025

Words from an amazing inspirational woman

I was inspired this morning by a Buddhist monk who reminded me of a powerful technique: start each day with a blank page...
06/07/2025

I was inspired this morning by a Buddhist monk who reminded me of a powerful technique: start each day with a blank page, telling yourself “I am the architect of my internal world.”

It really resonated — especially this week, when I’ve had to remind myself that I’m not responsible for other people’s emotions. I don’t need to tie myself in knots trying to include everyone in everything. And I do need to speak up more when something clashes with my values.

It’s so easy to sit and overthink — wondering why someone hasn’t replied to a message, questioning if we said or did the wrong thing. But staying true to ourselves takes courage. It means setting boundaries around what we will and won’t accept, and making space for our own needs.

Therapy can help with this. If you’re feeling stretched thin, disconnected, or like you’ve lost sight of yourself — I have availability for sessions this week, both face-to-face and online. Get in touch if you’d like to talk.



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