27/08/2025
You have a horse that is objecting to being ridden.. what do you do?????
Is it just the riding or did the objection begin a long time before
Can't catch the horse
Uncomfortable being groomed
Head in the corner of the stable
Having to tie the rope a little shorter to avoid teeth
Ears back when the saddle appears
Biting when doing the grith
Tying up to get on
Refusing to stand still at the mounting block
Refusing to move forward
Rushing
Zoning out
Worried expression round as you move around the horse
So why is the horse is objecting so violently to having a rider on its back, did we miss all the signs that led upto the loud objection??? Now remember horses wants an easy life they would rather put up and shut up, their responses are so subtle that we may not even notice till the horse has escalated their response to usually a buck or a rear or worse a flip over, because now we feel uneasy and maybe even in danger with their actions.
We ignore so many signals, a tail swishing, ears back as we girth up a wobble as we sit in the saddle, a reluctance to move forward or a rushing to get it over with ,,we demonise these behaviours and use the words naughty, taking the mick, mareish, stubborn, lazy, fizzy, pyscho, (interesting we have more words for a horse that may not want to work than does) and funnily enough those of us who say "hey your horse may be uncomfortable " often get labelled as bunny hugger, to soft, crazy, and yep psycho!!!
If your horse feels unsafe on the ground then usually it means stay on the ground until it does feel safe, calm, relaxed, happy, and if it can't then investigate and keep investigating because what may be going on may be hidden from view.
We are programmed from a young age to stay on no matter what, we ooh and ahh at the riders ability yet forget to ask how the horse is coping, like we always go on about a partnership yet are both happy because I would imagine in that moment neither partner is.
It doesn't take a smart rider to stay on a bucking horse it takes a rider who can stay on, and horses will not fight something they can't shake off for long their bodies are not designed for it they will realise pretty quickly that there is no point, now what does the horse feel at this point does it feel relaxed, safe, happy or does it feel there is no way out no matter what it does.
Would you trust the problem has gone away or has it been shut down and waiting to resurface at some point...
And if your horse is putting up that much of a fight then you need to ask the question what is in it for the horse,,,we always seem to be amazed at the riders ability and maybe we are so mesmerised at we forget to actually look at the animal beneath,
When the fight stops what has the horse taken away from the experience for future rides??
If a horse is at a point of not even caring what happens to its own body then maybe its time to stop.