Successful in Love

Successful in Love Break free from unhealthy or unhappy relationships to feel secure, loved and confident and heal past heartbreak and trauma with the Epic Love Method

As human beings we all crave love and connection. Sadly, we do not live in a world that provides healthy role models or teachings about how to love in respectful, lasting and compassionate ways. The sole purpose of Love With Clarity is to provide knowledge, insights and tools that gently guides us towards a deeper understanding of how to love, let ourselves be loved and create loving and lasting relationships - with others and ourselves.

Can you relate!? So many of my clients struggle with doubts about their relationship.And so many can’t quite figure out ...
11/10/2025

Can you relate!? So many of my clients struggle with doubts about their relationship.

And so many can’t quite figure out why they have doubts or what to do about them.

Can they change their partner?
Can they change themselves?
Can they learn to settle?

It’s a difficult time full of overthinking, worrying and sleepless nights.

My ‘Stay Or Go’ program aims to help you decide what to do next to stop going back and forth.

In it we explore the root causes of relationship distress and disconnection.

We answer questions like:

💔 Are we incompatible?
💔 Do we want different things from life?
💔 Can I put up with my partner not wanting s*x or being affectionate?
💔 Why do I struggle to open up and relax in my relationship?
💔 I feel more like a parent than a partner.
💔 What do I do about my emotionally unavailable partner?

And many more like this …

This is THE program I needed when I struggled to decide whether I wanted to stay in my relationship or not.

What I love the most is that I also share the exact practices you need to try to save the relationship so if it doesn’t work, you know that you have tried everything.

It’s the most practical and effective course I have created to date and I can’t wait for you to benefit from everything I have learnt in my personal life and in 10+ years of experience of working with individuals and couples.

🔥DM me SOG for more info on my Stay Or Go program..

With Love, Marlena

Do you want to find out how to prepare to leave your relationship without guilt, overwhelm and regret?🚪 DM me ‘LEAVE’ to...
09/10/2025

Do you want to find out how to prepare to leave your relationship without guilt, overwhelm and regret?

🚪 DM me ‘LEAVE’ to find out how to leave a relationship you’ve outgrown or that simply isn’t good for you without feeling guilt, overwhelmed or going back and forth.
💥 DM me SOG to find out about the STAY OR GO program and identify the exact cause of your relationship doubts and problems so you can fix what doesn’t work or leave knowing you did what you could 💥
❤️ If you prefer to work with me, DM me ‘1-1’ to get started with a customised and highly effective approach that brings you clarity, healing and strategy that works in real-life relationships ❤️

With Love, Marlena

“Should I Stay Or Should I Go?”If that’s a question you often ask yourself in your relationship, then my Stay Or Go prog...
08/10/2025

“Should I Stay Or Should I Go?”

If that’s a question you often ask yourself in your relationship, then my Stay Or Go program is perfect for you!

Together we’ll go through a 4 step process to figure out

🔥 how you and your partner are incompatible and if there are any dealbreakers you might be ignoring

🔥 whether your emotional connection is compromised and what you can do about it

🔥 whether you’re trapped in a doomed dynamic that’s never going to go anywhere

🔥 if you have inner love blocks that sabotage your relationship without you knowing

❤️ To find out if you can turn your relationship around or whether you are with someone who keeps you trapped in an unhealthy pattern, message me ‘SOG’ for info on my program.

DM me ‘5 QUESTIONS’ to get my free guide on what to ask yourself when you’re wondering whether you should stay or go.

⭐️ To enquire about working with me 1-1, please message me ‘1-1’ for more info.

With Love, Marlena

Leaving is a process. I know this. I have lived it. I help my clients navigate it.Pressure is the last thing we need whe...
07/10/2025

Leaving is a process. I know this. I have lived it. I help my clients navigate it.

Pressure is the last thing we need when we are full of doubt, fear and pain.

And so, together, we walk a different path. We find a different way.

Let’s take our first step, together.

You are not alone.

With Love, Marlena

🥰 DM me ‘1-1’ to get the support you need today to figure out what to do next in the best, possible way for you.

🧳 DM me ‘LEAVE’ to watch the masterclass that will teach you how to leave your relationship without guilt, regret, drama and overwhelm.

06/10/2025

Getting triggered in your relationship? Want to figure out how to make it stop? Or worried you’re with the wrong person? Or worse, that they are toxic?

Message me the word ‘TRIGGERED’ so I can send you the link to my free masterclass ‘Triggered by Love’ in which you’ll find out

🔥 What it actually means when you get triggered
🔥 What to do when you get triggered
🔥 How to use your triggers to break free from unhealthy relationship patterns
🔥 How to put yourself back in control and grow more confident in your relationship and overall

And then when you’ve got lots of value and understanding about what’s going on for you, you can uplevel to the “Am I Too Anxious Or Is My Partner Toxic?” masterclass.

Are you ready to uplevel your love life and heal your heart to call in real love?!

Let’s do this! 🙌🏻❤️

With Love, Marlena

“Should I stay or should I go? Something doesn’t just feel right anymore and I don’t know if I can stay for much longer ...
03/10/2025

“Should I stay or should I go? Something doesn’t just feel right anymore and I don’t know if I can stay for much longer …”

So many of my clients struggle with doubts about their relationship.

And so many can’t quite figure out why they have doubts or what to do about them.

Can they change their partner?
Can they change themselves?
Can they learn to settle?

It’s a difficult time full of overthinking, worrying and sleepless nights.

My ‘Stay Or Go’ program aims to help you decide what to do next to stop going back and forth.

In it we explore the root causes of relationship distress and disconnection.

We answer questions like:

💔 Are we incompatible?
💔 Do we want different things from life?
💔 Can I put up with my partner not wanting s*x or being affectionate?
💔 Why do I struggle to open up and relax in my relationship?
💔 I feel more like a parent than a partner.
💔 What do I do about my emotionally unavailable partner?

And many more like this …

This is THE program I needed when I struggled to decide whether I wanted to stay in my relationship or not.

What I love the most is that I also share the exact practices you need to try to save the relationship so if it doesn’t work, you know that you have tried everything.

It’s the most practical and effective course I have created to date and I can’t wait for you to benefit from everything I have learnt in my personal life and in 10+ years of experience of working with individuals and couples.

🔥DM me SOG for more info on my Stay Or Go program.

With Love, Marlena

It’s tough not being sure whether you’re in the right relationship or not.You keep thinking about it. It gets hard to fo...
02/10/2025

It’s tough not being sure whether you’re in the right relationship or not.

You keep thinking about it. It gets hard to focus on anything else. You hate feeling like this! And yet, you can’t stop it.

What is wrong?!

That’s the question that’s often hard to answer. Here are 4 common causes:

💔 Dealbreakers and Incompatibilities

What are you not willing to look at?
How are you putting up with too much?
What just isn’t working?

☠️ Doomed Dynamics

Sometimes we bring out the worst in each other.

Sometimes we fall into old roles and unhealthy patterns.

When that happens, love cannot thrive or survive.

🚫 Love Blocks

When there is unhealed trauma, there is self-sabotage because we just don’t feel worthy or safe of receiving what we want to receive.

That’s when we stand in our own way or when our coping strategies make us act in ways that make our worst fears come true.

😖 Intimacy Gap

You just don’t seem to be able to connect anymore. There is a distance, a weirdness, a lack of comfort. Maybe you’ve stopped having s*x. Maybe you still argue about it. Maybe you can’t talk to each other without arguing. Maybe you make each wrong for feeling how you feel or wanting what you want. Whatever it is, the Intimacy Gap is destroying your relationship and causing you to have doubts.

DM me SOG to find out about the STAY OR GO program and identify the exact cause of your relationship doubts and problems so you can fix what doesn’t work or leave knowing you did what you could.

If you prefer to work with me, DM me ‘1-1’ to get started with a customised and highly effective approach that brings you clarity, healing and strategy that works in real-life relationships.

With Love, Marlena

It hurts when your partner thinks badly of you.Bu what I have learnt is that you can’t fight other people’s perceptions ...
01/10/2025

It hurts when your partner thinks badly of you.

Bu what I have learnt is that you can’t fight other people’s perceptions and interpretations. Those are simply not within your control.

So where does that leave you when your partner doesn’t see the good in you or interprets what you do in negative ways?

Let me know in the comments below.

With Love, Marlena

With Thanks

Partner choice matters.“What if you cannot have the relationship experience you want because of who you’ve chosen to be ...
01/10/2025

Partner choice matters.

“What if you cannot have the relationship experience you want because of who you’ve chosen to be in a relationship with?”

That’s a tough question most people don’t dare to ask themselves.

Instead, they continue to struggle on, suffer in silence and go without what they want or need and what they could have if they allowed themselves to ask the tough questions and act on the hard answers.

This is not what you need to do!

You can find out whether you should stay or go first by identifying incompatibilities, love block and skills shortages. DM me ‘SOG’ to find out more about how to do this.

And if you then need to, you can learn to leave without overwhelm, guilt, regret and drama. DM me ‘LEAVE” for more info on the super-effective masterclass that will teach you how to.

With Love, Marlena

It is completely natural to sometimes struggle in your relationship.What is not healthy or helpful is to struggle alone ...
29/09/2025

It is completely natural to sometimes struggle in your relationship.

What is not healthy or helpful is to struggle alone it to tolerate the situation without putting in adequate effort to find a solution that works.

Your relationship is too valuable to waste!

It deeply impacts your health, your wellbeing and your happiness.

Your relationship should be and can be a source of tremendous support and joy in your life.

But not many of us were taught how to create deep connection and lasting intimacy.

When we begin to sense any sign of disconnection, we can fall into (unconscious and) unhelpful patterns of the past that lead to a lot of conflict, drama or withdrawal.

That’s when our relationship starts to whither away and relationship doubts begin to consume us.

But it doesn’t have to be that way!

I help my private clients to uncover the cause of their relationship challenge, implement practical, proactive and empowering solutions that work just for them and their partner and relationship doubts once and for all.

If we find that they are in an unhealthy relationship, we develop a customised healing strategy and an exit plan together.

Whatever it is you’re struggling with, you are not alone and help is available for you.

DM me ‘1-1’ for more information on how we can work together.

With Love, Marlena

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Love with Clarity is a secure base for men and women who struggle with codependency, insecure attachment and CPTSD which stop them from having the loving and healthy relationships they crave to have with themselves and others.

Here we focus on:


  • recovering our ‘lost’ selves

  • making sense of our struggles