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Patterns, balance and how our internal narrative can over ride our instinctual responses has been themes this week for c...
22/03/2026

Patterns, balance and how our internal narrative can over ride our instinctual responses has been themes this week for clients.

A pretty amazing week with collaborations and some in body work to quiet the mind, allowing us to listen to our body.

I really love this work when clients make connections identifying patterns and realisation dawns. Becoming aware of our cycles of behaviour due to triggers and working through those somatically allows us to start letting go and build resilience to emotion and that narrative.

We can start to find ourselves again.

Always the lessons the horses teach.

I am also delighted to welcome 3 new clients.

As Frosty advises, if we shine our light bright enough, people will come ✨️ 🙏

I would like to send a big thank you to the Equine Podiatry Association for inviting me to do a podcast last night for t...
21/03/2026

I would like to send a big thank you to the Equine Podiatry Association for inviting me to do a podcast last night for their members.

Working in both the Equine and human space can be challenging due to both species emotional responses and understanding why we both feel or behave the way we do.

I hope it helps their members and it was a new experience for me too.

Spreading the messages from the horses on how to be and balancing our mind and body.

I am always grateful to my boy for taking me on this journey.

The best of teachers, Frosty ❤️

20/03/2026

Sometimes life gently nudges you…
and sometimes it asks you to take a leap

We are moving Kindred Spirits to a new home 🐴

Our current space has held so much over the years - growth, connection, quiet moments, and so many special memories 💛

And now, we’re stepping forward into something new…
something that feels even more aligned with who we are becoming ✨

🌳 A space for the herd to continue living as naturally as possible
🌳 A space for us to grow and evolve
🌳 A space to build something calm and true to our values

To our community - thank you for trusting us and being part of this journey. Kindred Spirits wouldn't be what it is without you all 🤍

To our horses — as always, you lead the way 🦄✨

When something no longer fits, you have to be brave enough to grow.

We’ll be sharing more about the new space and what’s to come very soon…

but for now, we’re holding this moment with gratitude and excitement ⭐️

Here’s to new beginnings 😀

EquineCoach and Kindred Spirits - Equine Track System  have some very exciting news 😀 We are moving location mid April f...
19/03/2026

EquineCoach and Kindred Spirits - Equine Track System have some very exciting news 😀

We are moving location mid April from Gilmorton to just outside Hallaton.

This makes us more central for our clients.

The opportunity means our support herd of 5 will have 3 times more space. There are many other benefits for their health and well-being too.

It also opens the way for the longer term healing centre we always dreamed of, incorporating different holistic therapies and collaborations. So watch this space!

Facilities will be limited for the foreseeable, as we build a new track, shelters and human Facilities, but plans are in place.

We will certainly have a loo from day 1 😆.

We will look forward to seeing existing and new clients at our new home.

Ill certainly share some moving day clips.

Im very excited about launching our spring and summer mini sessions once the horses are settled in May.

- Opportunities for little humans
- Foraging and learning about the local herbs and how they help humans and horses.
- Finding Peace sessions with the herd

And more!

In the meantime we are still continuing with client sessions in a variety of ways.
121's, online, work with your own horse.

April slots will be limited due to the move and horses and humans adjusting.

Get in touch if you would like to know more ready for May.

Equine Facilitated Learning, Somatic emotional work, Forest Therapy style therapy and Reiki, all combined to offer a unique journey in understanding and working through emotions and mental health issues.

16/03/2026

Most people look at a horse standing alone in a paddock and think it looks peaceful. Quiet. Still.

We tend to read stillness in horses as contentment. But stillness, for a prey animal whose survival evolved around constant social awareness and contact, can mean something very different.

Horses are not solitary animals who simply tolerate company. They are highly social animals whose brains and nervous systems developed within the structure of a herd. The herd is not enrichment. It is not a lifestyle preference. It is the environment their biology is adapted for.

What does the herd acutally do?

In natural conditions horses spend the majority of their day in the presence of other horses, constantly receiving and transmitting information. The herd functions as an extraordinarily efficient awareness network.

When one horse lifts its head and focuses on something in the distance, others notice. A pause in chewing. An ear turning toward a sound. A shift in posture. These small signals travel through the group almost instantly. Often the information moves before the horse who first noticed the change has even taken a step.

A horse in a herd is never completely off duty. But it is also never carrying the responsibility for safety alone.

This shared vigilance matters more than many people realise. When several horses are scanning the environment, each individual can afford to relax more deeply. The nervous system is not working in isolation. The responsibility for detecting danger is distributed across the group.

That is one of the quiet gifts of herd living. A horse grazing with companions can allow its body to settle in a way that a horse standing alone cannot fully achieve.

But the herd teaches far more than awareness of predators. It teaches regulation.

Horses are highly sensitive to the physiological states of those around them. Research suggests that the presence of calm, familiar companions can influence stress markers such as heart rate and heart rate variability in other horses nearby. The nervous system does not operate in isolation. It responds to the emotional tone of the group.

In simple terms, horses regulate together.

Equine social structure has often been described as a rigid pecking order maintained through aggression. In reality stable herds function more like a system of shared decision making.

Older or more confident horses tend to carry more responsibility for assessing potential threats and deciding when the group moves or investigates something new. Younger or more uncertain horses benefit from following those decisions rather than constantly evaluating risk on their own.

This reduces cognitive load. Instead of every horse having to independently interpret every stimulus, the group distributes that work.

Young horses learn this by watching.

A plastic bag blows across a field. An experienced mare pauses, investigates, and returns to grazing. The youngsters nearby absorb that response. Over time the herd teaches them what deserves energy and what does not.

Play is another important part of this process, particularly for foals and young horses. Through chasing, mock sparring, and social games, young horses develop coordination, social boundaries, and the ability to regulate excitement and stress in the presence of others.

These lessons happen continuously through observation, interaction, and proximity. They cannot be fully replicated by even the most skilled human handler.

Social living is not only about proximity. Horses also seek tactile interaction with one another.

Mutual grooming is one of the most obvious examples. Horses will stand head to tail, gently nibbling along the neck, withers, or back of a trusted companion. Studies have linked this behaviour with reduced heart rate and increased release of oxytocin, a hormone associated with bonding and stress reduction.

These moments are not random. Horses tend to groom specific partners, often forming strong pair bonds within the wider herd.

Horses also rely heavily on scent in their social communication. Greeting rituals often involve breath to breath contact and investigation of scent cues that help horses recognise familiar companions and assess social information.

Many horse owners have seen the strength of these attachments. The horse who grazes beside the same companion every day. The quiet distress when a bonded horse is moved or lost. These relationships are part of the social fabric that supports equine wellbeing.

Let's talk about the cost of social isolation...

When horses are removed from consistent social contact we remove the context their nervous systems evolved within.

The effects are not always obvious. Often they are subtle and easily misinterpreted.

Stereotypic behaviours such as weaving, crib biting, and box walking occur more frequently in horses who experience restricted social interaction. These repetitive patterns are widely understood as coping mechanisms for chronic stress rather than signs of boredom or stubbornness.

Training difficulties can appear as well.

A horse who spends much of its time regulating itself alone may approach work with a higher baseline level of arousal. The mental energy that could be used for curiosity or learning is already being spent maintaining internal stability.

Some horses raised without consistent social models also struggle to interpret the environment accurately. Without experienced companions demonstrating which stimuli are safe to ignore, neutral objects can feel threatening. The horse who appears endlessly spooky or overwhelmed is often described as a training challenge. Sometimes the roots of that behaviour are social rather than technical.

Early life experience matters here as well. Foals and young horses raised with limited herd interaction often miss critical opportunities to develop social skills, emotional regulation, and environmental confidence through the presence of older horses.

Social living exists on a spectrum. It is important to acknowledge that not all horses live under identical circumstances.

A horse kept completely alone with no visual or physical contact with others is in a very different situation from a horse who can see, smell, and interact with neighbours across a fence, or one who shares space with a compatible companion animal. Many owners work within real world limitations and do the best they can for their horses.

Individual variation also exists. Some horses appear to tolerate reduced social contact better than others, particularly those with calm temperaments or long histories of stable companionship earlier in life.

Understanding the social nature of the species is not about assigning blame. It is about recognising what horses evolved to expect so that we can move closer to that model wherever possible.

Before we ask why a horse is anxious, reactive, difficult to settle, or constantly on edge, there is a simple question that is often overlooked.

What does that horse's social life actually look like?

Not whether it technically has another horse somewhere nearby, but whether it has consistent relationships with other horses it can see, approach, and interact with freely.

A horse that can glance across a field and see a calm companion grazing is receiving information its nervous system actively uses.

For horses the herd is not an optional extra. It is the environment in which they learn how to interpret the world, regulate their bodies, and develop social understanding.

When that structure is missing we do not only change where a horse lives. We change the conditions under which its mind is expected to function.

And sometimes the quiet horse standing alone in a paddock is not peaceful at all. Sometimes quiet is simply what happens when an animal learns that it must manage the world by itself.

If this made you think about your own horse's social life, we would love to hear your thoughts.

Stress: Living on high alert.Emotional responses: Anger, Frustration, Anxiety, Highly reactive. Physical responses: Fati...
15/03/2026

Stress: Living on high alert.

Emotional responses: Anger, Frustration, Anxiety, Highly reactive.

Physical responses: Fatigue, Muscle pain, Headaches, Heart issues, Gut disease, Breathing problems.

We can help you regulate and build resilience, take back control of your emotions.

Book either a full or half day on our collaboration workshop with EquineCoach and Spiritual conversations Matthew Bryan 22nd March

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An afternoon off 😁A doze in the straw with the herd.Woke up to this little guy watching over me.Thank you Tiger ❤️
15/03/2026

An afternoon off 😁

A doze in the straw with the herd.

Woke up to this little guy watching over me.

Thank you Tiger ❤️

14/03/2026

NEXT MEDIUMSHIP NIGHT DATE CONFIRMED FOR LEICESTERSHIRE
Wednesday 25th March at BROOKSBY COLLEGE Melton Mowbray
19.00-21.00 Animal and Human Mediumship bringing messages and Guidance from loved ones passed over
£15pp Please pm or email matt76bryan@gmail.com to book your space

From enquiries about the 'Finding Balance in a Chaotic World ' collaboration Event on 22nd March with EquineCoach and Sp...
14/03/2026

From enquiries about the 'Finding Balance in a Chaotic World ' collaboration Event on 22nd March with EquineCoach and Spiritual conversations Matthew Bryan, we have now added a half day option for those who may be anxious about a full day commitment.

Simply select the full or half day via the booking link. We look forward to seeing you.

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The work we do at EquineCoach isn't just restricted to those dealing with diagnosed issues or trapped emotion.This week ...
09/03/2026

The work we do at EquineCoach isn't just restricted to those dealing with diagnosed issues or trapped emotion.

This week I had a road trip to work with a client and her own horse.

Our horses are very affected by our thoughts, emotional state and the resulting energy or vibration we give off. They will mirror back at us what we need to become aware of and change. As we make changes, so will they.

By working on us we can often resolve what we see as 'problems' with our horses.

I now work with several clients and their own horses. A recent review shows the value of this work on both the human/horse relationship as well as taking the tools and techniques and applying them to our everyday lives.

We educate on how human and horses work instinctively so you can understand how we impact each other.

We teach how to work in your body and be present as the horses are, which raises our awareness of their behaviour to us.

We support and guide through changes.

If you would like to know more about how we can help you and your horse, or would like to book a no obligation introduction session, then please get in touch via WhatsApp.

Happy to have a call to answer questions.

Equine Facilitated Learning, Somatic work

Catch up on our live Q&A about the up and coming collaboration Event on 22nd March. Book here https://bookwhen.com/equin...
08/03/2026

Catch up on our live Q&A about the up and coming collaboration Event on 22nd March.

Book here https://bookwhen.com/equinecoach =ev-swpav-20260322100000

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