18/10/2025
People talk often about matching others energy - I’ll match the energy you give me etc, I am ALL for everyone doing what feels right for them.
You see I’m a bit different in my response to others energy, even if you treat me s**tty I ain’t gunna match that, because for me I work hard, DAMN hard on myself, my issues and my shadows cus I don’t wanna be a s**tty person.
So what do I do instead? I distance.
You show me your truth in your actions and I’ll either meet you with respect or distance. When I tell you I work daily on myself I’m not joking, there is ALWAYS something to learn, something to understand or something to change.
So I won’t match s**t vibes, w**k energy or shady stuff, I’ll distance, I’ll pull back and I’ll protect myself. Oh and if necessary I’m not worried about returning to sender either 😉
What’s your perspective on energy matching / distancing?