U. B. Light

30/01/2026

Have you noticed how a few know what coffee you like or what flowers you prefer but most know what you should do in your life ?

30/01/2026

The Soul Agreement

Before birth, when each Being decided to come to Earth to live the 3D experience, there was a Soul Agreement. First, each soul carefully selected, together with the Masters of Light, all the experiences it wished to have in this incarnation.

Some chose to learn through DETACHMENT, others through LONELINESS, others through ILLNESS, others through LOSS. Most decided to learn through PARTNERSHIP. Some dared to experience MATERIAL WEALTH… and so on, as if choosing subjects to enroll in at University, everyone set their missions.

And there was a great meeting between them to agree on how their souls would interact… Like when roles are assigned in a theatre play, each received their role in the drama of their life… and they were born…

Some of these souls met at birth and are siblings. Some were meant to be schoolmates, only to become friends in adulthood… Others didn’t meet until later in life, agreeing to meet at a party and falling in love…

And there were those who played minor roles in each other’s lives. It could be the doctor who examined them when they were hospitalized for appendicitis or any illness… Another could be the one who gave them the opportunity to make money easily…

Another could be the taxi driver who took them to the airport on the day they were told their mother was dying… and so on. Nothing, absolutely nothing, is random in someone’s life. There is FREE WILL. Roles were assigned to us, but there is no script.

Each person creates their own dialogue and their own actions… and must also take responsibility for the consequences. So think: Why do you have such a demanding and perfectionist boss? Did you agree that they would bring out the best in you and polish you like a diamond? Or do you need to learn tolerance? What if what you need to do is let go?

It’s difficult to know what you came to experience with each person… but the soul knows… and the soul only knows how to communicate with us through what we call INTUITION. And you understand why just seeing that person was enough to give you butterflies in your stomach… your soul was warning you about all the pain they would cause you…

We don’t remember. We don’t know what connects us to the entire cast helping us perform the play of our life, but there is a silent agreement between all of us to stay together to help each other grow, to evolve…

This whole path, started in our first incarnation millions of centuries ago, has enlightenment as its goal… In every incarnation, we add drops of light into our CONSCIOUSNESS and thus we evolve.

Sometimes, someone enters our life who teaches us something and at the same time receives our teachings, and then leaves, disappears from our life, because the agreement made in the so-called Sublime Plan or Heaven has been fulfilled.

So don’t get stuck on that abusive boss, that unfaithful partner, that envious person, that disloyal relative, that gossiping neighbour, that abusive teacher, that grumpy shop owner, that clingy admirer, that rebellious daughter…

Look straight into their soul and tell them: THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR HONOURING THE PACT!! That’s how it is… That’s how it feels… And that’s how it will remain forever. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you HEAVENLY FATHER FOR YOUR LOVE.

Now I ask you, dear soul, who is reading these lines… DO YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE HERE BY ACCIDENT IN MY REALITY?? If you resonate and wish to go deeper, I warmly invite you to meet, to talk and to work together on the divine plan.

I am here for you with love and openness, facilitator Andreea Luca.

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26/01/2026

What do you do when you have a low energy day ?

26/01/2026

The 5 Wounds That Prevent You from Being Yourself

Emotional wounds are deep experiences that leave an imprint on our psychological, emotional, and sometimes even physical well-being. The five main emotional wounds identified by Lise Bourbeau in her book “The 5 Wounds That Prevent You from Being Yourself” are:

The Wound of Rejection
Origin: This wound often appears very early, sometimes even in the fetal stage or early childhood, when the child feels unwanted or feels they do not meet their parents’ expectations. It can arise from something subtle, such as an emotionally distant parent or a lack of affection.

Manifestations:
– Feeling as if you do not have the right to exist
– Tendency to avoid relationships or conflict situations
– Fear of judgment, hypersensitivity to rejection
– Need for solitude or a tendency to become invisible

Paths to healing:
Working on self-esteem to regain the sense of having the right to exist. Realizing that rejection by others does not define your worth. Meditation and self-affirmation, repeating phrases such as: “I deserve to be here and to be loved for who I am.”
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The Wound of Abandonment
Origin: This wound often develops when a child experiences physical or emotional distance from a parent (real or perceived). It can come from prolonged absence, neglect, or simply a lack of consistent attention.

Manifestations:
– Emotional dependency, constant need for reassurance
– Fear of loneliness or abandonment in relationships
– Difficulty setting boundaries out of fear of losing the other person
– A deep feeling of inner emptiness

Paths to healing:
Learning to offer yourself the love you seek from others. Cultivating emotional autonomy through engaging in solitary activities. Exploring limiting beliefs about being alone.
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The Wound of Humiliation
Origin: This wound appears when a child feels belittled, humiliated, or criticized by parents or others. It can also come from very strict or guilt-inducing upbringing.

Manifestations:
– Tendency to feel guilty about everything
– Need to please others, to sacrifice oneself
– Difficulty expressing oneself freely for fear of being judged
– Withdrawal or tendency to carry the suffering of others

Paths to healing:
Reconnecting with your own needs and expressing them without guilt. Working on recognizing your intrinsic value. Meditating on the release of repressed emotions.
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The Wound of Betrayal
Origin: This wound often comes from a parent or authority figure who did not keep promises or betrayed the child’s trust, creating a lack of inner safety.

Symptoms:
– Need to control everything to avoid suffering
– Distrust of others, difficulty delegating
– Possessive or jealous behavior in relationships
– Strong desire to prove one’s value

Healing strategies:
Working on letting go and accepting that not everything can be controlled. Cultivating self-trust and trust in life. Allowing vulnerability by learning to ask for help.
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The Wound of Injustice
Origin: This wound appears when a child feels treated unfairly, often due to excessively high expectations or lack of recognition. It can also come from an overly rigid parental upbringing.

Symptoms:
– Exaggerated perfectionism, need to prove one’s worth
– Sense of coldness or emotional numbness as self-protection
– Difficulty accepting praise or compliments
– Tendency to compare oneself with others

Paths to healing:
Work on self-compassion. Acknowledge your successes, no matter how small. Give yourself permission to make mistakes without judgment.
Approaches for all wounds:
Recognize and accept the wound without judgment. Return to its origin (often childhood) to understand where it comes from. Practice self-love by treating yourself with compassion and patience. Express repressed emotions through writing, art, or therapy.

Take concrete steps to transform your thinking and behavior patterns. These wounds do not disappear overnight, but with work and patience, they can soften and no longer control your behavior.

So it is…
And so it shall remain forever…

Thank you, thank you, thank you.
I am your guide, your therapist, your facilitator, and I walk beside you with constant guidance and support throughout your journey of balance, release, and healing, always with presence, love, and kindness.

With love, light-filled embraces, and infinite blessings,facilitator Andreea Luca

25/01/2026

Family Constellations is a gentle way of seeing what usually stays hidden in our lives.

Many of the struggles we carry are not really “ours.” They can come from our family system – unfinished stories, unspoken grief, loyalties, or patterns passed down through generations. Even when we don’t know the details, the body and the soul remember.

In a constellation, we look at these deeper dynamics with respect and care. You don’t analyse, you don’t blame, and you don’t relive the past. You simply allow the truth to be seen, and when something is seen, it can soften, shift, and heal.

People join Family Constellations when they feel stuck, when the same patterns repeat in relationships, health, money, or when there’s a quiet sense of “something is not in place.” Often, clarity comes quickly, along with relief, grounding, and a deep sense of belonging.

You don’t need to know your family history. You don’t need to talk much. You just need to be open.

This work is not about changing others. It’s about finding your right place in the system, so life can flow again — with more peace, strength, and freedom.

25/01/2026

Life is like a cupboard- remember that !

25/01/2026

24/01/2026

The Savior Syndrome. The invisible trap that drains your energy and destroys your relationships.

According to the complex family constellations approach, the savior is not a hero, but a son or daughter caught in a pattern that does not belong to them. Behind the impulse to help endlessly, to support everyone, to carry other people’s burdens, or to be “the strong one,” there is no virtue—there is a deep disturbance.

Where does the Savior Syndrome come from?

Taking the parents’ place:
When a child tries to save their mother or father, the natural hierarchy is reversed. That child grows up believing they must take care of, comfort, or carry others. As an adult, they repeat this pattern with partners, friends, and even strangers. This is not altruism; it is unconscious loyalty.

Identifying with an outcast:
Sometimes, the savior is not helping the person in front of them, but rather the shadow of a forgotten, rejected, or abandoned ancestor. This urgency to “save” is a way of saying: “I see you, I do for you what no one else did.” And this burden is not theirs.

Imbalance between giving and receiving:
The savior gives too much but cannot receive. They don’t know how, can’t, or won’t allow themselves to be supported. In this excess, they empty themselves, become exhausted, and disconnect from who they are. This is not generosity; it is an attempt to earn one’s place through sacrifice.

Denying one’s own pain:
Saving others becomes a strategy to avoid facing one’s own story. By focusing on other people’s problems, one avoids acknowledging personal wounds, loneliness, limitations, and emotional truth.

The consequences of the Savior Syndrome:
Unequal relationships where one partner becomes the “father” or “mother” of the other. Deep exhaustion, resentment, and frustration. Inability to set healthy boundaries. A sense of inner emptiness. Loss of vital energy and disconnection from one’s own path.

Neglected emotional life:
Because attention is always directed outward. Healing this syndrome does not mean stopping helping, but rather returning each burden to its rightful owner and reclaiming one’s true place—that of a son or daughter, not a savior or a substitute parent for others.

Healing phrase:
“I see your pain and your destiny. I honor them with respect. But I am not your savior. I take my life and allow each person to take theirs. True help does not mean saving anyone, but living in order. From there, give what is right—no more, no less.”

If you recognize yourself in this description…
If you feel you are in the role of savior for everyone and everything…
If you feel the time has come to step back into your rightful place…
If you choose to break a loyalty to someone in your family tree…
If you choose to live your own destiny and leave a clean legacy to your descendants…

Transgenerational analysis and complex family constellations help you lovingly release everything that does not belong to your destiny.

I invite you to meet me and work together if my messages resonate with your soul. This work is not for everyone and not for just anyone. Leave me a message on WhatsApp at 07896706221 (UK) for a free introductory meeting.

With love,
Andreea Luca@top fans