Successful in Love

Successful in Love Break free from unhealthy or unhappy relationships to feel secure, loved and confident and heal past heartbreak and trauma with the Epic Love Method

As human beings we all crave love and connection. Sadly, we do not live in a world that provides healthy role models or teachings about how to love in respectful, lasting and compassionate ways. The sole purpose of Love With Clarity is to provide knowledge, insights and tools that gently guides us towards a deeper understanding of how to love, let ourselves be loved and create loving and lasting relationships - with others and ourselves.

Do fights with your partner leave you feeling anxious, insecure, and like you’re constantly on edge?  You’re not alone! ...
03/09/2025

Do fights with your partner leave you feeling anxious, insecure, and like you’re constantly on edge? You’re not alone! Many amazing couples struggle with emotional triggers.

The good news? You don’t have to live in this constant state of frustration! There’s a way to stop feeling like a ticking time bomb and build a stronger, more secure relationship.

Introducing my masterclass: “Triggered by Love.” In this powerful training, you’ll discover:

⭐️ Why you get triggered in the first place (hint: it’s not always your partner’s fault!)

⭐️ Actionable steps to transform your emotional response and stop feeling hijacked by your feelings.

⭐️ Powerful tools to communicate effectively and build deeper connection with your partner.

⭐️ The secret to taking back control of your emotional experience and creating a calmer, happier relationship.

Here’s the best part: This transformation starts with YOU! ✨ You don’t have to wait for your partner to change.

Ready to stop feeling triggered and start feeling loved?

🔥DM me “TRIGGERED” to sign up for this masterclass and take the first step towards a more fulfilling relationship! 🔥

This could be the missing piece you’ve been searching for. Don’t miss out!

With Love, Marlena

Feeling Like You’re Walking on Eggshells in Your Relationship? (There’s Hope!)Do fights with your partner leave you feel...
02/09/2025

Feeling Like You’re Walking on Eggshells in Your Relationship? (There’s Hope!)

Do fights with your partner leave you feeling anxious, insecure, and like you’re constantly on edge? You’re not alone! Many amazing couples struggle with emotional triggers.

The good news? You don’t have to live in this constant state of frustration! There’s a way to stop feeling like a ticking time bomb and build a stronger, more secure relationship.

Introducing my masterclass: “Triggered by Love.” In this powerful training, you’ll discover:

⭐️ Why you get triggered in the first place (hint: it’s not always your partner’s fault!)

⭐️ Actionable steps to transform your emotional response and stop feeling hijacked by your feelings.

⭐️ Powerful tools to communicate effectively and build deeper connection with your partner.

⭐️ The secret to taking back control of your emotional experience and creating a calmer, happier relationship.

Here’s the best part: This transformation starts with YOU! ✨ You don’t have to wait for your partner to change.

Ready to stop feeling triggered and start feeling loved?

🔥DM me “TRIGGERED” to sign up for this masterclass and take the first step towards a more fulfilling relationship! 🔥

This could be the missing piece you’ve been searching for. Don’t miss out!

With Love, Marlena

What’s your note? Lmk ⬇️DM me ‘LEAVE’ to find out how to leave a relationship you’ve outgrown or that simply isn’t good ...
29/08/2025

What’s your note? Lmk ⬇️

DM me ‘LEAVE’ to find out how to leave a relationship you’ve outgrown or that simply isn’t good for you without feeling guilty, overwhelmed or going back and forth.

With Love, Marlena

How is speaking your truth difficult for you? Let me know in the comments below 🚪 DM me ‘LEAVE’ to find out how to leave...
28/08/2025

How is speaking your truth difficult for you? Let me know in the comments below 🚪 DM me ‘LEAVE’ to find out how to leave a relationship you’ve outgrown or that simply isn’t good for you without feeling guilt, overwhelmed or going back and forth.
💥 DM me SOG to find out about the STAY OR GO program and identify the exact cause of your relationship doubts and problems so you can fix what doesn’t work or leave knowing you did what you could 💥
❤️ If you prefer to work with me, DM me ‘1-1’ to get started with a customised and highly effective approach that brings you clarity, healing and strategy that works in real-life relationships ❤️

With Love, Marlena

I invite you to work with me to heal heartbreak or to support your through your unique relationship challenge.Letting go...
26/08/2025

I invite you to work with me to heal heartbreak or to support your through your unique relationship challenge.

Letting go can be a painful process - but you don’t have to do it alone.

You deserve to be chosen and loved for who you are.

If someone is unable to do that, then they are not the right person for you.

How do you know if someone cannot truly love you:

💔 They’ll choose drama and conflict over connection.
💔 They don’t prioritise you.
💔 They make decisions without you as if you didn’t matter.
💔 They have unrealistic expectations and need you to meet them instead of loving you for who you are.
💔 Their insecurities will dominate your relationship and you’ll feel like you have to walk on eggshells around them.
💔 They are unwilling to see how they contribute to a relationship problem and instead blame it all on you and thereby make you the bad guy while feeling hard done by.

These are not healthy dynamics.

They stop you from feeling safe and being safe for each other, connecting, building a solid foundation for a shared life and being each other’s source of comfort.

Let’s figure out together what you should do next.

🔥 DM me ‘1-1’ for more info on how we can do that 🔥

With Love, Marlena

We feel best when we get to love with an open heart.The aim in relationships is therefore to cultivate an environement t...
19/08/2025

We feel best when we get to love with an open heart.

The aim in relationships is therefore to cultivate an environement that allows you to feel safe, secure and calm enough to stay open-hearted.

Knowing that, what does that change for you?

What are the things that make you close your heart?

How can you help your partner to stay more open-hearted?

How can you both cultivate a relationship environment that brings out the best in both of you, lets you love in peace and open your hearts to each other in ways you’ve never done before?

With Love, Marlena



How have double standards shown up in your relationship and how did you deal with it? Let me know in the comments below ...
18/08/2025

How have double standards shown up in your relationship and how did you deal with it? Let me know in the comments below ⬇️

I invite you to work with me to heal heartbreak or to support your through your unique relationship challenge.

Letting go can be a painful process - but you don’t have to do it alone.

You deserve to be chosen and loved for who you are.

If someone is unable to do that, then they are not the right person for you.

How do you know if someone cannot truly love you:

💔 They’ll choose drama and conflict over connection.
💔 They don’t prioritise you.
💔 They make decisions without you as if you didn’t matter.
💔 They have unrealistic expectations and need you to meet them instead of loving you for who you are.
💔 Their insecurities will dominate your relationship and you’ll feel like you have to walk on eggshells around them.
💔 They are unwilling to see how they contribute to a relationship problem and instead blame it all on you and thereby make you the bad guy while feeling hard done by.

These are not healthy dynamics.

They stop you from feeling safe and being safe for each other, connecting, building a solid foundation for a shared life and being each other’s source of comfort.

Let’s figure out together what you should do next.

🔥 DM me ‘1-1’ for more info on how we can do that 🔥

With Love, Marlena

What’s something your partner does that drives you crazy and makes you worry that you can’t stay in a relationship with ...
15/08/2025

What’s something your partner does that drives you crazy and makes you worry that you can’t stay in a relationship with them?

Let me know in the comments below?

With Love, Marlena

It is completely natural to sometimes struggle in your relationship.What is not healthy or helpful is to struggle alone ...
13/08/2025

It is completely natural to sometimes struggle in your relationship.

What is not healthy or helpful is to struggle alone it to tolerate the situation without putting in adequate effort to find a solution that works.

Your relationship is too valuable to waste!

It deeply impacts your health, your wellbeing and your happiness.

Your relationship should be and can be a source of tremendous support and joy in your life.

But not many of us were taught how to create deep connection and lasting intimacy.

When we begin to sense any sign of disconnection, we can fall into (unconscious and) unhelpful patterns of the past that lead to a lot of conflict, drama or withdrawal.

That’s when our relationship starts to whither away and relationship doubts begin to consume us.

But it doesn’t have to be that way!

I help my private clients to uncover the cause of their relationship challenge, implement practical, proactive and empowering solutions that work just for them and their partner and relationship doubts once and for all.

If we find that they are in an unhealthy relationship, we develop a customised healing strategy and an exit plan together.

Whatever it is you’re struggling with, you are not alone and help is available for you.

DM me ‘1-1’ for more information on how we can work together.

With Love, Marlena



Massive Thanks to and ❤️❤️

What other positive input can you think of? Let me know in the comments below ⬇️ I invite you to work with me to heal he...
12/08/2025

What other positive input can you think of? Let me know in the comments below ⬇️

I invite you to work with me to heal heartbreak or to support your through your unique relationship challenge.

Letting go can be a painful process - but you don’t have to do it alone.

You deserve to be chosen and loved for who you are.

If someone is unable to do that, then they are not the right person for you.

How do you know if someone cannot truly love you:

💔 They’ll choose drama and conflict over connection.
💔 They don’t prioritise you.
💔 They make decisions without you as if you didn’t matter.
💔 They have unrealistic expectations and need you to meet them instead of loving you for who you are.
💔 Their insecurities will dominate your relationship and you’ll feel like you have to walk on eggshells around them.
💔 They are unwilling to see how they contribute to a relationship problem and instead blame it all on you and thereby make you the bad guy while feeling hard done by.

These are not healthy dynamics.

They stop you from feeling safe and being safe for each other, connecting, building a solid foundation for a shared life and being each other’s source of comfort.

Let’s figure out together what you should do next.

🔥 DM me ‘1-1’ for more info on how we can do that 🔥

With Love, Marlena

Maybe you know that you’re being disrespected but you’re not ready to walk away (yet).Maybe have walked away from a rela...
07/08/2025

Maybe you know that you’re being disrespected but you’re not ready to walk away (yet).

Maybe have walked away from a relationship you had hoped would work out but simply doesn’t.

Walking away from someone who disrespects you is hard no matter what but it definitely gets easier the more ‘normal’ this becomes to you.

It’s never too late to start.

You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who respects and loves you.

That also starts with you.

Choose yourself by protecting yourself from people who do not have your best interest at heart or treat you badly.

With Thanks 💐

With Love, Marlena

What sentence got you? Add a new one if you can! 🥰⬇️ (with Thanks )                                                     ...
05/08/2025

What sentence got you? Add a new one if you can! 🥰⬇️ (with Thanks )

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Love with Clarity is a secure base for men and women who struggle with codependency, insecure attachment and CPTSD which stop them from having the loving and healthy relationships they crave to have with themselves and others.

Here we focus on:


  • recovering our ‘lost’ selves

  • making sense of our struggles