
22/08/2025
"What should I wear to a funeral?"
Traditionally, wearing black or dark clothing is a way of showing respect and mourning. It’s still the most common choice — smart, subdued, and understated.
While black is still traditional, many families now choose something more personal and meaningful to them.
💙 Some families choose a particular colour – often a favourite of their loved one, or a colour of their favourite sports team.
💛 Others encourage bright clothing to reflect a life well lived, rather than a purely sombre occasion.
🧥 And sometimes, the message is simply: “Come as you are.”
The most important thing is always to respect the wishes of the family. If there’s a dress code, it’s usually shared in the funeral notice or by word of mouth — but if you’re unsure, it’s perfectly okay to ask.
Whatever you wear, what matters most is your presence, your support, and the care you bring by showing up.
If you ever have questions like this or feel unsure about any part of a funeral, please don’t hesitate to reach out — we’re always here to help.
What colours or themes have you opted for at your loved ones funeral?
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