22/12/2025
💖💖 Merry Christmas 💖💖
To all my lovely followers and lurkers 😃
I wanted to wish you a very Merry Christmas, however you celebrate. I have seen many posts on social media from very stressed-out mums, feeling overwhelmed and looking to make the day special. Even more heartbreaking are those who are upset that they cannot afford the frills this year due to financial constraints.
If you are reading this, please be assured that children remember the feeling, the little moments, and love shared, not the expensive toys.
As a medium who has read for God only knows how many people over the years, the most cherished memories brought by Spirit have always been being with family, playing games, and the funny moments.
In my experience, I never had presents at Christmas growing up in Malaysia, as it wasn't part of the tradition then. I remember the fruit cake from England sent by my father's friend, being able to drink as many fizzy drinks as I wanted, sneaky sips of whisky and beer when I was a teen, and the time with my family.
I look back at these times with both fondness and sadness. It was the time we were all together, and yet I was sad that most of them are now gone.
Time passes so quick, so cherish every moment with your loved ones. At the end, this is all that matters.
There is no rule on how to celebrate Christmas. Do what you want to do, and what you can.
If you are grieving, then please be gentle with yourself. My husband and I are still reeling over the loss of our beloved Skye. I could write a book on this little budgie who taught us so much about resilience and second chances. We miss her so much and wish she were here to celebrate our first Christmas in our new house. I know she is around us and the budgies.
Sending you all loads of love and wishing you the best,
Angela
