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The Travel Psychologist is written by UK‑trained Psychologists who love exploring the world.

We provide trustworthy, psychologically informed content for self‑aware travellers who use their journeys to support wellbeing and personal growth.

24/04/2026

My guide to a short break in this warm and hospitable city

This article contains affiliate links. This means this blog will earn a small commission if you book through any of the included links, at no cost to you. Fes is one of Morocco’s four imperial cities, along with Marrakesh, Meknes and Rabat. The city is home to the largest medina in the country; a ...

22/04/2026

Cognitive labour is invisible until it isn’t. This week, I’m looking at what happens when one partner becomes the default planner — and how small shifts can ease resentment and restore balance.

"Dear Dr Charlotte I’m writing because I’ve realised that every holiday my partner and I take — whether it’s a weekend away or a two‑week trip abroad — somehow ends up resting on my shoulders. I’m the one who researches destinations, compares flights, checks hotel reviews, books restau...

19/04/2026

We often chase far‑flung adventures, but sometimes the deepest reset comes from staying closer to home.

A staycation invites us to rediscover the familiar with fresh eyes, creating space for rest, reflection, and gentle joy.

Psychologically, it’s a reminder that renewal is less about location, more about perspective.

Dr Charlotte Russell, Clinical Psychologist and Founder In a year shaped by geopolitical uncertainty and the sharp rise in airfares, many people are rethinking how they travel. The idea of a staycation, once seen as a compromise, is becoming an appealing and pragmatic choice for 2026. Travelling clo...

15/04/2026

Long‑distance relationships remove all the tiny daily reassurances we normally rely on. No wonder trust feels more fragile. This week’s letter looks at how to rebuild that sense of safety through communication, clarity and care.

"Dear Dr Charlotte, I’m in a long‑distance relationship and I’m struggling more than I expected. My partner and I have been together for three years, and we’ve spent the last eight months living in different countries because of work. We always said we were strong enough to handle the distan...

10/04/2026

Some moments stay with us not because they were planned, but because we were present enough to notice them.

In this guest post, trainee psychotherapist Kora Dietsche reflects on the quiet power of slow travel — and how moving at a gentler pace can open space for attention, connection and self‑discovery.

A beautiful read for anyone craving a different way to travel.

By Kora Dietsche, Trainee Psychotherapist and MSc Psychology graduate I enjoy travelling slowly, often by train or bus, on foot, and spending longer periods in one place when possible. I also often travel alone and value the variety, from day trips and multi-day hikes to several weeks or months in t...

08/04/2026

NEW: When a “generous” family holiday comes with unspoken rules, old roles, and gendered expectations, it stops feeling like a break. This week’s letter is about protecting your children, supporting your partner, and finding your voice in someone else’s house.

"Dear Dr Charlotte I’m a dad of two young children, and every summer we spend a chunk of our holiday at my in‑laws’ villa. On the surface, it’s a huge privilege — a beautiful place, no accommodation costs, and a chance for the kids to spend time with their grandparents. I am genuinely grat...

03/04/2026

Film tourism isn’t just about “seeing where something was filmed.” It’s a psychological pull: the stories that shaped us, the characters we grew up with, the places that feel familiar long before we arrive. From narrative transportation to parasocial bonds, screen locations can feel like stepping back into a world that once held us. But not all motivations are deep — some visits are simply for the photo. In this piece, I explore the full spectrum of why we travel to the places we’ve only ever seen on screen.

Dr Charlotte Russell, Clinical Psychologist and Founder The psychological pull of visiting film and TV locations is substantial. We can see just by the numbers that people are spending a lot of money and time visiting the places they've seen on screen: A 2021 BFI report found that two‑thirds of to...

01/04/2026

This week on Dear Dr Charlotte, we’re exploring a dilemma that so many women quietly carry: the judgement that comes with travelling solo when you’re married.

Why it provokes such strong reactions, what those comments really reveal, and how to stay grounded in the relationship you actually have — not the one others imagine.

A thoughtful one this week, and one I know will resonate with many.

"Dear Dr Charlotte I’m a married woman in my late thirties, and I’ve always loved travelling. It’s been part of who I am for as long as I can remember — the planning, the exploring, the feeling of being somewhere new. My husband is lovely and supportive, but he just doesn’t share the same ...

26/03/2026

NEW: Check out my guide to this atmospheric city that makes a great weekend break. Proving (including to me) that we don't always need a flight or a long time away to feel restored!

This guide contains affiliate links. This means that if you book through the links provided this blog may receive a small commission at no cost to you. York is one of those rare small cities that feels instantly transporting. Its city status dates back to its medieval importance, and you feel that h...

25/03/2026

Sometimes the hardest part of a holiday isn’t the planning — it’s the pressure we quietly put on ourselves to be the “easy” one, the flexible one, the one who keeps everyone happy.

If you’re afraid of letting your friends down on a trip, it’s rarely about the itinerary. It’s usually about old roles, unspoken expectations, and the fear of being “too much” when you finally need something different.

Here’s the truth:
You don’t ruin a holiday by having preferences, limits, or moments when you need space.
You ruin it by disappearing yourself to keep the peace.

Travelling with friends isn’t about performing ease.
It’s about being real, being human, and trusting that the friendship can hold it.

"Dear Dr Charlotte I’m writing because I’ve realised that one of the biggest sources of stress for me when I travel with friends isn’t the destination or the planning, it’s the fear of disappointing everyone. I love my friends, and they’re genuinely kind people. But when we go away togethe...

20/03/2026

NEW: You’re allowed to step away, refill, and return softer.

In her latest article, Elise Dyer unpacks the emotional weight of mum guilt — and why solo travel can be an act of care, not escape.

By Elise Dyer, Clinical Associate Psychologist & Clinical Lecturer I'm sitting in a café in Istanbul. The coffee is exceptional. The pastries are warm and buttery and everything a pastry should be. I'm alone, reading and not checking my phone constantly. I'm fully present in this moment. And immedi...

18/03/2026

Why do so many couples find themselves arguing on holiday — even when things feel steady at home?

This week’s Dear Dr Charlotte letter comes from someone who feels blindsided by the way tension seems to appear the moment the suitcase is zipped. What unfolds is something many people quietly experience: the pressure to “make the most of it,” the loss of routine, the unspoken expectations about what a “good trip” should look like.

In my response, I explore why travel can activate parts of us that stay quiet in everyday life, how mismatched assumptions shape the mood of a trip, and why none of this means your relationship is in trouble.

If holidays sometimes feel more emotionally complicated than you expected, this one might resonate.

"Dear Dr Charlotte, I’m writing because I’m confused by something that keeps happening when my partner and I go on holiday. At home, we get along well; we communicate, we laugh, we’re generally steady. But the moment we go away together, it’s as if some invisible switch flips. We start bicke...

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