03/01/2025
What a tough few weeks!
This is my third baby, and third baby I have breastfed. BUT I’ve learnt that no matter how many children you have each one is entirely different! William had a tongue tie which has been snipped twice. We are now at 6 weeks old and finally feel that we have nailed it. But it’s been hard, really hard.
I want to share the reality of how hard it has been. It has hurt, been painful and there were times along the way that I was about to “give up” and give him a top up of formula. In the end I didn’t need to. I have learnt and want to tell all mums out there that there is never a right or wrong and never to feel like a failure if you do need to give a top up (sometimes it’s needed for your own sanity!)… I think the pressure was created by me. But it was the same pressure and determination that probably has brought me to where I am now!
Feeding your baby no matter what method is hard work, but what you need is reminding that you are doing an amazing job! Keep going!!!
I found that the amazing support from local groups, pages and one of my friends has really kept me going! I also have the most amazing health visitor… Michelle is so encouraging and relaxed it has made me more confident and given me the boost to get me through (especially when other health professionals were quite frankly flapping!!!)
My message today… get to know your baby and your own body, take it easy on yourself and be confident in whatever decision you make!!!